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NURSE: Shirley Bernice (Lankin) of Lucan

October 31, 2020 By Haskett Funeral Homes 59 Condolences

NURSE: Shirley Bernice (Lankin) of Lucan

Peacefully at Strathroy Middlesex General Hospital on Saturday, October 31, 2020 of Lucan, at the age of 83. Beloved wife of the late Gerry Nurse (2019). Cherished mother of  Vicki and Dennis Daubs of Lucan, Connie and David Garrison of Port Franks, the late Brenda Chillingworth (1999), Don and Joanne Liley, and Jeff and Candace Liley all of Grand Bend. Proud grandma of Michael and Wendy, Jason and Hilda, Matthew and Heather; Jesse and Larissa, Mackenzie and Elizabeth; Jennifer, Travis and Ashley; Whitney and Zach, Jake and Allie; Chad, Madison, and Cole and Tenisha. Adored great-grandma of Hannah, Peyton, Andi, Frankie, Tenley, Levi, and Brooks. Dear sister of Bill Lankin. Predeceased by son-in-law Paul Hackman, siblings, Donna, Pat, and Glenn.

A private family memorial service will be held on Tuesday, November 3rd at 11 AM with Rev. Ken Whiting officiating. Though the service is private, the family invites you to join with them from the comfort of your home. Stream the service live by visiting www.facebook.com/haskettfh. Cremation with interment St. James Cemetery, Clandeboye.

Donations to the Alzheimer Society, or the London Abused Womenโ€™s Centre would be appreciated by the family.

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  1. Ron Nurse

    December 11, 2020 at 7:23 PM

    OMG! I just heard about this and the passing of Jerry and Shirley. I’m so sorry to hear about this you guys…it’s been years. Hope you guys are doing ok. -RN

  2. Diane Young

    December 2, 2020 at 8:03 AM

    Don, Jeff and families
    Sorry for your loss, our sincere sympathy. Cherish your memories.

  3. Jeanett Wood

    November 13, 2020 at 9:27 PM

    So sorry for the late condolence,I just heard about Shirleyโ€™s passing. She was a wonderful ,beautiful lady. I have very special memories of times I spent with her.
    She was a treasure. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
    Hugs
    Jeanett Wood

  4. Jim and Wendy Thomas

    November 13, 2020 at 4:01 PM

    So sorry for the belated condolences…..and so, so sorry for all of you on dear Shirleyโ€™s passing. She was such a friendly and classy lady and will be remembered fondly .
    Sincerely Jim and Wendy Thomas

  5. PAMELA BICE

    November 12, 2020 at 12:48 PM

    Sending condolences on the passing of your Mom.
    It is never easy to lose a parent no matter how old we are.
    Thinking of you
    Pam Bice

  6. Marjorie & Family

    November 9, 2020 at 12:33 AM

    Dearest Jen & family,
    Deepest sympathies sent.

    So many fond memories over many years.
    Shirley was a sweet gem of a lady & a true matriarch of her family.Her positive outlook,strength,grace,humour & many other fine qualities were to be admired.

    She was loved by many including my family,I’m so very saddened for your loss.

  7. Mark Heimrich

    November 7, 2020 at 7:33 AM

    Connie & Family;

    My sincere sympathy in your loss.

    Mark (& Julie) Heimrich

  8. Rose Welch

    November 6, 2020 at 4:48 PM

    To all Shirley*s family,
    I am thinking about you at this time, Your Mother, Sister, Grandmother. Great Grandmother was a class act.
    Shirley will be missed by her family and community as she knew so many. Think and remember all the good times with her and Gerry.

    Rose Welch

  9. Shelley & Louie Martin

    November 3, 2020 at 7:05 PM

    Condolences to all the family. Shirley was such a nice person. I remember Shirley and Gerry from my time in Lucan many years ago . They were always so sweet and kind. Cherish all the wonderful moments you enjoyed with her.

