After a brief and private battle with cancer, Murray passed away peacefully at his home with Lori, and Matt on Tuesday, January 23, 2024, at the age of 71. Loving husband and perfect partner of Lori (Gill) Wickham for 41 years. Proud father and best friend of his son, Matt. Fondly remembered by his nieces and nephews. Predeceased by his parents Wilf Sr. and Keitha Wickham, his brother and golf buddy, Wilf Wickham, and big brother George Wickham. Quoted by his nephew, Nate Gill as “the best man I have ever known”.
Murray was an avid golfer and so enjoyed his forays with his golf buddies. He was blessed to enjoy many international travels since his retirement. Murray was kind, quietly generous, even tempered and patient to a fault.
Visitation will be held at Haskett Funeral Home, 223 Main Street, LUCAN on Friday from 2 – 4 and 6 – 8 PM, where Murray’s funeral service will be held on Saturday, January 27th at 11 AM. Cremation to follow with a private family interment Granton Cemetery at a later date.
Murray was passionate about those who struggled with food insecurity. Anything done with him in your heart to alleviate this in your community would be a blessing.
The family wishes to thank the Care Partners Palliative team, especially Joanne and Andrea for their dedication, care, and sincere compassion.
“Love knows not its own depth until the hour of separation” – Kahlil Gibran
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Jo-Anne Lounds
I was heartbroken to learn of the passing of Murray. The love , admiration, respect, kindness , laughter and adventures you shared as a family was truly remarkable. Sending hugs and love to you and Matt.
Pat Kenny
Lori I am shocked and sorrow filled. I held Murray in high regard and enjoyed our conversations at tax time. Please extend my condolences to Matt a wonderful young man.
Annette Sharp
Lori and Matt
We were very saddened to hear of your loss. Please accept our condolences. Know that you are in our thoughts and prayers
Barbara Cove
Lori I am just so very sorry to learn of your beloved Murray’s passing.
I always loved how your eyes twinkled and your smile broadened when you spoke about Murray and shared stories about your travels and adventures together…your love so pure and so very inspiring.
Please know I will be praying for you and Matt Lori.
Sending you the warmest virtual hug
Lori Francis
Lori and family,
Sending sincere condolences to you and your family during this very difficult time.
Lori Francis & Sandy Wilson
Kelly Dyer
Lori and Matt
I was sadden of the news of Murray’s passing. Murray was always so helpful and kind. It will leave a big hole in your heart that only time will be able to help with the pain. Know that we are thinking of you at this difficult time.
Kelly and Ron Dyer
Brenda Disher
We are so sorry to hear of Murray passing. We enjoyed the times spent with him over the years in Grand Bend. Golfing with Murray was a fun time.
Our condolences Lori and Matt.
Brenda and Bruce Disher
Lynn Fox Thomas
Sorry to hear of Murray’s passing. I remember him as a great guy with an incredible sense of humour and a wonderful laugh.
Linda Mills
Lori and Matt
Thinking of you during this very sad time. May the wonderful memories you made together as a family help you through the difficult days ahead. I remember him as a quiet but proud man. In my thoughts. Linda
David and Janice Mardling
Lori, Matt and the entire Wickham Family,
Please accept our heartfelt condolences on the loss of Murray. We will miss him dearly.
Dave and Janice Mardling
Kelly Hack
Dear Lori and Matt,
Sending our condolences for the loss of Murray. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Scott and Kelly Hack
Cliff and Val Thomson
Lori and Matt,
We are so sorry to hear of Murray’s passing. Sending prayers for comfort, strength and peace for you.
Robert and Sally Toews
We give you all our heartfelt condolence and our prayers. We love you and Jesus loves you and He will accompany you in this difficult part of life’s journey. Murray was a generous caregiver to our Company’s books! Thanks for everything. Wishing you many good memories.!
Bert Vens
Lori and Matt…my condolences to the family. It saddens me to relive this all over again.
Same scenario..
Murray was a fun guy to be with and good memories of his golfing with us.
B
Gloria Laird
My heart goes out to you and all that held Murray close to their heart. I am so sorry for your loss of your soul partner and best friend. I hold you in my thoughts and prayers and may you find some comfort and peace in all the beautiful memories of your life with such an incredible gentle soul.
