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DAMEN: Antonius “Tony” Arnoldus Maria of RR 3 Lucan

February 26, 2020 By Haskett Funeral Home 82 Condolences

DAMEN: Antonius “Tony” Arnoldus Maria of RR 3 Lucan

“What we once had and deeply loved, we can never lose. For all that we have loved deeply, becomes a part of us”

Tony Damen, passed away peacefully at LHSC – University Hospital, with family by his side, on Wednesday, February 26, 2020 of Lucan at the age of 74. Beloved husband for 50 years of Carole (Foster) Damen. Loving father of Robert Damen, Daphne Damen and Robert Womack, and Rosemary Damen. Proud Papa of Cole, and Meghan Damen, Connor, and Rhett Womack, Olivia, and Anthony McLeod. Dear brother and brother-in-law of Anne and John Van Sas, John and Sadie, Bert and Jeannine, Bill and Judy, Harry and Sheila, and Mary and Doug Lee. Fondly remembered by many nieces and nephews. Tony was born in Didam, The Netherlands on the 3rd of June, 1945. He is the son of the late Bill and Maria Damen.

Visitation will be held at Haskett Funeral Home, 223 Main Street, LUCAN on Friday from 2 – 4 and 7 – 9 PM. Prayers will be said in the funeral home at 1:30 PM. The Funeral Mass will be held at St. Patrick Catholic Church, 32922 Richmond Street, Lucan on Saturday, February 29th at 11 AM. Father Ross Bartley presiding. Interment St. Patrick Catholic Cemetery, Lucan.

Donations to London Down Syndrome Association would be appreciated by the family.

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  1. Gary Klein Herenbrink

    December 3, 2020 at 11:22 AM

    Dear Carol and family
    Received your X-mass card today and got a real shock to see only your name was on the card. We looked Tony’s name up on Google to find out he had passed on Feb 26 2020. What a hart breaking moment this was for us. For whatever reason that I missed hearing of the sad news about my dear friend Tony. yesterday. Carol and fam our sincere condolences, and I know how much you must miss him, his love and kindness. Hugs from Tereza and me Gary.

  2. Kathleen Westerhout

    March 11, 2020 at 9:42 PM

    Dear Damen family,

    It is with a heavy heart that I feel the loss of Tony and the shared sadness within your family. The depth of loss felt is simply a reflection of how much love joins you to another person. And I can appreciate how deep this well is for Tony. What I’ve learned about loss is that this sense of separation is an opportunity to relate in a new way; over time new connections can form that are uniquely yours and bring you peace. All of you influenced my childhood so beautifully and Tony was certainly a part of it. So many fond memories of him coming in from the barn for lunches with his witty jokes, cheeky laughs, and huge smiles. Remember that day he made me a peanut butter and jelly sandwich? He literally smeared pb on one side of the bread slice and jam on the other side. We all laughed until we cried. Bless him for trying. I always felt safe, loved, and welcomed in your home and I recall those days as some of the best years of my life. Tony will always be dear to my heart as will all of you. I love you. I am thinking of you and wishing you all grace.

  3. Be. Dayman

    March 4, 2020 at 10:00 PM

    Rose
    So sorry for your loss
    I am thinking of you at this difficult time
    Bev Dayman

  4. Anne Langendyk

    March 2, 2020 at 9:33 AM

    Condolences to all of the family and friends. Tony’s ready smile and humour will be missed by all.
    May you take comfort in knowing he is at peace in the arms of our Lord.

  5. Shellie

    March 1, 2020 at 2:39 PM

    Our deepest condolences Rose and family.

  6. Diane Elston

    February 29, 2020 at 7:14 PM

    To the Damen family,
    My sympathies to your family on the loss of Tony.
    Diane (Martens) Elston

  7. Lynne (Hern) Haughton

    February 29, 2020 at 2:26 PM

    My thoughts and prayers are with you all at this sad time.
    May the memories you have be shared and treasured.
    Lynne

  8. Bob and Helen Coates

    February 29, 2020 at 1:50 PM

    Our sympathy to you, Carole and your family for your loss. Bob and Helen Coates

  9. Tim and Annette Martens

    February 29, 2020 at 10:34 AM

    Sincere sympathies to all the Damen families for the loss of Tony. Our prayers are with you in this time of sorrow and grief.