  10. Connie Feke

    November 3, 2020 at 5:56 PM

    Jeff, Don and Families

    We wanted to extend our condolences on the passing of your mother. We are sending our thoughts and friendship to you at this trying time. The loss of mother is great. However the hole that is left can eventually begin filling up with past memories of the love you all shared with her.

    We are thinking of you.

    Dan and Connie Feke

  11. Kevin and Carol Windsor

    November 3, 2020 at 5:54 PM

    Vicki, Connie, Don, Jeff and Families
    So very sorry to hear of Shirley’s passing. She was a very special lady who always made us feel welcomed in her home during those Langford Lumber parties. Kevin always speaks very highly of Gerry and Shirley with the utmost respect. I am sure they are both smiling as they were re-united in a place of peace and love.
    Please accept our sincere condolences for your loss.

  12. Gary McIlravey

    November 3, 2020 at 2:24 PM

    Connie and David: So sorry to hear about your Mom….our condolences and hugs to you and your family.
    Love
    Gary McIlravey and Carolyn Wilson
    Loppet, Ontario

  13. Brenda and Gord Moon

    November 3, 2020 at 1:21 PM

    To Vicki, Dennis ,and the whole family,

    So sorry to hear of the passing of your Mom, Grandmother.
    Our thoughts are with you at this difficult time.

  14. Sherry Bodkin

    November 3, 2020 at 12:58 PM

    To the Nurse and Liley family:
    My condolences to all of you in the loss of your mom/grandma. I remember her from Lucan with a great smile on her face and a love of her family in her heart. She was always kind to my Mom after my Dad passed away. Speak of her often, and follow her ways ๐Ÿ’•
    Sherry Bodkin (Froats)

  15. BettyDuncan

    November 3, 2020 at 11:50 AM

    So sorry to hear of Shirley’s passing – The Lankin family and my family have been friends as far back as public school when we all lived in Birr. She will be dearly missed by so very many -. Treasure your memories. – condolences to the Nurse family.

  16. Jakki Wiseman

    November 3, 2020 at 10:11 AM

    A send a heartfelt hug to you all. Shirley was such an amazing woman and she will be so missed. I am so sorry to each of you…
    Xoxo

  17. Doug and Joanne Latta

    November 3, 2020 at 8:57 AM

    Heart felt condolences to the family. Hold all your beautiful memories of her close in your heart and share her story.
    She was a wonderful lady!

    Doug & Joanne Latta

  18. Tom Hearn

    November 3, 2020 at 8:50 AM

    I’m so sorry to hear this sad news. You have my deepest condolences.

  19. Wayne, Julie, Dylan & Emily Pryce

    November 3, 2020 at 7:57 AM

    Vicki, Connie, Don, Jeff and Families, We are so sorry for your loss, may loving memories bring you peace, comfort and strength.

  20. Larry Lewis

    November 2, 2020 at 7:46 PM

    Vicki, Connie, Don, and Jeff.

    So sorry to hear of Shirley’s passing. Our deepest sympathy and prayers go out to all of you and your families.

    Larry and Lynda Lewis

  21. Jim and Helen Hearn

    November 2, 2020 at 12:21 PM

    Our sincere condolences on the loss of your Mother and Grandmother. She will be fondly remembered and missed in the community.
    Jim and Helen

  22. Don and Diane Williams

    November 2, 2020 at 12:01 PM

    Vicki, Dennis and Family So sorry to hear that Shirley has passed, she was a wonderful lady. We know she will be sadly missed by each and everyone of your family. Our thoughts are with you at this difficult time.

  23. Karen and Ken Curtis

    November 2, 2020 at 11:41 AM

    Vicki, Connie, Don, Jeff and Families, we are very sorry to hear of the passing of your mom. She was a wonderful person and will be missed by many.

  24. Liz Jenkin

    November 2, 2020 at 11:14 AM

    My sympathies on the loss of your loved one. Hold on to all the treasured memories.

