Mathew (Matt) Driver, age 44, passed away at home, Goderich, on Tuesday, March 28th, 2023, after a determined battle against ALS (MND).
Matt is survived by his wife of 14 years, Kristy Pokrywka-Driver, best-friend and biggest supporter for 22 years, proud father of their two children, Tenley and Blake, whom he was also amazed by their strength, tenderness and bravery, and Kaiser, the beloved family dog. Loving son to Norah Purser (Larry) of Exeter and David Driver of Lakeside. Big Brother to Shannon Driver (Scott), Chris Driver (Taylor), Mike Ayotte (Heather) and Christie Ayotte. Best of Son-in-Laws to Dorothy and Walter Pokrywka of London, and Brother-in-Law to Tina Pokrywka (Shane). Looked up to by his Zimmer nephews, Joshua, Jamie and Jackson; adored by his niece Emily Pokrwyka-Kovacs; always hugged strongly by the Ayotte crew, Brianna, Hayley and Holden; and Chase, Tyler and Ava. Pre-deceased by his grandparents, Fred and Jessie Purser and Ernie and Winnifred Driver. Quieter yet equally playful part of both the Purser Clan and Driver Fam. Respected Member of the Brothers and Sisters of Unifor Local 16-0.
Matt is known for his kind smile, helpful and resourceful nature and respected within the community and by all who knew him. Matt quickly earned the title “Call Driver” as he became the go-to guy in town for any small volt system – cars, homes, boats, limos, motor home or stereo repair. Matt started out through the local home and car av sales and service store. “Driver Products” kept Matt entertained and the driveway busy with something always rolling in. Matt worked several years at a plant in Goderich as a certified Heavy Welder where he was key part in fabricating and collaborating on R&D projects such as major contracts with John Deere. Matt found his true home in development mining with his mining family, and B Crew, at Compass Minerals’ Goderich, the largest underground salt mine, 1800 feet under Lake Huron.
Matt was a family man first, an avid weightlifter, an animal whisperer, certainly a car guy, and always looking for opportunities to run a chainsaw or swing an axe. His family can hear the low rumble of pipes, coming home in his truck, and the booming of subs from the heavy metal music that Matt said helped him keep his calm demeaner. Matt could help with any small volt wiring system, troubleshoot odd car issues, and find simple yet logical ways to maintain or improve machinery at work. Send Matt a photo of a weld, or a bolt, and he just knew the significance or improvement needed. “Ask Matt” or “Daddy will know” was a testament to the knowledge he held, the nimble mind and genuine eagerness to help. Matt had the most positive mindset and never settled for resting – any day to get in his gym, he did. Any day to smirk, or smile – he did. Any day to teach his kids to be kind and helpful – he exemplified it.
“One of the most fearless, confident and charming people…Everyone who has ever spent time with Matt, knows a little more for having known him”. “Dad knew everything about everything”. “Dad was kind to everyone”. “A gear-head. A metal-head. A devoted husband and father. A true friend!”. “Always there for anyone who needed a hand, always optimistic, and always up for a good time”. “He listened! Mostly because he sincerely cared about the people around him, but also there was that part of him that took that information, took inventory of it and better himself. A wise guy”. Matt will be remembered for his hard work, kindness, generosity, friendship, sheer strength, humble nature, sense of calm, his big grin that was larger than life and by his two children who are his biggest pride and joy and his legacy. He is so much to so many. Matt – you are amazing – The strength and power of your positive mindset was evident as you walked unassisted right up until I held you for your last breath. You never faltered in helping your family even if it was to simply open the front curtains, letting the sunshine in to gently wake us each morning – even on your last full day. We feel the ache in our hearts with you physically gone, but your energy and strength continue to shine and light us up. We love you always. Always by our side.
Cremation has taken place. A celebration of life will be held at Bad Apple Brewery, 73463 Bluewater Highway, Bayfield, on Sunday, April 16th between 12:00-4:00 pm. Everyone is welcome with a come and go, open and easy atmosphere – Matt enjoyed a casual vibe with people, light food, music, and laughs.