  10. Andy & Cindy Harrigan

    February 29, 2020 at 8:25 AM

    Thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time

  11. Steve & Joanne Jaques

    February 29, 2020 at 7:12 AM

    Dear Carole, Robert, Daphne,Rosemary and Families
    So very sorry to hear of Tony’s passing.
    We will cherish the many fond memories of Tony that we have gathered over the years.
    Our thoughts and prayers are with your family during this very difficult time.

    Steve & Joanne Jaques & family

  12. janet vanderloo

    February 29, 2020 at 6:12 AM

    To the whole Damen family, my heart goes out to you during this very difficult time. I am so sorry to hear of the death of Tony. I remember babysitting for Tony and Carol many times. To carol, Robert, Daphne and Rosemary; you will remain in my prayers.

    Janet Vanderloo

  13. Brian and Janet Damen

    February 29, 2020 at 12:18 AM

    Aunt Carole, Rob, Daphne, Rose and families.
    We lost a wonderful man, but Uncle Tony’s laughing, joking, mischievous, kind, and loving spirit lives on.
    Our thoughts are with all of you. Much love from Calgary. Brian and Janet Damen

  14. Gary and Kathy Simpson

    February 28, 2020 at 9:49 PM

    Dear Carole. Gary and I were so sad to read of Tony’s passing. You have a wonderful family and lots of friends to share your loss with. 50 years plus of memories, what a wonderful legacy. R.I.P. Tony. This condolence comes with hugs.

  15. Pam Benoit

    February 28, 2020 at 7:14 PM

    Carol and family….So sorry for your loss. Thinking of you in deepest sympathy. May you find peace in your treasured memories.

  16. Cathy Stead

    February 28, 2020 at 6:15 PM

    Dear Carole, Daphne, Robert, Rose & families:

    We are saddened to hear of Tony’s passing. He was a great man with a wonderful sense of humour & a powerful love for his family, community & friends.
    May all of you cherish the memories & remember the good times!
    Your Dad is your special angel & will remain in your hearts forever!

    Sincerest sympathy
    Mike & Cathy (Siddall) Stead

  17. Gary 7 Geraldine Parsons

    February 28, 2020 at 4:36 PM

    Carole & family
    We were sad to hear of Tony’s passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
    Gary & Geraldine Parsons

  18. Arthur Wheeler

    February 28, 2020 at 4:18 PM

    Dear Carole, Robert, Daphne, Rosemary and families.
    So sorry to hear about the passing of Tony. Our wonderful memories of him are cherished deeply.
    Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
    Arthur, Jane, Gordon and Scott Wheeler

  19. Stan & Joan Francis

    February 28, 2020 at 1:13 PM

    Carole, Robert, Daphne, & Rosemary

    Our deepest sympathy to you and your family.
    Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this sad time.

  20. Ron and Mary Ryan

    February 28, 2020 at 12:51 PM

    Dear Carole, Rob, Daphne and Rosemary and families,
    We are deeply saddened to hear of the loss of your husband, father and grandfather, Tony.
    We remember him as a quiet and gentle, but very warm-hearted man.
    Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers!
    Love,
    Ron and Mary Ryan

  21. Abby Yule

    February 28, 2020 at 11:23 AM

    Carole & Family,

    Our deepest condolences to you at this hard time. Tony was such a wonderful man. I always enjoyed our visits. He will be missed by so many. I am so happy you guys were able to make it to the wedding. Such a wonderful memory.

    Abby, Ryan & Family.

  22. Lynn Hainer

    February 28, 2020 at 11:07 AM

    Carole, Rob, Daphne and Rose,

    We love your family and are sorry to hear of his passing. I can just imagine Tony and Stan having a grand old time!

    We are making a dontation to the Down Syndrome Association in his name.

    Love,
    Vi Corbett and family

  23. Bernadette Lockhart

    February 28, 2020 at 10:59 AM

    Dear Carole and family
    We are so sorry to hear about the passing of Tony . He will be missed and it was a pleasure to get to know him over the years. Please know that we are thinking about you and your wonderful family !
    Much love
    Jeff , Bernadette Lockhart and family

  24. Jane Parkinson

    February 28, 2020 at 9:17 AM

    Carole and Family,

    So very sorry for Tony’s passing, remember all the good times. My thoughts and prayers are with you and all the Damen family

  25. Bob and Anne Pincombe

    February 28, 2020 at 8:40 AM

    Dear Damen Family,
    Sincere condolences to all of Tony’s family and friends. Prayers for strength and peace as you travel this journey of losing a loved one.

