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BARR: Hugh Wallace King M. D. FRCS(C) of Grand Bend, formerly of London

December 7, 2021 By Haskett Funeral Homes 116 Condolences

BARR: Hugh Wallace King M. D. FRCS(C) of Grand Bend, formerly of London

A loving husband, father, grandfather and great grandfather passed away suddenly on Monday, December 6, 2021 at the age of 85. He is survived by his loving wife and best friend Cathy (Moore) for over 30 years. Father of Robyn (Rob) McKenzie, Brenda (Bob McFarlane) Barr, Scott (Julie) Barr, Brent (Sheila) Barr, and Jason (Jennifer) Barr. He deeply loved his 13 grandchildren and was proud of their accomplishments. Ashley, Stephen, Ethan and Keanna McKenzie; Nicholas, Bryanna and Everett Nyhof; Jordan, Carson, and Connor Barr; Erik Barr; McKay and Matty Barr; and his four great grandchildren Robbie, Lilly, Emilia, and Adelaide. Dear brother and brother-in-law of Lynn (Bob) MacMaster; and David (Linda) Barr; Mary Barr and David Moore. He is predeceased by his parents Murray and Ruth Barr (1995), his first wife Lillian Anne โ€œNanโ€ (McKay) (1984), and brother Robert Barr (2013).

Hugh was born and educated in London. He received his MD (Cum Laude) from UWO in 1959. He was active in school affairs, intramural sports, and Delta Upsilon Fraternity. His father was a founding member of DU and three of his grandsons were also members at Western.

He embarked on a demanding postgraduate Neurosurgical training program in Toronto, London, England, and London, Ontario, where his mentor and subsequent colleague was Dr. Charles Drake. He successfully completed his FRCS(C) in Neurosurgery in 1966 and for 36 years was a consultant and practicing neurosurgeon at Victoria, St. Josephโ€™s and University Hospitals in London.

The profession was challenging but rewarding. Long hours of work and time away from his family were counter balanced by the knowledge and satisfaction, that the vast majority of patients were cured of their symptoms and could return to a normal life. He valued the companionship and expertise of his colleagues in the Department of Clinical Neurological Sciences and the other health care professionals and staff at LHSC.

Hugh will forever be remembered for his love of family and friends. As well as being a respected surgeon, he was also humble and compassionate towards his patients, the residents in training, and the hospital staff in general. He cherished family time at the cottage in Grand Bend, and family holidays including skiing with his children and grandchildren.

Upon retirement in 2001, he and Cathy moved permanently to Grand Bend. He enjoyed the smaller community, the outdoor life, Lake Huron, but especially the friendships he and Cathy developed. He switched from tennis to golf with considerable passion, but his enthusiasm far exceeded his ability, which caused him significant frustration.

He unselfishly devoted his time as a member of the Board of the GBCHC, followed by the Board of Community Living of South Huron. He was a member of the Grand Bend Probus Club and an former member of the Grand Bend Rotary Club.

A private family graveside service will be held at the Pinery Cemetery in Grand Bend on Tuesday, December 14th at 1 PM with Reverend Susan Moore officiating. 

Though the service is private, a recording of the service will be made available to view on Wednesday, December 15th at www.facebook.com/haskettfh.

In lieu of flowers as an expression of sympathy please consider a memorial donation to Salvation Army, or Jessicaโ€™s House.

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  1. Agnes Segeren Pethick

    April 29, 2025 at 12:36 PM

    This is very late, but important.
    First I would like to say, so sad to hear the news of Hughโ€™s passing. My condolences.
    I was 18 years old in 1977 and was in a bad car accident, I was rushed to London Hospital, I was extremely luck to see Dr Hugh Barr, Neurosurgeon. For 3 days I was prodded and poked and they tried a few different procedures before doing surgery. I even had a visit from Dr. Charles Drake, as he said I was a special case. I am so thankful every day for the life he gave me back.
    I did have several years of appointments with Dr Barr, I believe my last appointment was in 1991.
    He said ” You are one lucky lady”
    I am so thankful every day for the life he gave me back.
    I have been married for 39 years, have 2 amazing children and 2 adorable Granddaughters.
    So Thank You Dr. Hugh Barr … for everything.

  2. Catherine King-Smith

    December 26, 2023 at 9:30 AM

    My deepest sympathy to Cathy and family. I just heard of Dr. Hugh Barr’s passing. He saved my life when no one else would help. I had a disc in my neck that was disintegrating and the pain was unbearable. In three weeks from the time I saw Dr. Barr, I was pain free. He was the greatest surgeon with the kindest heart. I am grateful every day for what he has done for me. Dr. Barr gave me my life back. I am so sorry that he left this world so soon. May his beautiful memories live on.

    Catherine

  3. Karen Faw

    December 13, 2023 at 8:07 PM

    My condolences to the Barr family. I first knew Dr Barr as an RN hired in 1980. He was friendly and approachable to his patients and staff and an excellent clinician. He will be missed by his family and many friends.

  4. Cathy Preston

    July 12, 2022 at 9:49 PM

    Was so sad to hear of Dr. Bares passing today. My โค๏ธ goes out to all the family who I remember fondly from our days on the shores of Lake Huron in Oakwood Park. I always remember Dr Barrโ€™s fast talking and good humour and most importantly his love of family. He left an indelible impact on so many. Fondly Cathy Preston (Rivers)

  5. Edward Kachur

    April 15, 2022 at 1:53 PM

    Just heard of Dr Barrโ€™s passing.. he was a great teacher and role model.. his positive influence will live on for those fortunate enough to be around him .. my condolences to Cathy and his family ..