  25. Frank and Dianne Dietrich

    November 2, 2020 at 10:57 AM

    To the entire family of Shirley Nurse,
    You must be so proud of the life she lived, she was always so warm and easy to talk to, truly a class act. I would visit her different times at the antique shop and had purchased several things from her that will hold a little extra special place in my heart now. Our condolences, Frank and Dianne Dietrich

  26. Kellie Maslen

    November 2, 2020 at 10:35 AM

    Vicki, Dennis and family:

    I am so sorry to hear of your Mom’s passing. Please accept my deepest condolences.

  27. Tim Ryan

    November 2, 2020 at 8:37 AM

    Very sorry to hear the passing of your Mom,
    There were lots of laughs and fun times years ago, may you all hold those times and her love close.
    Tim

  28. Richard and Bonnie Vandenberk

    November 2, 2020 at 8:17 AM

    So sorry for your loss.
    Sending sincere condolences and thinking of you at this sad time.

  29. RON AND GLENDA

    November 2, 2020 at 5:43 AM

    Our Sincere Condolences to Your Family, Never Easy, Keep those Beautiful Memories close

    Sincerely Ron & Glenda Lindenfield

  30. Brian & Luanne Herbert

    November 2, 2020 at 4:27 AM

    Sorry to hear of Shirley`s passing. Please accept our sincere condolence at this difficult time.

  31. Grace Rollings

    November 1, 2020 at 9:02 PM

    Clarke & Grace Rollings

    Sincere condolences to Shirley’s family. May she rest in peace.

    Clarke and Grace Rollings

  32. Joyce Sovereign

    November 1, 2020 at 7:18 PM

    Vicki,Connie,Don,Jeff and families

    There is a part of me that is happy for Shirley,this part of her journey is over and she will be whole again ,with Gerry and Brenda,a happy day for her lm sure .It is hard to part with your Mother for sure .May God comfort each one of you ,her grandchildren and greats as well.Remember all the happy times now .Hugs to you all๐Ÿ’ž๐Ÿ™๐Ÿป

  33. Dale and Linda Froats

    November 1, 2020 at 4:09 PM

    Always enjoyed our visits with Shirley and Jerry in Lucan. Each time we drive by on William street we will look in and remember Shirleyโ€™s love of cutting their grass and keeping their place immaculate. They were a lovely couple and we send our sympathy to all the family at this time. Shirley is now at peace and everything is in order.

  34. Brenda Morgan

    November 1, 2020 at 4:00 PM

    I will always remember Shirley, as a lady who made everyone feel welcome, and she always knew just what to say to make you feel comfortable. I can still hear her laugh,, and will never forget her warmth and her beautiful smile. I believe a Mothers love is forever,,, in the lessons she taught you, the patience she showed you, and her love for you,
    that she gave so freely. I can’t even imagine what the reunion was like, when Shirley saw Jerry and Brenda again. I just know her heart would be bursting with love when she saw them and that beautiful smile will be seen by them once again.. Don and I are so sorry for your profound loss,, you are in are thoughts, during this incredibly difficult time.

  35. Sue Riley

    November 1, 2020 at 2:08 PM

    Travis and Ashley
    Thinking of you during this difficult time.
    Sue

  36. Gary andLinda Hayter

    November 1, 2020 at 11:17 AM

    Gary and Linda Hayter. We are so sorry to hear of Shirleys passing. It is so hard to lose your mom.Thoughts and prayers are with you all at this very hard time.

  37. Brian Blackburn

    November 1, 2020 at 11:05 AM

    Don & Joanne, Jeff & Candace

    Our condolences go out to you all during this difficult time. Keep all the great memories close to your heart. We are thinking of you guys.

    Brian & Heather Blackburn

  38. Ray & Sue Heffernan

    November 1, 2020 at 10:23 AM

    Our Deepest Sympathy to Shirley’s Family, Our Thoughts & Prayers are with you at this very difficult time.
    Ray & Sue

  39. Nancy Bieber

    November 1, 2020 at 9:59 AM

    I am so sorry to hear of Shirleyโ€™s passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you all

  40. Don &Dorothy Lankin

    November 1, 2020 at 9:55 AM

    Sorry to hear of Shirleyโ€™s passing . Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.