    Pincombe Family

  26. Sandra & Larry Hern & Family

    February 28, 2020 at 7:32 AM

    Dear Carole, Robert, Daphne, Rosemary and all your Family,

    Words cannot express the sorrow we feel for all of you in the sad loss of Tony. He was a beloved Husband, Dad, Poppa and Brother and he loved his family dearly. He was our dear friend and wonderful neighbor and we will miss his wit, his joy of life, and that wonderful smile and his heartwarming laugh. He loved to tease and took great delight in doing it at every opportunity. No one can take away your memories and I pray that they will bring you much comfort in the coming days ahead. May the love of friends and family and our love for Tony surround you and bring you peace. xxoo

  27. Gay and Jim Waters

    February 28, 2020 at 7:08 AM

    Dear Carole, Tony, Robert, Daphne, Rose and families.
    We were so sorry to learn of Tony’s passing. He was such a wonderful husband, father, grandfather and friend.
    Tony’s love and life with all of you will live on within you as your very precious treasure.
    We send our love and prayers.
    Gay and Jim

  28. RON AND GLENDA

    February 28, 2020 at 5:09 AM

    Dear Carole and Family

    Our Sincere Condolences, keep all those Wonderful Memories Close

    Ron and Glenda Lindenfield

  29. Stacey Dykeman

    February 27, 2020 at 9:40 PM

    I have such sweet memories of Tony, who was always so patient and kind. I’m thinking of you all and I am so sorry for your loss.

  30. Earl and Marilyn Miller

    February 27, 2020 at 9:32 PM

    Carol and Damen family,

    Our sincere sympathy to you in the passing of Tony. We know he will be deeply missed. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

  31. Ann Spearin

    February 27, 2020 at 8:25 PM

    Dear Carole & Family,
    We are so sorry to hear that Tony has passed away. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this most difficult time. May the many wonderful memories
    help to ease the pain in your hearts today and days ahead.
    Ann and George

  32. The Dauncey Family

    February 27, 2020 at 7:58 PM

    We are so very sorry to hear of Tony’s passing. Thinking of you all during this difficult time.

  33. Bonnie Manders

    February 27, 2020 at 7:34 PM

    Sincere Sympathy Carole, Robert, Daphne, Rosemary and Families. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this sad and difficult time and in the days ahead.

  34. Anne Giesen

    February 27, 2020 at 7:04 PM

    Our deepest sympathies to the Damen family. You are in our thoughts during this difficult time. Anne Giesen and family

  35. Cy&Eleanor Blommaert

    February 27, 2020 at 6:31 PM

    Carol…I am so sorry to read that Tony had passed.
    Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers.
    Hugs Eleanor

  36. Marty & Karen Van Praet

    February 27, 2020 at 6:26 PM

    Carole and family So very sorry for your loss Tony was a great man. You guys are in our thoughts and prayers

  37. Reiny Freiter

    February 27, 2020 at 6:09 PM

    Carol and Family
    So sorry to here of Tony’s passing. What a loss of a great individual. Tony loved life and more than that he loved his family. I have great memories of stories we shared. Tony’s infectious smile and laughter could brighten anyone’s day.
    Deepest sympathies.

  38. Hans and Marie Ewald

    February 27, 2020 at 6:06 PM

    Dear Carole Robert Daphne Rosemary and your families We were so sorry to hear that Tony had passed away .We will miss him , his gentle kind ways and his sense of humour .The Ridgetown memories will always be cherished .Hans and Marie Ewald

  39. Tom & Mary Ann McLaughlin

    February 27, 2020 at 5:56 PM

    Dear Carole and Damen Family

    We were saddened to hear of Tony’s passing. Know you are in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. Remember all the smiles and memories Tony created as they will last you a life time.
    Tom, Mary Ann McLaughlin & Family

  40. Murray and Edith

    February 27, 2020 at 5:18 PM

    Our heartfelt sympathies to Bill and Judy, John and Sadie, Mary and Doug and families. May the many memories that all of you have help you through this difficult time.

  41. Donna & Bob Maslen

    February 27, 2020 at 5:09 PM

    Carole, Robert, Daphne, Rosemary and families. We are so very sorry for your loss.

  42. Huron Perth Ag Service Inc

    February 27, 2020 at 4:56 PM

    Sending our condolences to the Damen family in the passing of Tony.