  6. Salvatore M Spadafora, Toronto Ontario

    February 24, 2022 at 2:56 PM

    Dear Cathy and family,
    Although late I wanted to extend my condolences on the passing of Dr. Barr. I got to work with him from 1991 – 2021 in London, and what I remember most is how he made one feel. He was respectful always, no matter if it was my first rotation as a resident or when I was a staff anesthesiologist. He treated everyone well, and I honestly cannot remember a harsh word or a raised voice, no matter how big the case was or whether it was going well or not. He created a safe space where care could be given by all members of the team. In that regard he was ahead of his time as a surgeon. Dr. Barr, may you rest in peace and know that you made a difference to many. To Cathy and family particularly Robin and Scott who I got to work with, my sincere condolences on the passing of this great man.

  7. Karn Durdin

    February 21, 2022 at 4:20 PM

    To Cathy and all of Hugh’s family. We are saddened to hear of the passing of Hugh. He was always so friendly and kind. A wonderful man. He will be greatly missed. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Karn Durdin and Don Thornton

  8. Tara (Robinson) Cotterill

    December 22, 2021 at 7:46 AM

    Dear Barr family,
    I am so sad to hear of Hughโ€™s passing. I have fond memories of our familiesโ€™ times together skiing and gatherings. I remember Hugh as such a kind and caring man, full of life and laughter. Please accept my deepest condolences.

  9. Sheila

    December 20, 2021 at 11:00 AM

    My condolences to you and your family. May your memories comfort you. With my deepest sympathy, Sheila

  10. Sarah Stewart

    December 19, 2021 at 3:37 PM

    Dear Cathy and family,
    I was so sorry to hear of Hugh’s death. I met Hugh when I was training in Neurology in 1970 and even assisted him in some minor procedures. He was a wonderful man and an excellent surgeon. You will miss him greatly.
    Sincerely,
    Sally Stewart

  11. Rose and Dave McCrie

    December 19, 2021 at 9:13 AM

    Cathy – Our sincerest sympathies to you and the Barr and Moore families. We have many fond memories of Hugh and his caring for all who crossed his path. Take care

  12. Lorraine Nelligan

    December 15, 2021 at 8:04 PM

    So sad to learn of Hugh’s passing . He was such a kind unpretentious gentleman and skilled surgeon. He will be greatly missed by all who knew him.
    My heartfelt condolences to Cathy, Robyn, Scott , & all the Barr family.

  13. Jim MacMaster

    December 15, 2021 at 2:12 PM

    So sad. As a nephew of this great person, who had so many interactions with Aunt Nan and their great children growing up. I will miss him. Condolences to Robin, Scott, Brenda, Brent, Jason and Cathy. Love to all of you and your families. Oh, to be on the beaches of Lake Huron listening to him mumble, as the Barr’s tend to do.

    Most Sincerely,

    Jim

    Jim

  14. Kate Mason

    December 15, 2021 at 10:56 AM

    I am so sorry to hear of Dr. Barrโ€™s passing Cathy! Thinking of you!

  15. Grant Wren

    December 15, 2021 at 8:38 AM

    My sincere condolences to the Barr family on Hughโ€™s passing. Dr. Barr operated on my sister in 1977 and it changed her life for the better. I had the pleasure of meeting he and Cathy in person a few times in Grand Bend or Lucan at Daveโ€™s home many years ago attending Barr family events with my friend Anne H. Hugh was a gifted and dedicated surgeon and has touched many lives through his profession. May your memories be a comfort to you in the days ahead.

  16. Mark D. Currie

    December 14, 2021 at 9:06 PM

    So sorry to hear of Dr Barrโ€™s passing.
    My condolences, and thoughts are with all the Barr Family.
    Mark Currie

  17. Judy Oehm

    December 14, 2021 at 2:49 PM

    It is with great sadness and shock, I feel about Hugh’s passing. It seems just a few years ago, I went to his retirement party. My sincere and deepest sympathy and condolences go to Cathy and the Barr family.
    In my opinion, he was one of the best, a surgeon and friend, as everyone has attested to. I know his legacy will be proudly carried on by his family.
    Love to Cathy and the Barr family,
    Judy Oehm

  18. Terri Paul

    December 14, 2021 at 2:48 PM

    Cathy
    I was saddened to hear of Hugh’s passing – such a gentleman and wonderful physician. I always enjoyed our interactions as colleagues and learned much from his expertise. But it is his laugh and good humour I remember most.
    My condolences to your family
    Terri Paul

  19. Paul Cooper and David Hiebert

    December 14, 2021 at 10:57 AM

    Dear Cathy and Barr Family,

    Our deepest and most sincere condolences are your loss. I first met Hugh as a Western medical student and was always impressed with his courtesy and caring. This carried right though to when he became a valued colleague in the Department of Clinical Neurological Sciences. There are some colleagues whom you dread having to call because if it turns out that it was not critical or important they make you feel like a food for bothering you. This was never the case with Hugh who was always the gentleman and made you feel that you had done the right thing–even as you learned that you could do better next time. His humility was entirely out of proportion to his consummate clinical skill–he was a surgeon’s surgeon–quietly and humbly effective. As a founding member of The Department of Clinical Neurological Sciences he will be remembered always, and remembered with great pride that he was part of our clinical family and we were all touched by him.
    May the love that Hugh leaves behind comfort you all in this time of loss and beyond.

  20. Bill Nursey

    December 13, 2021 at 8:26 PM

    Dave ..my condolences to you and your family. Very sorry to hear of the passing of your brother Hugh.

  21. Michelle Rummell

    December 13, 2021 at 12:07 PM

    Cathy and family,
    I was so sorry to hear about the passing of Dr. Barr. I have so many memories of chats we had over the years at University Hospital. He was always so friendly and kind! I am sending my deepest condolences to you. May your memories bring you comfort in the difficult days ahead.

    Michelle Rummell

  22. FRANK & ELIANE VANHEVEL

    December 13, 2021 at 11:36 AM

    Our condolence to Cathy and the Barr family Hugh was a great neighbour & friend to drop in and have a chat he will be missed.

