May 1, 1951 – June 29, 2023
Peacefully at Jessica’s House in Exeter, with his family by his side, Douglas completed his work here on Earth on Thursday, June 29, 2023 at the age of 72. He will now rest at his new home in Heaven, reuniting with his dear son Jeff (2002), parents Allan (2008) and Irene (2018) Finkbeiner, and in-laws Ted (1999) and Jean (2018) Geoffrey. His legacy lives on with those he devoted his life to: his beloved wife of over 53 years, Darlene (nee Geoffrey), his greatly loved children; Shawn, Carrie-Lynne (Josh Kilner), and Michelle (Jarrett Jeffrey). Proud Grandpa/Papa of Jayden and Skylar Finkbeiner, Kobe (his partner Reese) and Kaden Kilner, and Dominic Jeffrey. He will be dearly missed by his siblings, Ellis (Erlene) Stewart, Judy (Barry) Johnson, Rodger (Charlene) Finkbeiner, and Stephen (Theresa) Finkbeiner. Fondly remembered by his in-laws, nieces, and nephews.
Among the many things Douglas will be remembered for is an infectious sense of humour and quick wit, his work ethic, love of farming and strength of character. His zest for life sparkled in his eyes and lit up the world around him.
The family would like to extend their sincere appreciation to his many friends and extended family for their thoughts, prayers, and visits during this challenging time. Thanks to all the medical staff that supported Douglas along this difficult journey. Your compassionate care, along with his strength and resilience, gave more time for making lasting, precious memories. Special thanks to Dr. Khiavi, Dr. Breadner, Dr. Lam, and the staff and volunteers at Jessica’s House, SE Health, and CarePartners.
Friends may gather at Haskett Funeral Home – 456 Main St. Exeter on Wednesday, July 5th from 5 – 8 PM. A funeral mass will be held at Precious Blood Catholic Church – 200 Sanders Street West Exeter on Thursday, July 6, 2023 at 2 PM. Interment at Exeter Cemetery.
In lieu of flowers, donations to Ontario Federation for Cerebral Palsy, Jessica’s House, or a charity of your choice would be appreciated by the family.
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John & Arlene Berendsen
Sorry to hear of your loss…Enjoyed playing cards with Doug ,jokin around & talking farm stuff…thinking of you all…john
Melanie Miller
Darlene,
I am saddened to hear of Doug’s passing. Condolences to you and your family
Kim Stewart and Mike Morris
Sincere condolences to Aunt Darlene and family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this sad time. Cherish your great memories.
Manuela Roduner
Dear Darlene, Steve and family
My condolences to you, I was sad to learn if his passing. Doug was a great guy who always took time to say hello, have a few laughs, tell a story or 2 and then make sure that the corn at my parents farm got combined even if he worked all night to get it done and would jump back in a truck to go trucking for the day.
I was so surprise when he came into OEL one day last fall and asked if I was around. Didn’t matter how many years had passed, he took the time that day to chat for a bit and we got caught up on life.
He will be missed by many
Hugs to all of you
John and Linda Wuerth
Darlene and family
Doug was always thinking of his family first before his own health. He worked hard to take care of his family always. I know that he will be greatly missed by all of you. Cherish your many memories and he will live on in your hearts. You have are Deepest Sympathy
Michael Veri
Darlene, Michelle & Jarrett, Carrie-Lynne, Shawn and Finkbeiner families. Our deepest condolences in the passing of Doug. He was a man with an outstanding work ethic, an amazing sense of humour and a genuinely caring and sincere person. He will be greatly missed around Exeter Produce. We will cherish the memories and remember the laughs we all shared with him.
Mike & Lynn Veri and Families,
Joel & Megan
Kyle & Megan
Judy & Gerard Grenier
Darlene & family
Our thoughts & prayers are with you at this very difficult time. Cherish all your wonderful memories❤️
Carol Coleman
Darlene, Although it’s been a while (for me), I always enjoyed our chats after church. Your faith will carry you through this sorrowful time. Take solace in knowing Doug will now experience eternal rest.