    From everyone at Huron Perth Ag Service.

  43. Sheila Arthur

    February 27, 2020 at 4:51 PM

    Rob sorry to hear your dad passed .Sincerest sympathy to all your family. Bill and Sheila Arthur

  44. Henk Kampers

    February 27, 2020 at 4:48 PM

    To the Damen family
    Our sincere condolences at this time with the sudden passing of Tony .
    May God give all of you strength at this difficult time .
    God Bless Henk & Marilyn Kampers

  45. Howard and Yvonne Hendrick

    February 27, 2020 at 4:23 PM

    Dear Carole and family.
    Offering our sincere condolences to you all in the passing of Tony. We will miss seeing him and his smiling face at the playhouse this summer. May your cherished memories help sustain you as you mourn his passing.

    Sincerely Howard and Yvonne Hendrick

  46. Wes & Christine Hodgson

    February 27, 2020 at 3:47 PM

    Carol & family & all the Damen families. Our Sincere Sympathy to you all on your loss of Tony Our thoughts are with you at this very difficult time.

  47. Rob Van Bommel

    February 27, 2020 at 3:21 PM

    Our deepest condolences from William&Mary Van Bommel & family may he rest in peace

  48. Rob Van Bommel

    February 27, 2020 at 3:20 PM

    Our deepest condolences from William&Mary Van Bommel & family

  49. Larry and Sharon Lynn

    February 27, 2020 at 2:52 PM

    Carole – thinking of you and your family and sending our sympathy at this sad time.

  50. The Howitt Family

    February 27, 2020 at 2:40 PM

    Carole and family, we have many good memories of Tony with our kids on the farm. So Sorry for your loss.

  51. Victoria and Alan Berry

    February 27, 2020 at 2:33 PM

    Rob and family – our deepest condolences.

  52. Sandra Ulch

    February 27, 2020 at 1:34 PM

    We are sorry to hear that Tony has passed away.

    We send our sincere sympathy to you Carole and your family.
    John and Sandy Ulch

  53. Marjorie Mills

    February 27, 2020 at 10:50 AM

    Carol, I was so saddened to hear of Tony and wanted you and family to know my thoughts and prayers are with you all. He will be greatly missed and you will think of him always.

  54. Vicki and Paul Smith

    February 27, 2020 at 10:45 AM

    So very sorry to hear of your loss. Our sincere condolences to all of you.

  55. Bob & Cathy Moore

    February 27, 2020 at 10:44 AM

    Carole&Family, so sorry for your loss. Hold all to all those great memories, Prayers and thoughts are with you.

  56. Dave & Deb Chappel

    February 27, 2020 at 10:11 AM

    Carole and family
    We were so sorry to read of Tony’s passing. He was a special fellow whose smile and twinkle in his eye will never be forgotten. Thinking of each of you at this difficult time.

  57. Laura Dixon

    February 27, 2020 at 9:08 AM

    Carol , I am so sorry to learn of Tony’s passing. You and your family have our deepest sympathy. Don and Laura Dixon

  58. Dale and Hellen Bulanda

    February 27, 2020 at 8:55 AM

    Carole and family’
    May the strength of your Faith carry you through this difficult time. May time heal some of the ache in your heart, and may your sadness turn into found memories of Tony.

  59. Ray & Sue Heffernan

    February 27, 2020 at 8:29 AM

    Our Sincere Sympathy to all the Damen Families on your Loss of Tony Our Thoughts & Prayers are with you at this very difficult time.
    Ray & Sue Heffernan

  60. Chuck Erb

    February 27, 2020 at 8:14 AM

    Carole & Family,
    I was so saddened to read of Tony’s passing this morning. Such a Wonderful man and always a joy to deal with at HMP. We had many discussions about life, and our Christian Faith. I am currently in Florida, and unable to attend the Funeral service.
    Keeping You All in my Thoughts & Prayers

  61. Peggy Wilkinson

    February 27, 2020 at 8:09 AM

    Carole & Family:

    Carole we are so sorry to hear and read of Tony’s passing, Our thoughts and prayer’s go out yo you all during this difficult time..