  23. George Skrettas

    December 12, 2021 at 9:16 PM

    I first met Dr. Barr in 1986 as a student at the University of Western Ontario, and then as a student at St. Joseph’s Hospital and University Hospital in London until 1994. He was always ready to listen to your question and then answer it by teaching. A few years ago, I was in Grand Bend and saw him. I approached him and after telling him who I was and how I knew him, it gave me great pleasure to have a conversation with him. He wished me the best, shook my hand and thanked me for talking to him even though it was getting cold out there in the open with the blustery winds coming off Lake Huron and chilling the Grand Bend air. Rest in peace Sir.

  24. Pat ( Reeve) Busteed

    December 12, 2021 at 5:38 PM

    My condolences to the Barr family. I first knew Dr Barr as a newly graduated RN hired in 1973 to work on 8 Middlesex, the Neuro floor. He was friendly and approachable to his patients and staff and an excellent clinician. Later, he was very encouraging when I made the transfer to work in the OR. I spent most of my long nursing career loving neurosurgery in part because of the super introduction he gave me.

  25. Valerie Bain

    December 12, 2021 at 2:40 PM

    Dear Cathy and the Barr children,
    Sending my heartfelt sympathy to you Cathy, Robyn, Brenda, Scott, Brent and Jason.
    I wish I could be at the service to extend my condolences in person. You have lost a loving husband and Father and a very good man. We have so many shared Barr/Bain family memories with our March Breaks, Sarasota time, Beaver Valley ski trips and so many more.
    My loving thoughts are with you at this time,
    Valerie

  26. Betty Bembich

    December 12, 2021 at 1:25 PM

    Dear Cathy and to all the Barr familyโ€ฆ
    I send my deepest condolences to all of you. I had the honor of working with Dr.Barr in the OR @ Victoria Hospital. I always enjoyed his quick humor, his patience and eagerness to teach. Sending my thoughts & prayers to you during this difficult time.

  27. Peter Lindsay

    December 12, 2021 at 10:33 AM

    My sincerest sympathies to Cathy,Robin,Scott and the rest of Hugh’s family. It was always a great privilege to be able to help care for Dr. Barr’s patients. A rare gem of a caring, outstanding and humble physician.

  28. Shelley Balderston

    December 11, 2021 at 11:48 PM

    Dear Cathy and the Barr Family

    I am so sorry for your loss. I had the pleasure of working with Dr. Barr in the OR. He was a gentleman and a great teacher.
    He will be missed by his family and friends.
    My deepest condolences

  29. Tony and Fran Relouw

    December 11, 2021 at 9:40 PM

    We didnโ€™t know Hugh until he was retired but as I read all the tributes to him, we can vouch that he cared for his friends the same way he cared for his patients and colleagues. He always showed true concern for how you were feeling and was so good at staying in touch- the phone was his friend! We will miss him dearly. RIP Hugh. We send our sincere condolences to Cathy and all the Barr family.

  30. Sue and Warwick Pexman

    December 11, 2021 at 6:00 PM

    Dear Cathy and family,
    Sue and I send you all our sympathy and condolences.
    We were sorry to hear of Hugh’s passing but pleased for him that it was sudden.
    You probably remember that I was a neuroradiologist. Working 20 years with Hugh was the most rewarding part of my job. His radiological requests gave clear clinical details and he was frequently in the radiological department to discuss the films .
    Our paths outside Vic did not cross as Sue and I played golf and squash. We are glad Hugh finally enjoyed walking the golf course.
    We live in Calgary,Alberta and hope to see Hugh’s memorial service on Face Book

    Sue and Warwick Pexman

  31. ann hambley

    December 11, 2021 at 5:39 PM

    My best thoughts to all the Barr/extended family and especially to my good friend Robyn . Dr. Barr was a pleasure to work with. I enjoyed his quick wit and humour while working in the OR. I am glad he had such fulfilling retirement years.

  32. Heather Henderson

    December 11, 2021 at 5:08 PM

    In 1982 Dr. Barr diagnosed my dad with an untreatable aggressive brain tumor. I still remember his compassion and gentleness as he told us of Dad’s condition (he died a few months later). It was Dr. Barr’s distinctive voice I remembered and 12 years ago my husband and I were on a European River Cruise when I overheard a gentleman making a toast to his Grand Bend friends on the first night out. I turned around and said to a gal in his group, “Pardon me, I’m not sure but I think I know that man’s voice.” She said, “That’s my husband, Dr. Hugh Barr.” I could have fallen off my chair. I was too emotional to talk that night but the next day as I sat in the forward lounge having an early morning coffee this voice behind me said, “Hello, my wife says we may have met before.” Of course, Dr. Barr had helped so many people in his distinguished career he did not remember my dad specifically. But we had a lovely visit and I will always remember Dr. Hugh Barr as a wonderful caring doctor.

  33. Marnie McArthur

    December 11, 2021 at 4:36 PM

    Dear Cathy and family:
    Heartfelt condolences to the friendliest neighbours in all of Oakwood Park in the 90โ€™s before we all moved a few times.
    There is not much to add to all the glorious
    tributes to Hugh but he was also a charmer and professional entertainer. Itโ€™s hard to do what he accomplished both personally and professionally. Cathy and Hugh had great parties.
    My son was 11 when we move to Oakwood. At
    the age of 43 he still remembers Hugh as a nice
    guy to all the kids in the Park and he would like to say that he still uses the technique Hugh taught him to eat mussels. (Use one mussel shell as a pincer to pick out the other muscles.)