Howard & Fay Schenk
Our sincere condolences to all the Finkbeiner family in the loss of Doug. Doug was a good man and had lots of laughs with him. Cherish the memories.
Angela Boyle (Morrissey)
So sorry to hear of Doug’s passing. My condolences to Darlene and all of the family.
Francis Denomme
I am very sorry to hear about Doug my deepest sympathy to your family my thoughts and prayers are with you.
Kathy and Terry Thiel
Dear Darlene, Shawn, Carrie-Lynne, Michelle and families;
Sending our sincere condolences on the loss of Doug. He definitely always made others smile because he had such an infectious laugh and was always smiling himself. May you find comfort in the wonderful memories that you have of his great days.
Kathy and Terry Thiel and boys
Julie Grimminck
Darlene & Family,
Sending my deepest condolences to you and prayers of comfort and peace. May your heart heal as each day passes.
Liz Bender Millson
Darlene and family
Our deepest sympathies to each of you in the passing of Doug.
Liz and Don Millson
Hans & Annie Roduner
Darlene and Finkbeiner families,
Our deepest condolences in the passing of Doug. He will always be remembered for his up beat sense of humour. A great friend, neighbour and helping hand.
Susan Oke
My sincere sympathy for the Finkbeiner family. Keep those precious memories close to help you through this difficult time. Hugs. Susan Oke and family
Phil and Patty LaPorte
Darlene and family. We are so saddened to hear of Doug’s passing. Our condolences to your family.
Shannon & Teena Houston
Darlene and family
Our condolences to you and your family . Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this sad time.
Brenda& Paul Baker
Dear Darlene & family.
We are so sorry to hear of Doug’s passing. We had many good times with you during our younger days. Remember the good times and your special memories. Sending many hugs and prayers.
Brenda & Paul Baker
nancy brand
Darlene & family, Our deepest sympathy,thinking of you at this sad time Hans&Nancy Brand
Jeremy Brand
Sorry for your loss. Doug was a great man. I always enjoyed our talks when ever I ran into him.
Clare & Brenda (Parsons) Martene & Family
Dear: Darlene & Family, Finkbeiner / Geoffrey Families . . .
Words, no matter how kind can’t mend your heartache. Please accept our deepest condolences on the loss of Doug. Your family has experienced a huge loss with his passing as a great Husband, Father, & Grandfather. As you gather to mourn his passing, may loving memories of a wonderful man replace your tears with smiles of happy times together . . . may you find strength in each other now & in the difficult days ahead. Doug’s devoted love of his family & those he held dear will forever live on in your hearts as precious memories & his legacy will live on in all of you . . .
We extend our sincerest condolences, thoughts & prayers to you all at this very heartbreaking time. God Bless 🙏🏻❤️
Sincerely, Clare & Brenda Martene & Family ❤️
Dave and Brenda Palsa
Darlene and family- our condolences on the passing of Doug. Hold onto so many years of great memories
Gary Tieman
Darlene & Finkbeiner families:
We are very sorry to hear of Doug’s passing. He always had a grin with that big mustache. Unfortunately we are unable to attend the service but please know our thoughts & prayers are with you at this time.
May your sustained memories help you through this difficult time.
Gary Tieman & Janet Killby
Marco Roduner
Darlene & family, Steve & Family,
Doug will be missed by everyone that knew him, along with his quick wit sense of humour. I hope that Doug has his dentures with him for his next journey, and they aren’t still in the 4450 putting in the hours as co-pilot.
Catherine Masse
You have my sympathy in this difficult time you are in my prayers
Dick & Barb Rau
Our deepest sympathy to you, Darlene and your family. You are in our thoughts and prayers!
Janet Chris Brown
Dear Darlene and Families
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
He was such a great fun loving man.
Rest in peace my friend
Wendy (Meidinger) Coleman
Thoughts and prayers to all the Finkbeiner, Geoffrey families.
