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De Boer: Mary (Van Soest) of Exeter

April 12, 2022 By Haskett Funeral Homes 35 Condolences

De Boer: Mary (Van Soest) of Exeter

Our beloved Mary peacefully went home into the loving arms of her Lord and Saviour on Thursday, April 7, 2022, at the age of 78. Mary is lovingly remembered by her husband Jerry of 55 years; two daughters Sheryl (Conrad) Kuiper and Sandra (Bob) Northey; 5 grandchildren and 2 great grandsons. Her memory will be cherished by brother Jack (Mary) Van Soest, sister Shirley (Greg) Hammond, sister Dorothy Rozema and extended family. Mary was predeceased by her parents, Gerrit and Hendrika (Van Elswyk) Van Soest, brother John Van Soest. 

Mary was a devoted wife and mother. She enjoyed knitting and volunteering at the church and in the community. Among her most favourite things to do was ladies Bible Study. Mary loved to walk throughout Exeter, lawn bowling, volunteer at the Doveโ€™s Nest and spend time in Florida during the winter. Sadly, dementia began to change what Mary was able to do. She was blessed to spend her final years at home under the loving care of her husband Jerry.

Maryโ€™s memorial service will be held at the Exeter Bible Fellowship, 187 Huron Street West, EXETER on Tuesday, April 26th at 1 PM. Interment Exeter Cemetery.

Donations to the Alzheimer Society of Huron County or the charity of your choice would be appreciated by the family. 

Special thanks to the staff at South Huron Hospital for their care and compassion.

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  1. CHESTER BAARDA

    April 28, 2022 at 11:24 PM

    My condolences to you Jerry, and your family, as you mourn the loss of Mary.

  2. Jannie Verbeek

    April 27, 2022 at 10:10 AM

    Dear Jerry and family. We are so sorry for your loss. The funeral was very honoring to Mary. We were not able to stay and visit after the funeral because of other obligations. We will keep you in our prayers and thoughts.
    Helen Voerman, Jannie and Karl Verbeek

  3. Erv & Irla Steinmann

    April 23, 2022 at 2:33 PM

    Our thoughts and prayers are with you Jerry. Mary was a sweet soul and loved to walk around Lake Erie every day. We hope to see you at the memorial service Erv and Irla Steinmann

  4. Jim & Doris Cober

    April 21, 2022 at 9:36 PM

    We have good memories of times spent with Mary and you, Jerry, in Sunnybreeze and in Exeter. Mary was a very sweet and gentle person and it was a privilege to know her. May the peace and comfort of the Lord be very real to you, Jerry, in these times of adjustment.

  5. Don and Mary Oesch

    April 21, 2022 at 4:43 PM

    Our sincere sympathy to you and your family, Jerry

  6. Keith and Jean Koetsier

    April 21, 2022 at 3:13 PM

    Our sincere condolences to the family in your loss of Mary. Fond remembrances of our time together at Sunnybreeze. Blessings to you, Jerry for your loving care of Mary during all of her years of decline. May you feel the peace and comfort that only God can give. Keith &Jean

  7. Kathy and Ed. Cober

    April 21, 2022 at 11:35 AM

    Dear Jerry and family. We are sorry to read of Marys passing Remebering the good times we had at Sunnybreeze Our prayers are with you as you travel through this diffcult time.

  8. Roy M Bergey

    April 21, 2022 at 11:04 AM

    My deepest condolences to you and your family Jerry. I recall with such fondness our times with you and Mary in Sunnybreeze. Barbara left us 4 years ago next month after learning she had kidney cancer. May God provide continued strength and comfort to you in these days.

  9. Bill & Kathy Schafer

    April 21, 2022 at 9:45 AM

    Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family, Jerry. We enjoyed many years in Mary and your company at Sunnybreeze. Mary will not be forgotten. Blessings Bill&Kathy Schafer

  10. Wally n Gloria Kollman

    April 21, 2022 at 7:58 AM

    Dear Jerry and Family.Wally and I send Thoughts and Prayers at this time of sadness,.but great rejoycing for dear Mary.We have so many Special memories of Mary and You at Sunnybreeze Florida.Deepest sympathy to you.love Wally n Gloria

  11. Gwen Cullen

    April 21, 2022 at 6:53 AM

    We are sad for your loss, Jerry.
    Dementia is such a cruel disease. We say goodbye many times… you lost her to the disease and pieces of her with each decline.
    We pray you will find Peace and relief now that she is safely Home. God bless you for your years of care.
    Peter and Gwen Cullen

  12. Mark Heimrich

    April 20, 2022 at 9:28 PM

    Jerry & Family;

    Our sincere sympathy in the loss of Mary. Cherish your many memories. You are all in our thoughts at this time.

    Mark (& Julie) Heimrich & staff at Lifetime Water Products

  13. Bob and Helen Coates

    April 20, 2022 at 1:41 PM

    Jerry we offer our sincere sympathy on the loss of a dear wife, mother and grandmother. We have lovely memories of our visits with Mary and you at Dining for Seniors. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

  14. Esther Nafziger

    April 20, 2022 at 12:26 PM

    I have wonderful childhood memories of Mary. I believe our hearts united when we were in first grade at that little one-room school. Mary spoke only Dutch and I spoke English, but as we held hands and walked around the school at recess we became friends. May God’s comfort give you peace in this difficult time.