  34. Ron Kimber

    December 11, 2021 at 3:50 PM

    Wonderful memories of Hughโ€™s warm friendship over the years. Heโ€™ll be missed dearly and remembered well!
    Much love to his family during this difficult time.
    Ron and In memory, Liz, Kimber

  35. Gordon Sellery

    December 11, 2021 at 3:02 PM

    I first met Hugh when he was an intern in Toronto and I was “his” medical student. He was very encouraging as I fumbled through my student rotation. When I joined the Anesthesia staff at Victoria Hospital in 1968, he welcomed me and for next stage in my career I enjoyed working with him as I knew that his patients were receiving his excellent neurosurgical care. He showed much courage and resolve after an accident during his later retirement years and Cathy played a major role in his recovery. I send my condolences to Cathy and the Barr family.
    Gordon Sellery

  36. Jon Stoessl

    December 11, 2021 at 12:55 PM

    Dear Cathy
    I was saddened to read of Hugh’s passing, also touched to read messages from people whom I have not seen for many years. Like many who have left notes here, I was a student and colleague of Hugh, as well as his brother and father. He was a kind man who came from a family of kind people. Like them, he was highly accomplished and enormously respected, but the emphasis for him was always on behaving with kindness and decency, rather than on his own successes. Even though he was a phenomenally busy neurosurgeon (because everyone sought his opinion), he had the phenomenal skill of making everyone feel that he had all the time in the world for them, and I don’t think I ever saw him without a massive smile. My deepest condolences,

  37. Ramesh Sahjpaul

    December 11, 2021 at 12:16 PM

    As a teacher, mentor, guide, and friend of the highest order, I remember Hugh with great affection and admiration. A gentleman through and through. Despite being incredibly busy, he epitomized the concept of a neurosurgical family and welcomed mine to London. I will miss him greatly. My deepest condolences to Cathy and the family.

  38. Pat, Garo and Peter Keresteci

    December 11, 2021 at 10:54 AM

    Deepest condolences from the Keresteci family. Remembering so many good times. Sharing 1/2 a house in London while on a fellowship. Dinners together in the Cloisters of the Don, with Hugh and Ara asleep at the table. Our best wishes to you all.

  39. R&R Hicks

    December 11, 2021 at 9:58 AM

    Cathy, Robyn, Brenda, Scott, Brent, Jason and Family. We send our deepest condolences to all of you. Hugh Barr was such a good man and a talented surgeon! We both feel so fortunate to have known and worked with him. He will be greatly missed. Sincerely, Robin and Randall Hicks

  40. Allan Fox

    December 11, 2021 at 9:13 AM

    Dear Cathy and family:

    Hugh is remembered by me as a skillful neurosurgeon, compassionate, and always a gentleman. While he and I worked at opposite ends of town in allied, but different specialties (until he practiced more at University Hospital), he was always a congenial force in the joint department. His personality made him one of the pluses at Western. He is missed.

  41. Neil Duggal

    December 10, 2021 at 10:00 PM

    Dear Cathy and Family,

    Louise and I were deeply saddened to hear the news – our sincerest condolences to family and friends.

    As was the case for many residents training in neurosurgery, Dr. Barr was the single most influential mentor during my training. Whether he was in the clinic, caring for inpatients or in the operating room, he always did the right thing. His surgical skills were nothing less than spectacular – whether he was performing a carotid endarterectomy or a spinal decompression, he made it look effortless. He took a personal interest in his trainees, guiding many of us through important career choices and for this I will always be grateful.

    Dr. Barr was a very special teacher, surgeon, mentor and person. He will be greatly missed.

  42. Adrienne (King) Smith

    December 10, 2021 at 9:00 PM

    Dear Cathy and family, I was very sad to hear about Dr. Barโ€™s passing. I remember all the good times we all had in the OR. He was always patient and taught us so much. With deepest condolences Adrienne and Jerry.

  43. Freddie Smith

    December 10, 2021 at 7:44 PM

    To Cathy and family, I am so sorry for your loss. There are no words to express the memories of Dr. Barr after so many years. He had a gift of always making everyone feel special, always had time to chat, and had a great sense of humor. He truly cared about people and I appreciate every moment I got to interact with him over the years. He will be deeply missed. I was blessed to know him.

  44. Anne and Laurie Cahill

    December 10, 2021 at 7:20 PM

    Our deepest sympathy. Hugh was such a warm and caring person.

  45. Jane McComb (Blewett)

    December 10, 2021 at 4:26 PM

    We are so sorry to hear about your loss. We have known Hugh for 50 years and I have fond memories of the Christmas parties and the family ski trips. You will be missed. Jane McComb (Blewett)

  46. John & Sharon McNeilly

    December 10, 2021 at 4:03 PM

    To Cathy and family

    Sending our deepest condolences on the sudden passing of Hugh. We remember his gentle presence at the many sorority socials and although his health during the past years was a frustration for him, he always wanted and tried to attend as many as possible. Trusting that the many wonderful memories you have made, will help you through this most difficult time.

  47. Linda Kumpf

    December 10, 2021 at 3:21 PM

    There are some who bring a light so great to the world that even after they have gone the light remainsโ€ฆRest In Peace Hughโ€ฆ.you will be missed.
    Linda Kumpf

  48. Dave Barr

    December 10, 2021 at 11:53 AM

    It is probably not customary for a brother to contribute to this list, but I wish to add my condolences to Cathy and Hugh’s 5 great kids.
    Other than our sister,Lynn, I have been blessed to know Hugh longer than most. After reading so many nice comments from so many people, I realize that he was the same caring person at work as he was with his closest family.
    I looked up to both my older brothers. They were truly a tough act to follow ! My parents often said ” Quiet David, your brothers are studying . Go outside “.
    In his late teens, Hugh bought a Heath Kit Radio to build. The only problem was that it was all colour coded, and he was colour blind ! I spent weeks beside him telling him what colour the wires were. I would have been about 7 then, and surprisingly it worked !
    Even in medical school, Hugh knew he wanted to be a surgeon. He would have me sit with his watch and time him as he tied surgical knots inside a paper bag, with one hand !! He got really fast.
    I will stop now, but my respect for Hugh will never stop.

  49. Jerry & Rose Vanbruaene

    December 10, 2021 at 10:44 AM

    Dear Cathy and The Barr Family.

