Peacefully, with her family by her side, Mary passed away at the Exeter Villa on Monday, December 1, 2025 in her 98th year. Beloved wife of the late Laird Jacobe (2006). Cherished mother of Sharon and Doug Kyle of St. Joseph, and Raye and the late Jean (2024) Jacobe of Exeter. Proud grandmother of Sarah Kyle of St. Joseph; and Ryan and Lisa Jacobe of Centralia, and great-grandmother of Carson, Jade, and Maci. Predeceased by her parents John and Gertrude (Weigand) Hauser and her brother and sister-in-law John and Marion Hauser.
Mary lived a life grounded in service, community, and simple joys. For more than 25 years, she shaped young minds as a devoted teacher with the Huron County Board of Education. Her commitment to others continued through her faithful involvement at Emmanuel United Church and her contributions to the Hay History Book. Creative and skilled, Mary lovingly crocheted numerous doilies and thoroughly enjoyed quilting.
She and Laird shared a beautiful bond, spending countless happy hours dancing, traveling, playing euchre and solo, and enjoying time at the bowling alley. Retirement at the lake in St. Joseph’s was a cherished time for Mary and Laird.
Visitation will be held at Haskett Funeral Home, 456 Main Street South, EXETER on Saturday, December 6th from 9:00 AM – 10: 30 AM, where Mary’s funeral service will begin at 10:30 AM with Rev. Nancy Knowles Officiating. Stream the service live or at your convenience by visiting www.facebook.com/haskettfh. Private family interment Bluewater Bronson Line Public Cemetery, Zurich.
Donations to Jessica’s House or the Grand Bend Community Food Pantry would be appreciated by the family.
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Elaine Ford
Ray and family. My sincere sympathy learning the passing of your mother. Life has many good memories to cherish and compfort you and your family ❤️
Larry and Faye Skinner
Raye, Sharon, Doug and family:
Our sincere condolences to all of you. I have nice memories of your mother and the visits I had with her in her home in Exeter. She was a lovely lady who was so knowledgeable.
Treasure the memories of her when she was healthy!
Margaret&Jack Kraft
Raye & Family
So very sorry to read about your Mom‘s passing. Please accept our sincere condolences.
Margaret&Jack
John, Laurie, and Ruthie Blackwell
Dear Sharon, Raye, and families, I was so sorry to hear of your mother’s passing, but I am thankful that she is no longer in pain and is now reunited with Laird. It feels like the end of an era. Mary was such a fine person. I remember her wonderful smile and lively sense of humour. She was also a kind and generous neighbour, and a remarkably gifted teacher (I had her as a substitute teacher at Hensall Public School). Our families were neighbours on the Parr Line for several generations, and that friendship always meant a great deal to us. My father always remarked on the excellent apple butter that Laird’s mother made. I have one very vivid memory of visiting your farm. Raye had a pony and offered to let me ride it. I, of course, fell off and then ran across the field to catch the runaway horse. I finally caught hold of its tail and was dragged for some distance across the recently ploughed ground. It was a bumpy episode but I was not hurt at all, and took it as a sign that horses and I had best keep our distance. Sharon, your eulogy for your Mom was very heartfelt and beautiful. She would have been very proud of you. Sending you all our love and deepest condolences at this sad time, John, Laurie, and Ruthie
Richard & Brenda Schilbe
Sharon, Doug, Raye & family
Deepest sympathy to you in the loss of Mary. Keeping your family in our thoughts & prayers
Sue Rolph
Sharon, Doug, and Sarah,
Our sincere condolences on the passing of your Mom and Grandma. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this sad time.
Sue and Jim Rolph
Mark Heimrich
Sharon & Doug, Raye & families;
Our sincere condolences in the loss of your dear Mother and Grandmother. She was a lovely lady indeed. I remember her and your Dad mostly from my Zurich days. I served them gas and also remember them smoothly gliding across the dance floor on various occasions. You will be comforted knowing that they are reunited. Thinking of you all at this time. My Mom, Marilyn, wishes to pass on her sympathy as well.
Mark & Julie Heimrich, Sarah, Scott & Spencer, and Marilyn Heimrich
Tamara Thompson
The Staff and residents of Exeter Villa share our deepest sympathies to your Family during this difficult time. May the beautiful memories of your loved one fill your heart and help you find peace. Sending you love and support.
Brad & Anne Mousseau
Sending our heartfelt condolences to Sharon, Doug & Sarah, Raye, Ryan, Lisa & family in the passing of your Mom, Grama & GG.
