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OKE: Robert “Bob” Wesley of Kirkton

March 11, 2026 By Haskett Funeral Home 43 Condolences

OKE: Robert “Bob” Wesley of Kirkton

Passed away peacefully with family by his side at Jessica’s House, Exeter on Tuesday, March 10, 2026 at the age of 78. Beloved husband of Ann (Van Duyn) Oke for 56 years. Cherished father of Sheila and Peter Buwalda and Carrie and Shane Thomas. Adored grandfather of Emily (Luke), Erin, Matthew; Sara, and Cole. Dear brother and brother-in-law of Gordon Oke, Marion Oke, and Sharon Oke. Fondly remembered by his many extended family members. Predeceased by his siblings and siblings-in-law, Don Oke, Leona Oke, and Betty and Doug Cockerton and his parents James and Emily (Harrison) Oke.

Bob was a longtime employee of HMP and there wasn’t a car he couldn’t fix. He was someone who appreciated the simple pleasures of life. He enjoyed time on his A.T.V, camping, and taking pride in growing his garden. Above all, Bob cherished spending time with his family, creating many memories that will be treasured by those who knew and loved him.

Cremation has taken place. Visitation will be held at Haskett Funeral Home, 456 Main Street South, Exeter on Saturday March 14th from 12 – 1 PM. Bob’s funeral service will be held following the visitation at the funeral home at 1 PM. A private graveside service will be held at a later date at Exeter Cemetery.

If you are unable to attend the service in person, the family invites you to watch the service live or at your convenience by visiting www.facebook.com/haskettfh.

Donations to Jessica’s House Hospice or Alzheimer Society Huron Perth in Bob’s memory would be appreciated by the family.

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  1. James Oke

    March 24, 2026 at 11:41 PM

    My Deepest Condolences go out to my aunt Ann and my cousins Sheila and Carrie.

  2. Mary (Shoebottom) Perry

    March 20, 2026 at 9:22 PM

    To Ann and family
    Sorry to read of the passing of Bob.
    My sincere condolences. Cherish the memories you made over the years. May he rest in peace.

  3. Tammy Hawkins

    March 16, 2026 at 4:21 PM

    Ann, So sorry to hear of Bob’s passing. My thoughts are with you and your family. Tammy and Elizabeth

  4. Bob & Donna Hamather

    March 15, 2026 at 6:08 PM

    Dear Ann & family,
    We were so sorry to learn of Bob’s passing.
    Sending Sincere condolences.

  5. Charlene Poag

    March 15, 2026 at 5:57 PM

    Dear Sheila and Pete and Family

    Sorry to read of your Dad’s passing, May you carry your happy memories of him with you.

  6. Wilma

    March 14, 2026 at 1:55 PM

    Sorry to hear. Our prayers are with you both. Ann

  7. Jamie & Danielle Oke

    March 14, 2026 at 10:30 AM

    Ann, Sheila, Carrie and family we are saddened to hear of Bob’s passing. Our deepest sympathies.

  8. Elaine Luyten

    March 14, 2026 at 9:16 AM

    Condolences to Ann & family. Thinking of you at this sad time.
    Elaine Luyten

  9. Lauren Oke

    March 14, 2026 at 6:35 AM

    Dear Aunt Ann, Sheila and Carrie,

    Thinking of you all at this sad time and remembering with immense fondness the truly special person Uncle Bob was. His voice, his laugh – one of a kind. He will be so missed by so many.

    You are in our thoughts and prayers.

    With love,
    Lauren, Luke, Freja and Adam
    Nelson, New Zealand

  10. Mark Heimrich

    March 14, 2026 at 4:14 AM

    Ann, Sheila, Carrie and families, and Bob’s friends & neighbours;

    Our sincere condolences in the loss of Bob. Great guy all round. I always had the utmost respect for Bob as a fellow auto mechanic. Super knowledgeable and highly skilled. He was known as one of those “go to guys” in the trade when you had a tough case or diagnosis. I went to Bob on a few occasions back in the day and he was always kind and helpful. It was a pleasure bumping into him in the community and having chats over the many years. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this time. Rest in peace Bob.

    Mark (& Julie) Heimrich, Sarah, Scott & Spencer.

  11. Gordon Oke, Katherine Garland

    March 13, 2026 at 6:10 PM

    Sleep well Brother Bob. To Ann, Carrie, Shane, Sheila, Pete and your respective families take care of one another. It is a bit comforting to know He is in a better place.
    Kathy and Gord!

  12. Tim & Maria Hamather

    March 13, 2026 at 4:42 PM

    Dear Ann & family,
    We are so sorry to learn of Bob’s passing. We have great memories of him. He will be missed.
    Thinking of you all.
    Sincerely,
    Tim & Maria

  13. Doug and Kate

    March 13, 2026 at 3:39 PM

    Dear Ann and family, Our sincere condolences to you at this sad time. It was always nice to chat with you and Bob as you were coming in at the end of the day to clean the ABCA offices and we were leaving. Bob was so dedicated to his work. He will be missed.
    Doug Hocking and Kate Monk

  14. Rhonda Hartleib

    March 13, 2026 at 8:40 AM

    Carrie, I’m thinking of you and your family during this time. My condolences.

  15. Teo and Sieka Van Steeg

    March 13, 2026 at 7:11 AM

    Sieka and I sent our condolences to you Ann and all the children with the loss of Bob,
    May the all knowing Lord send you His nearness to you all you Ann and kids

    We hope to come Saturday

  16. Murray Hunking

    March 12, 2026 at 7:47 PM

    To Bob’s family. Got to know Bob at H.M.P, always had great talks ,and a lot of fun . You are all in my thoughts at this most difficult time . Murray Hunking

  17. Dave Frayne and Cathy Cade

    March 12, 2026 at 7:29 PM

    To Ann, family and friends
    So sorry to learn of Bob’s passing.
    Many good memories of him in his different roles in life.
    Our condolences to all.