    Our deepest sympathies to you on the loss of Dr. Barr I always enjoyed seeing you both when you came for lunch at FINE. Keeping you in our thoughts and prayers.

    Jerry & Rose

  50. Janice & Bill Brock

    December 10, 2021 at 8:05 AM

    Cathy and family, so sorry to hear of Hughโ€™s passing. I met him first on New Yearโ€™s Eve many years ago standing on a rainy evening watching fireworks in the Oakwood Inn parking lot. He so kindly offered to share his umbrella with me and our conversation was wonderful. We have had many since during the years shared with our Beta Sigma Phi socials. His failing health was a frustration to him, wishing you all so many happy memories of your times together.

  51. Lois and Doug Thiel

    December 9, 2021 at 8:51 PM

    To Cathy and all the Barr family–You have our sincere condolences in the loss of a dear husband,father,grandfather and greatgrandfather.We are sharing in your sorrow and we will keep you close in our thoughts and prayers. I had the pleasure of working with him on the Board of the Grand Bend area Community Health Centre. He also welcomed us to Huron Woods when we first came to the area. He will always hold a treasured spot in our memories.May you find comfort in happy times shared. Sincerely Lois and Doug Thiel.

  52. Heather Carter

    December 9, 2021 at 8:50 PM

    Dear Cathy and the Barr Family….Hugh will be sorely missed by all of us who had the pleasure of knowing him. I met Hugh and Nan in the 1970s before I started working in Neurosurgery, and then had the great pleasure to work with him through the years. He always kept in touch while I worked in the US, and Cathy/Hugh shared their Christmas Eve celebrations with my Mother (who absolutely adored him) and myself when I would return to London. I have many happy memories to cherish. My thoughts are with all of you during this time…..

  53. Richard and Elisabeth

    December 9, 2021 at 7:30 PM

    To Cathy and family. We were shocked to hear of Hughโ€™s sudden passing! He was such a wonderful neighbour and a real gentleman. Please accept our heartfelt condolences and we will thinking of you next Tuesday and the difficult days ahead. Richard and Elisabeth Faber

  54. Jim and Karen Faith

    December 9, 2021 at 7:06 PM

    We were so sorry to hear of Hughโ€™s passing. Our thoughts are with you at this difficult time.

    Jim and Karen

  55. Mike & Chris Burgess

    December 9, 2021 at 7:05 PM

    Our deepest and most sincere condolences to Cathy & family. Hugh was the nicest guy one could ever meet, and will be sorely missed by many, many friends, patients and family. The world is a better place for having Hugh in it.
    Rest in Peace Hugh.

    Mike & chris Burgess

  56. C Bevan Stuart, M.D. (Meds UWO 1970)

    December 9, 2021 at 6:43 PM

    Dr. Barr was my hero and taught me some of the most important things I ever learned about practicing medicine and living life.

  57. Doug & Karen Courtney

    December 9, 2021 at 5:50 PM

    Grand Bend has lost a TRUE GENTLEMAN that was a friend to everyone. To Cathy and the rest of the Barr Family our sincere condolences.

  58. Kay Webb

    December 9, 2021 at 5:29 PM

    My condolences to you Cathy and the Barr familyThis is sad loss of a wonder man and friend. Morris and I had many fun times with the both of youI will miss his smiling face. Cathy, you and I will have a very sad Christmas So very sorry for your loss

  59. Lynda Mailhot

    December 9, 2021 at 4:42 PM

    Our deepest sympathy Cathy and family. He was pretty special. We were lucky to call him our friend. He was gifted in so many ways. He touched so many people. Another star in the sky.
    Lynda & Maurice

  60. Dianne Prowse Twynstra

    December 9, 2021 at 3:55 PM

    My deepest condolences to the entire Barr family. I grew up with Robyn, Brenda and Scott. I have fond memories as a young girl of spending time with you all at your cottage with my family. Dr. Barr was a wonderful, kind man and I enjoyed very much visiting with him and Cathy at various Rotary events in Grand Bend over the years. Thinking of you all during this difficult time.

  61. Lynne Desjardine

    December 9, 2021 at 3:23 PM

    Thinking of You with sympathy during this time of sorrow! Hugh will be missed in our community here in the Bend. I always loved hearing his stories, from the past especially, & to the present.
    RIP Hugh!
    Lynne Desjardine & Family

  62. Marcy and Deb Merner

    December 9, 2021 at 3:03 PM

    Our sincere condolences to the Barr family
    My sister and I remember Dr Barr when he saved our mothers life in 1969. Our father was dying from cancer at the same time. We will never forget his compassion and kindness. His expertise and compassion opened my eyes to the medical field and I became a nurse. When we speak of our mother, DR Barr is always included in the conversation. We have truly lost a great man.

  63. Ed and Judy Fluter

    December 9, 2021 at 12:55 PM

    We are saddened and truly sorry to hear of Hugh’s sudden passing. He was a kind, caring and ‘gentle’ man who positively and memorably impacted the lives of so many.
    Our heartfelt condolences to you Cathy, and to all the members of the family, as you navigate this difficult time forward.
    Warmest hugs, Judy and Ed

    ‘

  64. Norm & Donna Middaugh

    December 9, 2021 at 12:02 PM

    I first met Hugh when we moved to Grand Bend some 14 years ago.
    It was at a golf tournament at Sandhills and the place was packed.
    There were a lot of golfers from London including several Auto mechanics.
    Hugh said to me ‘Norm how do you know them because I know them also’. I told him I worked at Western and they were all friends of mechanic Marty O’Brian (his shop was near Western).
    It was awhile later that someone asked me ‘what does Hugh do?’
    I said I don’t know but I think he is a mechanic! A person listening jumped in and said
    ‘He’s a mechanic alright, a brain mechanic’.
    I don’t know how many times I’ve told that story, and every time Hugh gets a big smile on his face.
    I miss that mechanic, and I extend my condolences to Cathy and the Barr family.