Brenda Couckuyt
So very sorry Raye. Sending sincerest sympathy.
Jerry & Rose Vanbruaene
Raye, Sharon, Doug and family ,
Deepest sympathies on the loss of your dear mother. May all the wonderful memories bring you comfort.
Dianne Waun
Thinking of everyone who loved Mary. I will miss chatting with her at the Villa.
Dianne
Wendy and Richard Jennison
Dear Sharon and family. Please accept our sincere sympathy in the loss of your mom. Your precious memories will keep your mom close to your heart always.
Ida Ann Marashi (nee Blackwell)
Raye, Sharon & families,
Please accept our deepest sympathy
Your Mom was an outstanding person. She was kind, caring, and had a definite style. She was a good friend & neighbour to our.mother, not only in Exeter, but many years before on the Parr line.
Her smile, her example and the memories shared will be remembered!
Dan Weigand
Sincere condolences. I always enjoyed chatting with Mary and Laird, whether at family reunions or somewhere in the community. Their kind personalities will be remembered fondly. Ninety-eight years is a great run. Rest in peace, Mary.
Joyce Hodgins
Condolences to the family of Mary, so sorry for your loss God bless you and family
Bill Gibson nd Les Hills
Our deepest sympathy to the family of Mary, She was one great lady and had very full life and will deeply missed
Anne Taylor
Dearest Sharon, and family,
I had never had the pleasure of meeting your mother but I have read some lovely stories about her. It sounds like she was a pretty special lady.
Your cherished memories will never fade.
Your mom will never be more than a thought away.
For as long as there is a memory she will live in your hearts forever. ❤️
Affectionately, Anne
Kathy Thiel
Sharon, Doug and Sarah; Raye, Ryan and Lisa, Carson, Jade and Maci;
Sending our sincere condolences on the loss of your mom, mother in law, grandmother and great grandmother. May your memories warm your heart and bring you peace of a life well lived.
Thinking of all of you.
Kathy and Terry Thiel and family
Mary Peterson and Rob Essery
To Raye and Sharon and your family,
Our sincere sympathy to all of you on your loss.
Kim Pinder
Sharon, Doug , Raye and family
So very sorry to hear of your mom’s passing..
This fall I had the pleasure of visiting with your mom at the Villa. My grandson Jace’s class came to the villa to play games with the residents. I was there with my mom in law Elaine. Mary joined our table. I introduced myself as I have known your mom for a long time. Jace and two other boys from his class joined us in crokinole. Mary sat with us and watched and smiled. The boys tried to convince her to play . It was cute.
Mary lived a great life. Thinking of you all and hold your memories close.
Debbie and Larry Denomme
Dear Sharon , Raye and families, please accept our sincere sympathy on the loss of your dear Mom ! I know you will miss her but take comfort that she has reunited with you Dad !!
Sue Wilson
Raye, Sharon and Doug and families, heartfelt condolences on the loss of your Mother and Grandmother. Cherish your precious memories. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
s beer
Sincere condolences to Mrs. Jacobe’s family. As an educator she insisted-on literacy with depth, and she did it with kindness and humor.
Joan Bell
Sharon, Doug and Sarah
My condolences to you in the loss of your Mother.
Thinking of you and trust so many precious memories will bring comfort in the days ahead.
Diane Pepper & Leibold family
Raye & family.
Our deepest sympathy to all at this time.
Praying for peace and comfort for you.
May you remember the good times spent with Mary as she touched many lives during her long life.
Roberta Ryckman
Sharon, Doug and Sarah; and Raye and his family,
The Jacobe family has been part of my life since Sharon and I met in grade 9. I have many happy memories of times spent together over the years on the farm and at the lake and later when your Mom was on her own. It was easy to tell that she had been a good teacher. Losing a Mother is such a painful experience, no matter when it happens in your life. My heart breaks for Sharon and Raye and their families. Such beautiful photos of happy times. May the wonderful memories of your Mom give you solace in the weeks and months ahead. I’ll always have fond memories of Mr. and Mrs. Jacobe, now together again.
Love and hugs and shared tears,
Roberta (Neil) Ryckman, Calgary
Rob, Cheryl, Jamie, Christian Goff
Ray, Sharon, Doug and your family – Our heartfelt sympathy for you. Mary lived a blessed life and was a blessing to everyone who knew her. She and Laird were great friends with my parents Glenn and Jean. Mary was an amazing roommate and a bright light for my mother for which we continue to be deeply grateful. Rob, Cheryl, Jamie & Christian
Gerald and Janet Weido
Sharon and Doug, Raye and families.