  15. Faye Skinner

    April 20, 2022 at 9:30 AM

    Jerry and family:
    My deepest condolences Jerry. I am thinking of you at this time. Mary was always a soft spoken individual and had such a gentle spirit. It was a pleasure to have known her.

    Faye Skinner

  16. Nadene Bedell

    April 17, 2022 at 2:42 PM

    My deepest condolences, Jerry, on the passing of Mary. I fondly recall our conversations at Bethel Church. May memories of her be a blessing.

  17. Annette Vellenga

    April 17, 2022 at 9:24 AM

    My condolences to you at the passing of Mary.

  18. Klein

    April 16, 2022 at 8:05 PM

    Our sincere condolences ๐Ÿ’ Rob & Sharon Klein

  19. Judy Hansen

    April 16, 2022 at 9:59 AM

    I sorry for the loss of a wife, Mother, Grandmother.

  20. Jacobus van Elswyk

    April 15, 2022 at 11:05 AM

    So sorry for your loss Jerry, Mary leaves us with many good memories. Our condolences to you and family.

  21. Jacobus van Elswyk

    April 15, 2022 at 11:02 AM

    So sorry for your loss Jerry, Mary leaves us with many good memories. Our condolences to you and family.5

  22. Lori Atkinson

    April 15, 2022 at 7:40 AM

    So sorry for your families loss, many memories of Mary. She was one of my Calvinette counselors, I also had the opportunity to work with Mary at Draycon. May you all be comforted in this difficult time

  23. Brian & Elaine Hodgins

    April 14, 2022 at 11:42 AM

    So sorry to hear of Mary’s passing. May all the good memories bring you peace and comfort. Cherish these memories. Our heartfelt sympathy go you, Jerry. Thinking of you during this difficult time.

  24. Pete and Gloria McFalls

    April 13, 2022 at 7:57 PM

    Jerry and family,

    Sorry to hear of Mary’s passing. We had many enjoyable years of lawn bowling with you and Mary.

  25. Russell &Verona Snider

    April 13, 2022 at 6:10 PM

    So very very sad to see that Mary has to HEAVEN and you are left alone. I remember the good times we had going out together to other lawn bowling tournaments. We are thinking and praying for you all at this time of your sorrows .

  26. Mary Jane Mac Dougall

    April 13, 2022 at 4:33 PM

    Jerry, Sheryl, Sandra and families
    My sympathies on the loss of Mary. I have many memories of time spent with Jerry and Mary during our โ€œ Big O โ€œ days. A devoted wife and mother, always sincere and a pleasure to be with. Thoughts of you all.

  27. Jim Chapman

    April 13, 2022 at 4:06 PM

    Jerry, Sheryl, Sandra and families
    My deepest sympathy. The loss of a loved one is never easy but there are many positives that will endure after the loss abates. I’ll try to throw the perfect bowling ball for her this summer and I’ll keep the good memories, of Sheryl and Sandra, from EPS.

  28. Anne and Bert Langendyk

    April 13, 2022 at 2:51 PM

    We both want it offer our condolences to all of the family. We remember Mary from when we worshipped together at Exeter CRC…when we were in the little white church..on Main St (where the car wash is now).
    Prayers and cares to all of the family.
    Bert and Anne Langendyk

  29. Mary Lou Thomson

    April 13, 2022 at 1:40 PM

    Jerry, Sheryl & Sandra,
    Please accept our deepest sympathy in the loss of a dear wife, Mother, Grandma & Great Grandma. Cherish all those happy memories and think of them when it’s hard to get through the sadness.
    Mary Lou & Jack

  30. Wibbina Toonk

    April 13, 2022 at 11:57 AM

    Dear Jerry and familyโ€ฆ..Please accept my sincere condolences in the loss of Mary. I pray that God may comfort you now and the days, weeks and months ahead as you grieve this loss.
    Wibbina Toonk

  31. Gary Land

    April 13, 2022 at 11:05 AM

    To Jerry and family ;

    Thinking of you all as you grieve the loss of your wife, mother , grandmother and great grandmother . May you feel Godโ€™s presence and His peace.

  32. Gabbie and Margaret Mol

    April 12, 2022 at 6:32 PM

    Please accept our sincere condolences With the loss of Mary

  33. Hendrika Blomberg

    April 12, 2022 at 5:23 PM

    Iโ€™m so sorry to hear of your loss . Sending my condolences. I remember having great conversation with Mary when we had the chance to meet up usually something to do with family. Itโ€™s been a while since Iโ€™ve seen her.
    My thoughts are with the family.
    Hendrika Blomberg (cousin)

  34. Marion McCarter

    April 12, 2022 at 5:17 PM

    Jerry, Sheryl and Sandra and families;
    Sorry for your loss of Mary as a wife, mother, grandmother and great grandmother. Treasure her happy times and she
    will be in your hearts forever as you journey forward. Deepest Sympathy.
    Marion McCarter, Teresa and Joe, Diane and Dave and Cheryl and Ernie and families

  35. Pauline Hogan

    April 12, 2022 at 4:49 PM

    Dear Jerry and family,

    Very sorry to read of Maryโ€™โ€™s passing. Remember all the the good years you had together. Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers.

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