Doug is always with you in your hearts, 💕
🙏
Paul & Marylou Gunning
Our deepest sympathies Darlene and all the family.. We will be away, so sadly we cannot make it to the funeral service, but all of you will be in our thoughts and prayers..🙏❤️🙏
Mary Draisey
Darlene, Shawn, Carrie-Lynne, Josh, Michelle, Jarrett and family.
My deepest sympathy in the passing of Doug. You are all in my thoughts and prayers. Cherish all the good memories.
Mary Draisey
Margaret Brintnell
Darlene & All Your Family, All Doug’s Siblings
Sad time for All of You. Doug was a great man & will live on in all of you. All of you will have so many memories to share now & in days to come. All his friends lots of memories. Bless all of you.
We extend our Sympathy .
Margaret Brintnell & Brad Wright & family.
Margaret Brintnell
Darlene & All Your Family, All Doug’s Siblings
Sad time for All of You. Doug was a great man & will live on in all of you. All of you will have so many memories to share now & in days to come. All his friends lots of memories. Bless all of you.
We extend our Sympathy .
Arlene [Chipchase] Styles
Darlene & Family….my deepest condalances to you in the loss of Doug, May memories of better times ease the grief.
Janice Webber
Darlene & Family
So sorry to read of Doug’s passing, my sincere sympathy.
Always a smile and a thank you.
Sincerely Janice
Randy, Vicki and Family
“If I ever begin to lose hope give me strength to keep going “
To our family Doug was a man who made you laugh forget the bad and focus on the good, life is too short to be anything but happy!
He was the strong one who smiled through his pain, cried behind closed doors and fought a courageous fight. Leaving no regrets behind! He will be missed everyday but never ever forgotten.💔
RON AND GLENDA LINDENFIELD
Darlene and Family
Our Sincere Condolences, No More Pain, May He Rest In Peace
Ron and Glenda Lindenfield
Elaine and Don Beauchamp
Darlene and Family So Sorry to Hear the sad news of Doug passing Our Deepest Sympathy at this difficult time
Patrick Jeffrey
Dear Darlene and family: our deepest sympathy and prayers go out to and your family.
Martin and Cheryl Gelinas
Dear Darlene and family,
Our deepest condolences to you and all your families. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.
Mary Anne Vanos
Darlene and family, may you find comfort in shared memories and the love you had for each other. My deepest sympathies for your loss.
Ann Baynham
Sorry to see of Doug’s passing. Cherish all your good memories.
Ann Baynham and family
Joe Rau
My deepest sympathy, Darlene and family
John and Ruth, Timmermans
Our sincere condolences to the FINKBEINER family.
Glen & Peggy Restemayer
Darlene & Family,
We were sorry to read Doug passed away.
Keeping you in our thoughts & prayers during
this difficult time.
Sincere Sympathy,
Glen & Peggy Restemayer
Patricia Geoffrey
Dearest Darlene and family! As I read through these beautiful messages I see a life well lived and a man who will go on being loved!
Many prayers and sincere condolences. Russ and June will be there for him.
Love
Patti
Terry and Helen Rau
Darlene and Family
We wish to send our sincere condolences to you and your entire family. We are thinking of everyone.
George & Helen Pratt
Darlene
Our thoughts & prayers are with you
at the passing of Doug. All the best
going forward.
Dave Frayne and Cathy Cade
To Darlene and families
Sorry to learn of Doug’s passing. We were old classmates and it nice to talk to him over the years. He enjoyed farming and of course his family.
Our condolences
Ken & Dianne Clarke
With our deepest sympathy Darlene & family. Cherish your special memories of times shared together. Thinking of you all in the difficult days ahead.Hugs💜
Wayne &Bonnie Keller
Darlene and Finkbeiner family
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time. Hold on to the memoriesll. He will be missed by all who new him. Hugs Wayne & Bonnie Keller
Karen Insley Windsor and family
Our deepest sympathy to all the family in the loss of Doug. He was a great guy loved sharing a story and always time for a laugh. May you find comfort in your memories of this special man.