  41. Linda Thompson

    November 1, 2020 at 9:52 AM

    Vickie & family, Iโ€™m truly sorry for the loss of your Mother, may your memories be a blessing
    God Bless ๐Ÿ™

  42. Liz Hodgins & Alan Gates

    November 1, 2020 at 9:38 AM

    Vicki, Connie, Don, Jeff and Families, we are very sorry to hear of Shirleyโ€™s passing. She was a lovely Lady. Keep your memories close to help you through this difficult time and those in the future. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this very sad time.

  43. Hosking

    November 1, 2020 at 9:25 AM

    Our condolences in the passing of Shirley.
    We have many fond memories of Shirley.
    Thinking of you.
    Steve and Mac

  44. Fred a Brenda Smith

    November 1, 2020 at 9:08 AM

    Sorry to hear of mom passing she was a lovely lady always keep the good times close to your heart
    Mom is now with the love of her life and Brenda beside her side
    Big Hugs to all

  45. Evelyne Rollings

    November 1, 2020 at 8:21 AM

    Dear vicki, Dennis and family,
    So sorry for your loss, your mother was a beautiful person.
    She will be a lovely angle.
    Evelyne.

  46. Dan & Judy Alce

    November 1, 2020 at 7:40 AM

    Sorry for your loss. Our thoughts & prayers are with you at this sad time.

  47. Bob and Anne Pincombe and Family

    October 31, 2020 at 9:46 PM

    Dear Nurse Family

    Sending our condolence on the passing of your Mother,grandmother,sister,
    Treasure your memories

  48. Sheila Butchart

    October 31, 2020 at 9:40 PM

    My prayers and love to Shirleys family , she was a gentle soul always with
    a smile that loved her family
    Blessings Sheila

  49. Joan and Dave Goddard

    October 31, 2020 at 8:52 PM

    To the Family
    Sorry to hear of your Motherโ€™s passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this sad and difficult time.

  50. Vicky O'Brien

    October 31, 2020 at 7:30 PM

    So sorry to hear about Shirley. Thinking about all of you.
    Love,
    Vicky O’Brien

  51. Jean Hickson

    October 31, 2020 at 6:23 PM

    Sincere condolences to Shirleyโ€™s family. She was a lovely lady.

  52. Murray and Edith Yeo

    October 31, 2020 at 5:18 PM

    Vicki, Dennis, and Family

    So very sorry to read of your loss. Losing your Mother is very hard at any time. May your many memories help carry you through this very difficult time.

  53. Glen and Linda Finch

    October 31, 2020 at 5:12 PM

    We are SO sorry to hear of Shirley’s passing.
    Shirley and Gerry were just loved by everyone!!
    Our deepest sympathy to you all.

  54. Julie and Dave

    October 31, 2020 at 5:00 PM

    This is never an easy time for family and friends. Wishing Shirley eternal peace. Cherish your memories. Take support from those around you. Our deepest sympathy to your entire family. Dave and Julie

  55. Janis and Chuck

    October 31, 2020 at 4:29 PM

    Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time
    Janis and Chuck

  56. Ferlin Sovereign

    October 31, 2020 at 2:08 PM

    So sorry for your loss guys .
    Your mom , grandma was a great lady , we had some great laughs when I was younger !
    I will enjoy those memories of Shirley and Gerry . Our deepest condolences to you guys .
    Ferlin and Julie

  57. Jean Deluce

    October 31, 2020 at 1:42 PM

    I want to give my condolence to the family as I find it so hard to believe. She will truly be missed by many.

  58. Jody

    October 31, 2020 at 12:36 PM

    So very sorry for your loss! Shirley was an amazing woman, she will forever be in my heart. Heaven gained a beautiful angel, Rest In Peace, Shirley! โค๏ธโค๏ธโค๏ธ

  59. Doug & Betty Lynn Eckel

    October 31, 2020 at 12:12 PM

    Don & Joanne, Jeff & Candace: We are very sorry to hear of your Mom’s passing. Cherish all of your wonderful memories. Thinking of you all. โ™ฅ

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