    Joanne & Peggy Wilkinson
    Ken Bender

  62. William and Sylvia Galloway

    February 27, 2020 at 8:09 AM

    We are so sorry for your loss. He will be greatly missed by many. You are in our thoughts and prayers

  63. Marion McCarter

    February 27, 2020 at 7:07 AM

    Carole and family:
    Thinking of you at this sad and difficult time in the loss of Tony. May his memories become treasures you will carry in
    your hearts forever. Deepest Sympathy.
    Marion (Thomson) McCarter

  64. Jessica Arthur

    February 26, 2020 at 9:53 PM

    Rob, My sympathies are with you and your family at this time.

  65. Keith and Liz Selves

    February 26, 2020 at 9:52 PM

    Carole and family, we are so sorry to hear of your loss. Tony was a great guy . Our condolences to the whole Damen family.

  66. Paul and Mary Hammel

    February 26, 2020 at 9:42 PM

    Our sincere condolences Carole and to your family. Thinking of you as you go through this difficult time.

  67. Matthew McCaffrey

    February 26, 2020 at 9:40 PM

    Carole,

    My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.
    Growing up I had many fond memories on your farm.
    Tony taught this city slicker a few things. Mainly, – shorts, tank-top and flip flops are not the appropriate attire for haying.

    Love

    Matthew McCaffrey

  68. Shannon O’Shea Ross

    February 26, 2020 at 9:36 PM

    Dear Carole, Robert, Daphne & Rose;
    Our sincere condolences, love and prayers are extended to all of you. Dear “Tono” had the greatest smile and chuckle that matched his heart of gold. Our community was richer with him in it, and we will cherish our memories with him forever.
    With love,
    Shannon & Mark & family xo

  69. Catherine McCormick(Klahre)

    February 26, 2020 at 9:35 PM

    Carole and family,my thoughts are with you at this sad time

  70. Carole Batten

    February 26, 2020 at 9:27 PM

    Tony taught me about farming, how to deliver a calf! He taught me about no till!
    I learned when you shave a black and white cow, it’s skin is black and whits!!!
    He loved to kid me and then have his little snicker I hope my Richard was there to greet you with open arms!

  71. Cheryl kennedy

    February 26, 2020 at 9:23 PM

    Rose, Brian and I are so sorry to hear about your father, you and the kids are in our thoughts

  72. Pat and Cindy Murphy

    February 26, 2020 at 9:19 PM

    Our condolences to all the Damens. Tony has left a great hole in his family and our thoughts will be with them as they move through this .

  73. Marianne Ferguson

    February 26, 2020 at 9:14 PM

    Carole and Family,
    So sorry for your loss. Hold your wonderful memories close.
    Ron & Marianne

  74. Jennifer Duskocy

    February 26, 2020 at 9:00 PM

    Our very sincerest condolences. It was always a joy to visit the Damen house and be witness to Tony’s always smiling face and witty humour.
    Our love— Jennifer Duskocy & Ella, Zachary and Caroline

  75. Marg & Larry Hotson

    February 26, 2020 at 8:47 PM

    Carol & family. Sorry to here about your loss. We will remember you in our thoughts and prayers.

  76. Lynda and Phil Hunt

    February 26, 2020 at 8:34 PM

    Sorry for your loss.

  77. Katie

    February 26, 2020 at 7:55 PM

    Carol, Daphne, Rob, Rose and families,
    I’m so sorry for your loss.
    I’m thinking of you all.
    Katie Robson XO

  78. Joanne Bengough

    February 26, 2020 at 7:41 PM

    Thinking of you Carole and family, sending our prayers to you all.
    Joe and Joanne Bengough

  79. Linda and Dave Feick

    February 26, 2020 at 6:58 PM

    Carole and Family
    We were saddened to learn of Tony’s passing.
    Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
    Linda and Dave Feick
    Woodstock, Ontario

  80. Gail Currie

    February 26, 2020 at 6:20 PM

    All our love and deepest sympathy Carole and family with happy memories that will last forever We miss you Tony
    RIP our long time wonderful friend from the Currie Crew : Gail Doug Ray Shawn and Kim Trish and Mark Bryan and julie and families

  81. Yvonne/Jim Barnetson

    February 26, 2020 at 6:11 PM

    So sorry to hear of Tony’s passing Carole and family .
    Our thoughts and prayers are with you .
    He was such a wonderful husband , father ,Grand father and friend.
    RIP Tony !

  82. Paul and Sue Robinson

    February 26, 2020 at 6:02 PM

    Dear Carole, Robert, Daphne, Rosemary and Families. So very sorry to hear of the passing of a great friend and a wonderful person. Tony will be so greatly missed. Love Paul and Sue Robinson

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