Liz Herman
Dear Darlene and Family: As I read of Doug’s passing, many memories came back to me. In our many visits we shared alot of laughs and tears! I still think of you often and of Jeff. Take care and hold on to those memories, Liz Herman xo
Gary & Ann Geoffrey
Darlene and family: May you be consoled by the love of one another and the memories of the good times spent with Doug.
Marg Gingerich
My sincere condolences to all of Doug’s loved ones. May he rest easy in heaven
Ron and Dianne Ducharme
Darlene and Family
Thoughts and prayers are with all of you
at this very sad time
Sam and Julie Regier
Dear Finkbeiner family.So so sorry for your loss.I know a little how you feel as my dad experienced some of the same.Eventually the pain will turn around and will feel thankful that you had a wonderful man.I have not cross paths with Doug for awhile but I always remember the passion that he had for the farming.I think he hopes the after life is beautiful corn fields that stretch’s on and on.I think we are the same that way.Got to know your daughter Michelle as she is a neighbour and a great friend of my daughter. I hope are family can help with your loss.Good job done Doug.
Jeff and Lorraine Forrester
Dear Darlene and the entire Finkbeiner and Geoffrey family. We are so sorry for your loss. Doug was a good man and hardworking. Sending our condolences he will be missed. Remember all the memories may he rest in peace.
Jim O'Toole
My sincerest condolences Darlene. I knew Doug mostly through his farming skills. He was always so cooperative to try new things or let us carry out some new research projects on his farm. A great guy.
Jim O’Toole
Kathy Hayter
My thoughts and prayers are with all the family of Doug’s. Keep all your fun loving memories close to your heart
Harv & Evelyn Vincent
Darlene and family and each of Doug’ siblings
Sincere sympathy in your great loss. May God grant peace, strength and comfort
Phil and Lisa Dietrich
So sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all during this sad time. Cherish all those memories.
Evelyn DURNIN
Darlene and families. Our sincere sympathy to all. Evelyn and Merv
Karen Schwartzentruber
To Darlene and all the Finkbeiners.
So very sad to hear of Doug’s passing.
My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Karen Schwartzentruber
Elaine Ducharme
Our sincere condolences on your loss.
George and Elaine Ducharme
Carol Finkbeiner Thomas
Darlene, Shawn, Carrie-Lynn, Michelle and families. We are so sorry to hear about our cousin Doug. Thinking of you all. I will always remember certain moments of kindness in my childhood. It left a great impression on me and I am grateful.
Cousin Carol and the Howard Finkbeiner family.
Larry and Lois Jones
Our deepest condolences in the passing of Doug. Thoughts and prayers to you and your family!
Joe and Diane Kaak
Darlene and family,
Our sympathy in the loss of your loved one .
Keeping you in our prayers.
Joe and Diane Kaak
Marion McCarter
Thinking of you at this sad and difficult time Michelle and Jarrett and Dominique and your families. Treasure your wonderful memories and keep them in your hearts forever. Deepest sympathy.
Marion McCarter
Marlene Patrick
My thoughts and prayers for your family. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️
Lawrence and Dianne
Darlene and all the family,
Our deepest sympathy and caring thoughts are with you at this sad and difficult time.
Nancy-Rae and Bob Lovie
Darlene and family and to the Geoffrey and Finkbeiner families..
Our deepest sympathy to you all at this sad time as you grieve the loss of a wonderful man.
Cherish the wonderful memories.. Hugs and prayers to you all.
Jim Oesch
Such a sad thing, you’re too young , condolences Darlene and families
Marje and Ron Overholt
Darlene and Family..sending our sincere condolences at this very difficult time!!
Sending hugs and love
Marje and Ron Overholt
Brent Wuerth
Dear Darlene and family
My deepest sympathies thinking of you all Doug was such a great guy he taught me a lot of things and I will always cherish those memories
Annette Annette Denomme
Darlene and Family, my condolences to you all at this time. Hold those memories close to your heart and they will bring you comfort
Phil & Linda Regier
Our deepest sympathy to you Darlene & your family. Have you on our thoughts & prayers at this difficult time
Doug and Dianne Regier
Darlene and family
Our thoughts are with you at this difficult time.