DAVIVD& SHAREN NEWMAN
Lori and Matt we are so sorry to hear you lost dear Murray. We always looked forward to seeing him each year, and having a visit. God bless
Ruth Jackson
He was a very good and trusted friend to my dad and sister. That meant a lot to me. Peace and comfort to the family and friends.
Ruth Jackson.
Annelies
Murray is the epitome of the term gentleman as in gentle man. Always there to listen, help and laugh, especially with his friend my deceased Father. May they be laughing and chatting together now.
Bill and Marilyn Hack
Dear Lori and Matt,
We are so saddened to hear of Murray’s passing. He was a gentle sweet person and we are happy to have known him. Think of all the good memories and this sad time to help you cope. Our prayers are with you. Bill and Marilyn
Maggie and Marcel Laprade
Earth has lost a very special man …we will always remember his gentle soul… kindness, thoughtfulness, and quiet intelligence all expressed with a smile we loved to see. May his energy continue to rest in our hearts…Love to you both Lori and Matt.
Pete and Teri MacGregor
Lori and Matt
I can’t believe it. I read it today on Facebook. Our sincere sympathies go out to your family.
We know how it feels to lose someone you love so.
We are not home for Murray’s service but will be in touch when we get home.
Sending you hugs and love.
Leeann Maguire-Socholotiuk
I’m very sorry for your loss. Murray was an amazing man with a laugh that would make anyone smile and want to join in.
He will be missed by all.
Angie Morra
Lori and Matt, my thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. Blessings to you both and your family.
Carol Burrows
Lori I was shocked and saddened to see that Murray passed so young. You were such a perfect team. Keeping you and the family in my prayers. So happy that you have such wonderful memories. Hugs Carol
Mazur Kathy
I’m so terribly sorry for your loss !
Karen Dube
Dear Lori and Matt,
It was my pleasure to have met Murray. He exuded warmth and kindness, and was such a genuine, positive person. Your love for each other radiated throughout your home. Cherish all your memories.
Carolien Bane
Lori and Matt, please accept our sincere condolences with Murray’s passing. He was a quiet, good neighbour.
Our thoughts are with you at this sad time.
Sincerely
Pat and Carolien Bane
Barb Smith
OMG….Lori and Matt…we are so sorry to hear this sad news. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.
Remembering so many wonderful memories with you guys at the trailer…cards, Happy hours, Christmas makes me smile…
Lots of Love…Barb and Barry Smith
Jim and Marg Byatt
We are thinking of you after receiving this news tonight, and send our sincere condolences. We will miss sipping a rum (or two) with Murray at the Lake. Unfortunately, we are unable to attend the service.
You and Matt are in our thoughts and prayers at this time.
Jim and Maggie Byatt
Roberta Fox
I was sad to hear of Murray’s recent passing, but I am so glad that we had a chance to catch up last year at a Sing-Out event. During our times together in Sing-Out, he was my buddy and like a brother to me and stood beside me during some pretty rough times.
Sending Lori and Matt much love and support during these times.
Jeff Ste. Marie
Murray, aka Ollie, was a friend to many! I count myself ‘most blessed’ to be able to count him a close friend for over 50 years. We met as teenagers in 1970, caught up in the movement of ‘Up With People’ , which led to the creation of Sing Out London. That youthful zeal carried us into adulthood and I’m grateful we intentionally kept our friendship alive over the past 5 decades. I was honoured to stand up in your wedding party and wear our ‘bunny outfit’s’ at the reception. You have left us far too soon, but I ‘trust God still, that we will see each other again. Godspeed my dear friend.
Laurie McGinn
With profound sadness I extend my condolences to Lori and Matt – thank you for sharing your husband and father with me on several occasions – he was a gentleman with a twinkle in his eye and I am so grateful to have had the chance to line dance with him…joke with him…enjoy cagneys with him and have his famous breakfast McMuffin! Our rum cruise and beach laughs will forever be fond memories …you are a special guy my friend …I will miss you but will meet again ❤️
Roy & Jamie Broadbear
It’s been a blessing to know Murray for more than 50 years. He was a kind generous soul, always willing to help. He enriched our lives with his smile and that infectious laugh. We are all a little poorer for his passing.
Kim Rusin
Lori & Matt,
My deepest condolences on your loss. Murray’s smile, wit and patience will truly be missed by all.
Know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Wishing you peace to bring comfort, courage to face the days ahead and loving memories to forever hold in your hearts.