  65. Paula and Franco DeMonte (Houston, Texas)

    December 9, 2021 at 11:53 AM

    To Cathy and the entire Barr family,
    Paula and I extend our heartfelt sympathies. Hugh Barr leaves a massive legacy. He has trained hundreds of neurosurgeons who have gone on to practice in Canada and abroad, and through his residents and fellows has extended his healing hands and ways to thousands and thousands of patients in need of neurosurgical care. Even today, 30 years into my own practice I can point to things that I do that are exactly how Hugh taught me to do them.
    He treated the residents with respect as collegues. I have many fond memories and I am a better person for having had the fortune of meeting Hugh Barr 36 years ago.

  66. Greg and Kathy Hodgins

    December 9, 2021 at 10:13 AM

    Cathy
    We were so very sorry to hear of Hughโ€™s passing. Please except our most heartfelt sympathy.
    Hugh operated on my Dad in 1970 and provided consults thereafter every time they encountered each other. He was always there for his patients.
    Having played a few golf games with Hugh and many memorable tennis matches over the years I can say he was every bit the sportsman and gentleman in competition as he was in his everyday life. A wonderful man who will be missed by many!

  67. Jim Turnbull

    December 9, 2021 at 9:15 AM

    Cathy and the Barr family. We are so sorry to hear of Hughโ€™s passing. A true Gentleman and he will be missed by the entire community. Jim & Suzy Turnbull

  68. JoAnne Pickering

    December 9, 2021 at 9:00 AM

    Sorry to hear of Hughs passing. I served on the board of Community Living S.H. when he was on and enjoyed that time with this very knowledgeable man with great care for those we service. He I am sure will be missed by all the knew him.

  69. Angela Boyle

    December 9, 2021 at 7:12 AM

    So shocked and saddened to hear of Dr. Barrโ€™s passing. He was a pleasure to work with, always respectful, helpful and caring. Our thoughts and sympathy go out to Cathy and his family but especially to my friend Robyn and her family. Sorry for your loss.
    Angela and Michael Boyle

  70. David Spence

    December 9, 2021 at 1:51 AM

    Hugh was one of my early teachers in medical school, and then during a 4-month rotation on Neurosurgery at Victoria Hospital during my Neurology residency. He was a gentleman and a gentle man, and a very kind and thoughtful teacher. Later he became a valued colleague; a neurosurgeon with excellent judgement that matched his skill. I offer sincere condolences to the family.

  71. Steve Lownie

    December 8, 2021 at 10:58 PM

    As a former student of HWKB, I was told before coming to London he was the busiest neurosurgeon in Canada. Clinics were always hopping, and full OR days regularly occurred at least 3 days a week. Hugh was always cordial, efficient, and usually one or two steps ahead of his trainees in figuring out how to handle situations. His teaching was equally efficient and as matter-of-fact as his other day-to-day work, and he had that special knack of knowing exactly what his trainees needed to help them progress through their learning. Despite that type of schedule, he was rarely kept late at work, and made his family and their cherished lakeside retreat an abiding priority. Dr. Barr was cherished and respected not only by his surgery colleagues and trainees, but by his anesthesiology colleagues as well, and was the only neurosurgeon I knew who hosted a party specifically for his anesthesiology workmates, a number of whom were also close friends. His summer cottage gatherings along Lake Huron were always a highlight for nurses and trainees and their families. A neurosurgeon who will stand tall among his peers, he will be dearly missed. Condolences to Cathy and the family from Penny and Steve.

    Steve Lownie

  72. John & Sandy Dixon

    December 8, 2021 at 10:46 PM

    Cathy & Family,

    We were so saddened to learn of Hugh’s passing. Such a fine man! He left a huge legacy in the medical field. He was always so friendly and interested in others. He’ll be misses by so many. Our sincere condolences.

  73. DAVID MCCLURE

    December 8, 2021 at 8:56 PM

    Wonderful memories of a 1950’s Western fellow student and a 2000’s Huron Woods neighbour .

    I will always appreciate the post retirement neurological advice Hugh provided for a friend .

    May Cathy and all of Hugh’s family receive many comforts and blessings .

  74. RICHARD NEIL JENNISON

    December 8, 2021 at 8:02 PM

    Cathy,
    Sorry to hear of Hugh’s passing. Great guy , wonderful sense of humour and kind , we’ll remember his easy smile.
    Rich and Wendy

  75. Bob and Sherie MacLachlan

    December 8, 2021 at 7:39 PM

    Our condolences to you Cathy and Family. We so enjoyed our many golfing trips down south that you and Hugh so capably put together. May your wonderful memories help to overshadow your grief!
    Bob and Sherie

  76. Mary Husson

    December 8, 2021 at 7:26 PM

    Dear Cathy and Family:

    My heart aches for you all at the loss of your dear husband, father, grandfather and very special and loving person.
    My wonderful memories of Hugh span over more than sixty years. At that time, Hugh and Nan introduced me to Hugh’s cousin Don Husson. who became the love of my life and my husband for over fifty-five years.

    Don and Hugh were cousins and friends who shared many happy memories…..including “being motorcycle buddies” in their late teens, as well as many happy memories at the Pointe Clarke cottage.
    The special Barr/Husson family relationship has continued over the years.

    Hugh was loved and will be missed by so many family and friends.

  77. Sandy Shaw

    December 8, 2021 at 7:17 PM

    Dear Cathy and Barr Family
    It was my pleasure to know Hugh through Community Living South Huron Board of Directors and as a friend of my parents, Kay and Morris Webb. Youโ€™re a gem, Dr. Barrโ€ฆ.a true gem.
    My condolences to you Cathy and the Barr Family.

  78. Mary Lou Gough

    December 8, 2021 at 6:00 PM

    Dear Cathy and Family ,
    Rick and I are very saddened by the news of Hughs passing. I will always remember his generosity and sense of humour and will treasure my memories of working together in the Operating Room. A talented surgeon, a wonderful teacher and a very kind man.
    Our deepest sympathies.