Huge thank you to everyone who has called, messaged, dropped off and been a part of caring for Matt and our family in all the various ways ❤️.
Donations can also be arranged and entrusted to McCallum & Palla Funeral Home, Goderich. Consider a donation to the OSPCA or local animal shelter, the ALS Canada Equipment Program, the Huron Hospice, Make-A-Wish, or Kids Help Phone.
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Arthana Rasiah
Kristy, I’m so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Norah Purser
I’m so grateful that Matt was my son, wonderful husband, dad, brother and uncle.. respected by his extended family. His dad and I would have taken his illness in a heartbeat so that Matt could remain here to see his kids grow. He of all people, deserved that opportunity. Matt, our whole families will continue to watch over Kristy, Tenley,Blake and Kaiser.. rest easy my boy.. see you on the other side..❤️
Jake Herring
I am very saddened to hear of Matt’s passing. I always enjoyed chatting with Matt and admired his welcoming and friendly manner. My sincere condolences to his family and friends.
Mardie Nobrega-Fuentes
Hi Kristy,
My condolences. May you and your family find strength and comfort in this time of grief.
Sheila Mae Dalisay-Duremdes
“Wherever a beautiful soul has been, there is a trail of beautiful memories. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.”
“May God turn your time of darkness into light again. May He stay by your side during this difficult time.”
Bonnie Roest
So sorry to hear about your husband’s passing Kristy. I didn’t know your husband but he sounds like a great husband, dad, friend to all who had the chance to know him. Matt will be greatly missed by all. Big hugs to all and cherish all the special memories.
Bonnie Roest – MBI Financial in Ridgetown, ON.
Darryl McMillen
I was saddened to hear of Matt’s passing.
Such a great man gone much to soon.
My condolences to the family.
Take care
Terri Finch
Norah and family. I am so sorry for your loss. I didn’t know Matt but I know Norah and know what a proud Mama she is. Praying for peace for all who loved Matt.
Judi williams
Kristie.. Tenley, Blake, Norah, David, Shannon, and all of Matts families .. I am so saddened at the loss of Matt.. Such a difficult time for all… Cherish all the memories .. RIP Matt …..
Vanessa Laye
Norah, Shannon and family,
I am so sorry to hear about the passing of your beloved son and brother. Sending you strength and love to get through the days ahead. Thinking of you and his family.
MARION MCNAUGHTON
I lived right across from you on Suncoast Drive,I am so sorry for your loss,thinking of you and your family
MARION MCNAUGHTON
Doreen McConnell
My heartfelt condolences to you Kristy, Tenley, Blake and to all your families. May all the wonderful and happy moments help ease your pain during this difficult time.
Sincerely, Doreen and Dave cConnell
Debbie Delyea
So soory for your families loss,been years since I cut his hair,may the lord speak peace to your pain during this time.
Ron Sowerby
Sincerest condolences Kristy and kids and all Families. Matt was a great guy. Taken way too young. My heart goes out to you all.
Steve Northey
So sad to hear of Matt’s passing Kristy. I always enjoyed talking with him at Rivetts when I was at the Signal Star. You and he were just starting to date at that time. I hope all your happy memories of Matt will help you through this tragic time.
Ron and Sue Wrigglesworth
Kristy, Sue and I can’t begin to tell you how heartbroken we are for you, the kids and your extended family. One thing though after reading your tribute, is I wish I had been in Matt’s company more often than we were able to be. Thoughts and prayers are with you. As always, all our love. Ron&Sue❤️❤️❤️
Darin Culbert
My sincere condolences Matt was a great guy you will be truly missed.
Stina Ausrotas
I am so very sorry for your loss 🙁. My condolences to you & your family
Gayle and Barron Purser
Dear Kristy, Tenley, Blake, Norah, David , Shannon and family
Our hearts are broken with the loss of Matt!
He was the best of the best.
He has left his mark on the world and will never be forgotten.
Love Aunt Gayle and Uncle Barron