Clarence Rau
My sincere sympathy to Darlene and family. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Kevin and Rita Lewis
Darlene, Shawn, Carrie-Lynn, Michelle and families. Thinking of all of you during this difficult time. We so enjoyed Doug’s company at our weekly winter euchre games and his sense of humour and quick wit will be greatly missed. Rest in Peace our dear friend,
Love Kevin and Rita Lewis
Phil & Linda Regier
Our deep condolences to you Darlene & your family. Doug will no longer be suffering & will be happy with his love ones in heaven hugs
Doug Geoffrey
my deepest sympathy to my sister Darlene and her children Shawn Carrie-Lynne Josh Michelle Jarrett and all your family,what a great man Doug was, we will always remember the fun memories and some hardships that we experienced together.Rest in peace Doug.love all of you
Jerry & Rose Vanbruaene
Darlene,Shawn,Carrie-Lynne, Josh, Michelle, Jarrett,grandchildren, and members of the Geoffrey and Finkbeiner families.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all as you mourn the loss of Doug. Anyone who knew him will remember his honesty and hard work with always his family front and fore most in everything he did! To say he will be greatly missed would be an understatement but we can all cherish the wonderful memories we have of our times together!! Rest In Peace my friend.
Milt and Barb Dietrich
Darlene and Family, Finkbeiner and Geoffrey families,
Our sincere condolences on Doug’s passing. Treasure your memories of happy times together. May they comfort you always.
Thinking of you.
Milt and Barb Dietrich
Jeff Borland
To the entire Finkbeiner Family please accept my condolence in the passing of Doug.
Julie Clarke
Carrie Lynne and Families
So sorry for your loss .
I remember your dad dancing with us to red red wine!
Thinking of you 🥰
Don & Joan Heywood
Darlene and family:
So sorry for your loss. Doug always had the time to chat with a smile on his face. Our thoughts and prayers are with your family. Cherish the wonderful memories. Sincerely Don & Joan
George Watson
To Darlene and your family, and Dougs siblings, sorry for your loss of a great guy.
arlene and scott thomson family
Dear Darlene and Family
Thinking of you and your family at this time.
Kevin and Shelley Geoffrey
Deepest sympathies to Darlene and family and friends. Keep and the great memories close to heart.
Mike and Beatie Rau
Darlene and family our prayers and thoughts are with you at this difficult time! Remember the happy and wonderful memories with Doug 🙏 .
Mike and Beatie
Marlene and Jim Regier
Darlene and family our thoughts and prayers are with you during this sad time. Sending hugs to all
Elaine Clarke Ducharme
Darlene and family, Finkbeiner and Geoffrey families
Thoughts and prayers are with you all at this difficult time. Treasure the many wonderful memories and hold them close for always ❤️
Elaine
Karen Dickins
Darlene and family, my deepest condolences,thinking of you all.
Howard and Yvonne Hendrick
Sincere condolences to Darlene, Shawn, Carrie-Lynne Josh, Michelle, Jarrett and families in the passing of Doug. He was truly one of a kind and will be greatly missed. Cherish all your wonderful memories.
Love, prayers and hugs.
Howard and Yvonne and family.
Linda Dietrich
Darlene, & all the family,
Our heartfelt sympathy to each and everyone of you, he was a great family man and friend to all, he will be greatly missed, thinking of all of you.
Jim & Linda Dietrich.
Kim Mckay
Darlene, Michelle and families
My deepest condolences in the passing of Doug. Thoughts and prayers to you and your family!
George and Elaine Keller
Darlene, Shawn, Carrie-Lynne, Josh, Michelle, Jarrett and family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this sad time. We will always cherish the memories we have of the times we enjoyed together. Lots of love.