Our deepest sympathy to all of you.
Talked to Mary a few years ago at the Villa…..generally about families and old times on the Parr Line.
Ross Alexander
Deepest condolences. Ray and Sharron
Sandra Idle
Raye and family,
When we moved to Exeter, Mary welcomed us to the neighbourhood by inviting us for tea and cookies. She was a warm and lovely lady. Sorry for your loss.
Sandra & Larry Idle
Marg. Prout
My condolences to Sharon and Doug, Raye and families….
Cherish your wonderful memories.
Rick and Susan Willert
Sue Willert
Raye, Sharon, Doug and families
Please accept our deepest sympathy on the loss of you mom and grandmother.
Thinking of you all at this sad time.
Hugs
Sue and Rick Willert
Bill /Audrey Rowe
Sincere condolences in the loss of Mary. Each one of you will have many memories to keep close to your heart. Bill & Audrey
Dave Frayne and Cathy Cade
To Raye, Sharon and families
Our condolences on the loss of your mother and grandmother.
Joyce Kirk
My heart goes out to Mary’s family during this difficult time. I will always remember her for her kindness and warmth.
Bob and Gail Turner
Raye, Sharon, Doug and families. Deepest sympathy in the passing of your mom. Keep all your good memories close to your heart.
Becky & Gene Bender
Sharon & Raye…..So many memories of happy family times at our EUB church in Zurich…Mary and Laird were big part of those memories, and their sunny personalities and genuine caring were much valued then and always will be. Everyone who knew them has been blessed and they will never be forgotten. Our love to you and your families….
Larry McClinchey
Sharon & Doug, Raye and family.
Janet and I wish to express our sincere condolences on the passing of your mother, grandmother and great grandmother.
I had a small part in this wonderful family, as I was the ring bearer for Laird and Mary’s wedding at the Zurich United Church.
Enjoy the memories and all of the good times that you shared with friends and family.
George and Joan Brodhagen
To Raye and family sending our deepest sympathy on your Mom’s passing. May happy memories get you through this difficult time.
Ann Maxwell
Raye, Sharon, Doug and families
So sorry to hear of Mary’s passing. She was a lovely person and a wonderful teacher. Thinking of all of you at this difficult time.
Dianne GerstenkornWeber
Sharon and Raye and your families. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. I know you have lots of memories to keep her in your hearts forever.
David McClure
Dear Sharon and Raye and your families:
I have fond memories of all your family over many years and your mother and dad were such good friends. May our Lord be a comfort and blessing to all of your family after your mother’s passing.
VALERIE MARTENS
Sharen and Raye. My deepest sympathy for the loss of your mom. She shared so much family history with me. I loved learning so much from her.
Linda Carol (Sangster) Traquair & Jerry Traquair
Mrs. Jacobe was my Gr. 8 teacher … and so much more. I was so very blessed to be taken under her wing and into the home she & Laird made, as Sharon’s friend. I have fond memories of Grandma Jacobe’s fresh strawberry pie, the making of homemade ketchup (who knew?) , the barley itch, gathering eggs and warily eyeing up the family bull. There were bike rides down to the Hillsgreen Store with a stop to chat at the McAllisters, as well (Shirley was doing her ironing). I was included in Mary’s evening art course and she made sure I got to my Gr. 8 info night at the SHDHS, when my own family had other plans (poker night). She instilled the value of education in me and for that I will be ever grateful. It was always a pleasure to ‘catch up’ with her where ever our paths crossed. I saw her last spring, after our Villa church service. <3 I am so glad she has been released from her earthly bonds to soar freely with Laird and those who have gone on before. Sending my deepest sympathy and respect to Sharon, Doug and family and Raye and family, as well. Wishing you love and peace.
Christine Gould
To the Jacobe family,
My sincerest condolences on the passing of Mary; Mother, Grand-Mother, and Great-Grand-Mother. Treasure all of your memories, thinking of you all at this time.
Mahlon & Pearl Ann Martin
To Sharon, Doug, Raye, and families,
Our sincere condolences to the whole family as you grieve the lose of your Mother……..
Will always remember her as a wonderful kind and caring teacher…….May our loving Heavenly Father wrap His arms around you all , and give you peace and comfort, through this difficult time…
Love and Prayers
Dianne and Bill Dietrich
Sharon, Raye and families
So sorry to read about you mom. Our condolences to you both and your families. Beautiful pictures.