  79. Mary Margaret Prowse

    December 8, 2021 at 5:56 PM

    My thoughts and prayers are with you and the family at this difficult time. Hugh was a true gentleman and I know her will be dearly missed by all.

  80. Michele Gervais

    December 8, 2021 at 5:02 PM

    Dear Cathy and the Barr Family
    Hugh was a true gentleman with a great smile. And always a little chuckle.
    Cheers to a well lived and well loved life.
    Sincere condolences
    Michele and Ted Gervais

  81. Karn Durdin

    December 8, 2021 at 4:52 PM

    Dear Cathy and Family, Donnie and I are so very sad to hear of Hugh’s passing. Sending our thoughts and prayers.
    Karn Durdin and Don Thornton

  82. Dwight Moulin

    December 8, 2021 at 4:18 PM

    Dear Cathy and Family – such a great loss. Hugh was one of my teachers and then a colleague and friend. We talked on the phone every 6 months or so and I will always cherish those phone calls. Dwight Moulin

  83. Ross & Susan

    December 8, 2021 at 4:09 PM

    Cathy & Family

    As our neighbour in Newport Landing, we quickly learned that Hugh was a true gentleman, compassionate and always had a warm engaging smile. We’ll always cherish our time spent visiting with Hugh. He will be missed!

    Our thoughts are with you at this sad time.

    Ross & Susan

  84. Jason and Neena Enright

    December 8, 2021 at 3:59 PM

    Dear Jason, Jen and Family,

    We are sorry to hear of your loss. We know how much your dad was loved and how greatly he will be missed. Our thoughts are with you all during this difficult time. Peace, prayers and blessings.

    With love, Jason and Neena Enright xo

  85. Brett and Tanya

    December 8, 2021 at 2:37 PM

    Cathy and Barr family, We are sorry to hear about Hugh’s passing.

    I remember the Moore family get togethers from recently and all the way back when I was a kid. Hugh was always fun and easy to be around. He will be missed.

    Brett Kelch and Tanya Berkers

  86. Joan Morgan

    December 8, 2021 at 1:28 PM

    Cathy & family
    Sorry to hear of Hugh’s passing. He will be missed by all who knew him.

  87. Ken and Vicki Shonk

    December 8, 2021 at 1:02 PM

    Vicki and I offer our condolences to Cathy and the entire Barr family. Our connections to the Barr family go back to 1967 when Murray Barr became my mentor in first year medicine. Hugh took over in my second year and we got to know Hugh and Nan. Hugh was always welcoming and treated all of us as equals. I then got to know Dave Barr and we canoed together for years and remain in contact still. Our family spent many happy weeks at Point Clark with the Barr Clan. As a family doctor I was also able to refer patients to Hugh and all of them commented on their return on his compassion and caring nature. He will be truly missed.
    Our thoughts are with the Cathy and the Barr family,
    Ken and Vicki Shonk.

  88. Doug & Betty Lynn Eckel

    December 8, 2021 at 12:32 PM

    Brenda, Bob & family – So sorry to hear of Hugh’s passing. Our sincere condolences to you and your family. Cherish all of your wonderful memories.

  89. Valerie & Graham Whitehead

    December 8, 2021 at 11:40 AM

    If there is one word to describe Hugh, as so many people have, it is ‘gentleman’ . We always enjoyed his company and conversation. He will be missed by many. To you Cathy, and family, our condolences.

  90. Earlene Freel

    December 8, 2021 at 11:09 AM

    One of the best and a dear friend !Sincere condolences Cathy!
    Earlene Freel

  91. Holly moore

    December 8, 2021 at 10:33 AM

    Sending you our sincerest heartfelt sympathy , Cathy. Hugh was a wonderful family man who will be greatly missed by all of us.
    Love, Peter and Holly Moore, Amy, Beth and Julie

  92. Sandra & Roger Keay

    December 8, 2021 at 10:26 AM

    Condolences to you Cathy and your family. He will be greatly missed.

  93. Ellen McConnell

    December 8, 2021 at 10:07 AM

    Dear Cathy and family,
    Sincere condolences in the passing of Dr. Hugh Barr. He will surely be missed.

    Sincerely, Barbara and Douglas Shephard

  94. Bill Rochester

    December 8, 2021 at 9:34 AM

    Cathy and Family, Jody and I are saddened by this news. He was a great man and respected by all. Just remember the good times. RIP Hugh Bill Jody

  95. Chuck Box

    December 8, 2021 at 9:24 AM

    Our Thoughts and Prayers are with you
    Janis and Chuck

  96. Jim & Cheryl Edmonds

    December 8, 2021 at 9:15 AM

    Hugh was always a pleasure to be with. He will be truly missed. Our sincere condolences to Cathy and family.
    Jim & Cheryl

  97. Jim and Linda Ferguson/Ferguson Uoholstery

    December 8, 2021 at 8:40 AM

    Though our paths didnโ€™t cross often, we enjoyed time spent with Hugh.
    Our sincere condolences.

  98. Judy mason

    December 8, 2021 at 8:16 AM

    Oh Cathyโ€ฆ.and family โ€ฆ.we are sending our sincerest condolences and sympathies. Hugh was always such a kind and humorous gentleman and always had time to chat. He will truly be missed. Larry and Judy Mason

  99. Randy and Lynda

    December 8, 2021 at 8:01 AM

    Our deepest sympathy. There are very few people who can’t say Dr. Hughes Barr helped me …in some way or another. There was no finer gentleman or friend in our community. He will be missed by so many. To Cathy and the Barr family we send our thoughts and prayers.