  18. Joanne Shand-Kernighan

    March 12, 2026 at 7:20 PM

    Carrie and family,

    Sending sincere condolences to you and your family at this very difficult time.

    Joanne

  19. nancy brand

    March 12, 2026 at 4:31 PM

    ann and family! my deepest sympathy

  20. Bob and Joyce McDonald

    March 12, 2026 at 4:01 PM

    Sorry to hear of Bob’s passing what a great guy, I worked with him for a few years and played hockey with him also. RIP BOB

  21. Abbie Gutteridge

    March 12, 2026 at 3:55 PM

    On behalf of the staff at ABCA, we send our sincere condolences to Ann, Sheila and Carrie. We appreciated Bob (and Ann’s) work here at the office – it was always a joy to see Bob’s smile when we would run into him. He will certainly be missed by many.

  22. Susan Oke

    March 12, 2026 at 3:34 PM

    Dear Ann & family – so sorry to hear about Bob. I always enjoyed talking with him. May all of your happy memories help you through this very sad time.

  23. Bill Doupe

    March 12, 2026 at 2:56 PM

    Ann and family. My sincere condolences on hearing of Bobs passing. He was great neighbour many years ago, down on the farm and was an awesome mechanic who helped repair my car a few times. Always enjoyed a chat when our paths crossed. May your fond memories together carry you through the sad times.

  24. Allen and Marjorie Oke

    March 12, 2026 at 1:32 PM

    We send our deepest condolences to your family .We are also sure that Bob will be dearly missed by family, friends, neighbours all that knew him

  25. Clement and Emily Hoonaard

    March 12, 2026 at 11:30 AM

    Clement and Emily Hoonaard

    Our deepest sorrow for the passing of Bob.

  26. Amy Baillie

    March 12, 2026 at 11:01 AM

    Carrie, I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your dear dad. Please know that you and your family are in my thoughts, and I’m sending strength and support during this difficult time.

  27. Cy & Eleanor Blommaert

    March 12, 2026 at 10:51 AM

    Dear Ann Sheila Carrie

    So sorry to hear Bob has passed.
    He worked with Cy for a lot of years .
    Many good memories
    Please know we are thinking of you at this sad time .🙏

  28. Edith Lewis & family

    March 12, 2026 at 10:01 AM

    Ann and family.

    Our condolences to your family.
    We were old neighbors when you and your parents lived on Huron St.

  29. Clement and Emily Hoonaard

    March 12, 2026 at 10:00 AM

    Condolence from Emily and Clem hoonaard from Orangeville ontario.

  30. Tom Prout

    March 12, 2026 at 8:53 AM

    My Sincere condolences. Bob and Ann always did a great job for the Ausable Bayfield Conservation Authority. After hours and weekends. Thank you Bob and my you rest in peace.

  31. Arie and Arien Varkevisser

    March 12, 2026 at 8:00 AM

    Dear family, Our Condolences for this great loss 🙏🙏

  32. John and Ruth Timmermans

    March 12, 2026 at 7:06 AM

    Our condolences to the Oke family.

  33. George Godbolt

    March 12, 2026 at 6:15 AM

    Sorry to hear of Bob’s illness and passing. While I haven’t seen him lately, I do remember his great smile when we chatted. My condolences to Anne, Sheila and Carrie.

  34. Carolyn L Rose

    March 11, 2026 at 10:39 PM

    Ann and Family,
    Sorry to read of the passing of Bob. It was a pleasure being able to assist Bob and get to know him when he visited the Hearing Life location in Exeter. Cherish the memories that were created over the years. RIP Bob

    Carolyn
    Jessica
    Hearing Life Exeter

  35. Fred & Ann Zwaan

    March 11, 2026 at 9:59 PM

    Our deepest heartfelt condolences to Ann, Sheila, Carrie and family with the passing of your husband, father and grandfather. We enjoyed the visits before health problems set in. No matter where we met him he always had a cheery smile! May God comfort and give you peace during this difficult time. Love Fred &Ann

  36. Rick and Marilyn Vandenbussche

    March 11, 2026 at 9:00 PM

    Our sympathy on Bob’s passing.

  37. Jim & Annette Vellenga

    March 11, 2026 at 7:57 PM

    So sorry for your loss.

  38. Merv & Evelyn Durnin

    March 11, 2026 at 5:35 PM

    Our sincere condolences to the Oke family.

  39. Marilyn and Gary Eagleson

    March 11, 2026 at 3:59 PM

    We are very sorry to hear of Bob’s Passing! He was always an interesting and knowledgeable person
    to talk to especially pertaining to anything mechanical.
    We send our SINCERE THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS to ANN and Family.

  40. Ross & Shirley Rowe

    March 11, 2026 at 3:35 PM

    Ann & Family – sorry to hear about Bob’s passing. Cherish the many great memories and be assured, your grief is shared by all who walked in his path over the years.

    Hugs – Shirley & Ross

  41. Marie & Garry Kechnie

    March 11, 2026 at 2:59 PM

    Ann, Sheila, Carrie and families: We are so going to miss our visits with Bob & Ann after being neighbours for more than 32 years. We know that your family has many happy memories to carry you through this sad time.

  42. Janna

    March 11, 2026 at 2:51 PM

    Dear Family,
    Our condolences for this great loss,
    Lots of strength and courage,
    We will miss a wonderful Person🙏🙏
    Leen en janna

  43. Ed & Marie Nethercott

    March 11, 2026 at 2:07 PM

    Ann, Sheila, Carrie

    So sorry to of Bob’s passing.

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