Vanessa Laye
Sharon, Doug and Sarah,
Sending you our deepest condolences on the passing of your mother/grandmother. May you cherish and hold on tight to the many wonderful memories together.
The Eveland’s
Lori Masse
Sharon, Doug, Sarah
Deepest Sympathy to all for the loss of Mary. Cherish many years of memories you shared.
Lori Masse and Jim Nyssen
Rick and Marilyn Vandenbussche
Raye and family, our deepest sympathy on the passing of your mom. Thinking of you all.
Ken and Marg Caldwell
Doug, Sharon and Sarah – Sincere sympathy in the loss of your mother and grandmother. We know you will dearly miss her in days ahead. Kind respects.
Jim and Mary Lou Hyde
Sharon, Raye and families, our sincere sympathies on your loss of Mary. She was a lovely lady and teacher, a friend to all, and had a perpetual smile on her face. She will be missed by many.
Wally and Jose
To Doug, Sharon, Sarah, Raye and family
Please accept our sincere condolences with the passing of your mother. Wally and I have many beautiful memories of Laird and Mary.
Sandi Morrissey
Sharon, Raye & families, We are thinking of you at this very sad time, it is never easy to say good bye to our parents. You will have many good memories to hold onto. I will always remember the good times as kids growing up on the Parr Line with you and your family.
Sincere Condolences Sandi & Dennis
Robert and Alma Westlake
Raye, Sharon and family;
Sincere sympathy to you in the passing of your Mom. Her special talents reached many people.
Robert and Alma Westlake
Elaine Corbett
Raye, Sharon and family, my deepest sympathy to each of you! Cherish your memories to help you through the days ahead! Hugs
Evelyn Vincent
Sharon & Doug & Raye and families
Sincere sympathy in your great loss. praying the good memories help bring peace and comfort.
sorry I will be unable to attend the visitation and funeral :(
Phyllis Mommersteeg
Raye and all your families,my deepest condolences on the loss of your Mom and Grandma, Thoughts and prayers are with you all at this
difficult time.Keep your beautiful memories close..
Lisa & Justin Steffler & Girls
Raye & Family
Sorry to hear about your Mother.
Thinking of you during this sad time.
Dennis and Lorraine Regier
Sincere Condolences to all of Mary’s Family.
Mary and Laird were both well respected friends
to all who knew them.
Karen L Brown
Raye, my deepest condolences on the passing of your Mother. May her memory be a blessing to you in the days ahead.
Hugs.
Kay Tripp
Raye and Family, Heartfelt condolences for the loss of your loved one..Hold onto your memories..
Joyce Black
Sincere condolences Raye and Sharon and families in the passing of your Mom/Grandmother. Cherish your memories and thinking of you all at this difficult time.
Lilliane Laporte
Sharon, Doug and Sarah,
My deepest condolences in the loss of your Mom, grandma and great grandma.
Jack and Joan Powell
Sharon, Doug, and Sarah
Sending sympathy at this sad time. I am sure you have many wonderful memories with your Mom.
Don & Charlene Oesch
Sharon & Doug, Raye & families
Sincere condolences in the loss of your mom. Many wonderful memories of her and your dad at the EUB church for many years.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Sue Riley
Sending deepest condolences to the Jacobe/Kyle families.
Mildred Northcott
Dear Sharon and Doug, Raye and families,
Sincere sympathy in the loss of your mom Mary. She taught my children at Hensall Public School and was a neighbour of my parents on Parr Line for many years. Cherish all the memories.
Rest in peace Mary.
Phil and Chris Turner
Dear Raye, Ryan, Lisa, Sharon, Doug and Sarah
We are so very sorry to hear of your mom and grandma’s passing but what wonderful memories you will all carry forward in your hearts.
Our thoughts are with you at this time.
Nancy
Extending my sincere and deepest condolences Sharon and Raye, and your families, in the loss of your mother, grandmother and great-grandmother. While it has been many many years since we have seen each other, I have many good memories of our family visits at your mom and dad’s. Sending blessings from the Scafe family (Michael, Nancy and Robert).
Linda Wuerth
Sharon and Raye
So sorry to hear about Jean. Had the privilege to know your mom at the Villa when she was a room mate with my mom (Mabel). She was a kind knowledgeable lady with a great smile. Cherish your memories with her and she will live on in your heart’s
Arlene Chipchase Styles
Sharon, Doug, Sarah & family…..my sincere condolences in the loss of your Mom. She was an occasional teacher for me in public school and remember her fondly. May your many memories carry you through these difficult days. Rest in peace Mary.