  100. Toby Bidtnes

    December 8, 2021 at 7:31 AM

    I got to know Hugh as a friend through John Moore. When he learned that my wife Sharon, had suffered a severe stroke at age 48, with no conclusive cause, he arranged to have her examined by his Team in London. This is the kind of compassionate and caring man Hugh was. Rest in peace Hugh. Sharon and Toby

  101. Cathy Hutchison Scott

    December 8, 2021 at 6:53 AM

    So sorry to hear the news of Hughs passing.
    Condolences to you Cathy and the entire Barr family. I remember him as such a kind kind gentleman. Thinking of you. He will be missed by many.

  102. Peter Gates

    December 8, 2021 at 6:41 AM

    It is with great sadness that I write these notes. For almost all of my years Hugh was a fixture in the Gates Family lives.

    One of my earliest memories (as perhaps a 4 year old) was playing on the Point Clark beach at the Barr cottage, with both Hugh and my uncle Don Husson who both held still and tolerated me as I traced their bare feet outlines in the sand.

    Rather than a cousin Hugh was much more like a brother to my mother Margaret. That relationship was founded when she as a teenager she lived with the Barr family and assisted with the family household. From that beginning the Barr family continued to play a large role through the years in that of my own.

    During my teens when Hugh and Nan lived near our family in Don Mills, they employed me at different times to oversee young Robyn. And in my early married years when at a family gathering and my wife Daryl was experiencing a health issue, they decided that she needed a break and proceeded to take our daughter Kelly home with them. Young Kelly had just a marvelous time and talked about it for ages.

    Through the many Husson/Barr family gatherings whether they were weddings, birthday parties or funerals, Hugh was almost always in attendance expressing his interest in our lives. His warm sense of family was inordinately important to him and in turn was loved by all of us for it.

    Even in his retirement he freely gave of his time to provide medical insight when queries from the less knowledgeable were put to him.

    And so I extend the heartfelt condolences of both my wife and myself to Cathy and Hughsโ€™ entire extended family.

    Although we shall miss him, he will live on in our memories.

    Peter & Daryl Gates

  103. Brenda Jones

    December 8, 2021 at 5:51 AM

    Dear Brenda , Bob, and Cathy,
    We are sadden by this news. Our deepest condolences to you and your family.

    Brenda and Bob Jones

  104. Paul and Heather Klopp

    December 8, 2021 at 5:43 AM

    You will be missed Dr Barr…you are loved! Thinking of you Cathy.

  105. Gary and Christine Eagleson

    December 8, 2021 at 1:42 AM

    It was a shock to hear of Hugh’s passing at Rotary today. It was an honour to have known Hugh through Rotary. Our sincere condolences to Cathy and his extended family.

  106. Dabe & Peggy Gray

    December 7, 2021 at 10:11 PM

    Our sincerest condolence to Cathy and and family, Hugh was a gentle soul with a kind heart, gentle smile and quick whit. Our family experienced his medical expertise first hand, and because of him, had many more years with our mother, we would not have had. His friendship will always be cherished and sadly missed.

  107. Linda Steele

    December 7, 2021 at 9:37 PM

    A wonderful gentleman. A brilliant neurosurgeon who was always so kind to his patients and residents and students. He was always happy to teach us everything he could and us students and residents all adored him.
    I got to know him as a friend years later when we all lived in Grand Bend. My condolences and love to Cathy and his family.
    Bill and Linda Steele

  108. Marie Gear

    December 7, 2021 at 9:36 PM

    I first encountered Dr Barr as a young medical student. He was a wonderful teacher and mentor. I remember so well heading out to rural Ontario to start practice and expressing some trepidation about managing neurosurgical emergencies. Hugh replied , just call me. You can always call me. And i always could and did. Sometimes at the hospital, sometimes from his cottage , he offered sage advice and support to help me through whatever crisis i was dealing with. A great man who gave much to the world.
    Thank you Hugh.
    Marie Gear M.D.

  109. Chris Thompson

    December 7, 2021 at 9:32 PM

    We’ve lost a truly wonderful man. Hugh was kind, he was caring and he always made time to chat. We are truly blessed and forever grateful to have known Hugh and know he will be deeply missed by the many whose lives he touched. To Cathy, his family and his friends, our heartfelt and deepest condolences.

    Chris, Brian, Breanna & Tory Thompson

  110. Peter. Brenda Haist

    December 7, 2021 at 9:21 PM

    Dear Cathy and family Our sincere condolences. We will truly miss Hugh.
    Brenda and Peter

  111. Carla McFarlane

    December 7, 2021 at 8:38 PM

    Hugh was such a wonderful man, always so welcoming. He will be missed by all who had the good fortune of knowing him. Our deepest sympathy to the whole family.
    Carla, Jeff and Jack

  112. Wendy kelch

    December 7, 2021 at 8:29 PM

    We will truly miss you Hugh you were a great part of the Moore family and will be greatly missed ! Especially your phone calls after a family get together ,they were always so thoughtful ! Our thoughts and prayers go to Cathy and your extended family !
    Love Wendy and Mark Kelch

  113. Mike and Bonnie McCann

    December 7, 2021 at 7:51 PM

    So sad to hear the news of Hughโ€™s passing. Our condolences to Cathy and family.

  114. Jim McVicar

    December 7, 2021 at 7:02 PM

    To Cathy and all members of the Barr family, I send my sincere condolences.
    Hugh was such a great person and someone I could call a friend during his retirement years in Grand Bend.
    He will be missed by all his friends in Grand bend.

  115. Monique Erratt

    December 7, 2021 at 5:30 PM

    Both Pat and I are deeply saddened upon hearing of Hughโ€™s passing.
    Hugh was a true gentleman and always a pleasure to work with.. His great sense of humour and whit always brought a smile to our faces
    He will be missed.

  116. Jill & Ralph

    December 7, 2021 at 3:53 PM

    Newport Landing will never be the same without our dear friend & neighbour Hugh; but our lives are greatly enriched by his presence in our lives!
    Thanks for the memories dear Hugh!
    With gratitude for your companionship in our lives.
    Jill & Ralph

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