Jill & Ralph Geiger
Dear Sharon, Doug & Sarah; Raye, Ryan & Lisa,
Sending our sincere condolences on the loss of your dear Mother & Grandmother.
Remembering your Mom’s kindness & ‘spunk’.
With caring thoughts.
Larry & Bonnie Gould
To All Mary’s loved ones; I have fond memories and am thankful to have known Mary during my school years and our kids. She was always pleasant and helpful. I think also of the time Mom and Mary spent together, helping each other at Blue Water Rest Home. Always sad to say goodbye. Our Condolences.
Elaine Ford
For Raye, family and friends Condolence to you in the lose of your loved one. Memories are treasures. For the heart.
Jerry Heerema & Teressa Rose
Our sincere condolences to the Kyle and Jacobe families on Mary’s passing on to glory. Her suffering is over.
We pray for peace and comfort for Sharon and her family and Raye and his family. Jerry and his late wife Janet have known Raye and the late Jean as very good close friends when we were involved with the Anglican church services and the community choir. Since then Teressa has become friends with Raye and Ryan and his dear family as well. Blessings and comfort to you all. Unfortunately we will not be present in person at Mary’s funeral service, but know that we will be there in spirit.
Wendi Schwindt
Dear Raye and family…Mary was a wonderful part of your life. So sorry for your loss…it is hard anytime to lose a mom but especially at Christmas…
Barry & Melonie Miller
Sharon, Doug & Sarah
Raye, Ryan & Lisa
Mrs. Jacobe was a kind & thoughtful teacher. I am sure as a mom & grandma she was the same .. cherish your memories
Jon & Chelsey Passmore
Dear Kyle and Jacobe families,
Sending our condolences on the loss of your Mom, Grandma and Great-Grandmother. May your fond memories bring you a sense of comfort in the coming days and weeks.
Take care,
Jon, Chelsey and Taylor Passmore
Jim & Linda Dietrich
Sincere sympathy to all the family, so sorry for your loss.
Wayne and Helen Horner
Our condolences Sharen, Doug, Raye and All Family and Friends. RIP Mary
Tony & Marlene Bedard
Ironically I was thinking of Mary the other day.. many good memories with her and Laird at the Bowling Lanes.. So sorry to all her family ..to see you have lost her. she will be remembered.!!!
Anne Velle (Mistele)
Sorry for your loss Sharon and Raye.
Your mom was a special lady,
Through my visits with her she was able to share a lot of family history.
History was her forte as well as teaching. She had lots of advice for me when I started teaching!
I will miss my visits with her and the special hugs of love.
Gary & Beth Jennison
To the Jacobe/Kyle family, our sincere sympathy on the passing of your mom & grandma. Losing your mom, is one of life’s saddest times and our hearts go out to you. Mrs. Jacobe (she will forever be Mrs. Jacobe to me) was a wonderful teacher and I was one of her lucky students, in Hensall. She made science fun! You have many memories to cherish and I hope they bring you comfort. With hugs, Gary & Beth
Karen Dickins
Sharon, Doug, Raye and family, my deepest condolences, hold your wonderful memories close.
Sandra Schroeder
Mary was always a welcoming presence for me whenever I visited my parents at the Villa over the past several years. Her bright, kind smile and eyes comforted me on many occasions. Bless you on your journey home, you elegant lady.
Glen and Donna Greb
To Mary’s family,
Glen and I send our sincere condolences at this sad time. We will remember her at many events at the Zurich EUB church. She had a long and well lived life.
Al Harvey
To Raye and family
My condolences to you all at this time of great loss.
Doug and Joyce McBeath
Sharon, Doug and Raye. I am so sorry to read of your mom’s passing. Her patience and smile will be sorely missed. Our sympathy to all of you in this time of loss
Deborah Hayter
Please accept my heartfelt condolence on the passing of your mother, grandmother and great grandmother, Mary.
It was a pleasure to know and care for her over the years, she always had a bright smile, was kind and very gracious for everything.
Shelly McLeod Hay
RIP Mrs. Jacobe you were a great teacher at Hensall Public School you were loved by all
Ed & Marie Nethercott
So sorry to hear about the loss of your mom.
E Randall Campbell
To the Jacobe family, my condolences on the loss of Mary!
Helen Miller
Sharon and family my deepest sympathy in the loss of your Mom, she was a lovely woman.
Dave and Beth Prouty
Raye and Sharon and family, you have our sincere sympathy at this time. She lived a wonderful life and you have many treasured memories. Hold them close to your heart.