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SPENCE: Patricia Isobel

September 26, 2019 By 23 Condolences

SPENCE: Patricia Isobel

Patricia Isobel Spence passed away on September 26, 2019 in her 83rd year.  Beloved wife of William Robert Spence for 61 years.  Dear mother of Colleen Spence and John (Mary) Spence.  Grandmother of Alysia and step Grandmother of Sarah (Andrew) Campbell and Joe (Carly) Turford.  Also step Great Grandmother to Ethan, Elizabeth, Charlotte and Larraine Campbell and Lola and Lars Turford.  Also survived by sisters in-law Joan Spence and Sue Ann (Keith) Hodgkinson.  At Pat’s request there is no visitation, cremation has taken place.  A Celebration of Life will take place on Saturday November 2, 2019 at the home of John and Mary; 102 Park Street, Goderich from 2:00 pm – 5:00 pm.  In lieu of flowers donations to a charity of your choice is appreciated by the family.  Online book of condolences for Pat to be signed at www.mccallumpalla.ca  

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  1. Robin Isabella MacIntyre

    November 3, 2019 at 8:23 PM

    Dear cousin Pat, I will miss you immensely. You were always there for a conversation or a quick check in online. Some days I called when I was missing my dad, just to talk to someone else who loved him, and to hear your voice, that same burry MacIntyre inflection there in your words. Other days you popped up in the mailbox, a quick card of love for our birthdays or “just because”.

    Enn and I are often remiss about remembering our anniversary date, or how many years we have been married. However you were unfailing in congratulating us each year. Your example of celebration for the days that mark our lives changed my attitude of neglect. I promise to always be grateful, and celebrate the important achievements and occasions of our lives with the love and respect you gave to them, and your own family.

    You and I both agreed that life goes by too fast when you can’t complain…and you never did. Your sense of humour just grew through any health or age related adversity. I strive to carry on that family tradition, but you are a hard act to follow! Per Ardua Ad Addam …. through hardship we proceed.

    My heart aches for Bob, Colleen, Alysia, Thomas, John, Mary and their family but I know that your love will always remain to help them in their sadness, even though this loss was abrupt and too soon.

    And I know wherever you are, there will be birds in the trees and flowers in the gardens, and many friends.
    💕

  2. David Gibbs

    October 23, 2019 at 2:40 AM

    Smiles for miles and a wicked sense of humor. Even though I was a scruffy long haired misfit, Pat saw the good in me and I was always welcome and loved in her home. Some of my oldest and most cherished memories. I tear up as I write this and I think of how I let her down. Colleen, John & Bob, you are in my thoughts. I am truly sorry to learn of your Mom and Wife, Patricia’s passing. You never realize how important a moment is, until it becomes a memory. Love and peace from the west coast.

  3. Marg Phillips (Brall)

    October 3, 2019 at 7:42 PM

    To Bob, John, Colleen and Families:

    I sit here with tears running down my face to hear of Pat’s passing. I worked with Pat from the age 17 until age 29 at the Huron Real Estate Board. She was my first boss and confidant. We had many laughs going out to lunch for Chinese food and eating Culberts Bakery treats. Over the years, I have credited Pat with giving me the work ethic I now have today. Being only a teenager when I first met her, she formed me in so many ways and I am so grateful for her time in my life. Pat loved her husband with every ounce of her soul and her children and grand children were always spoken of with such admiration, pride and love at how they grew into such wonderful people. Dear Lord, she was so proud of you all!!! After losing touch at work we would run into each other and she would tell me all about John and Colleen and her grand children’s accomplishments. In our early times together she spoke of her youth on Lundy’s Lane in Niagara Falls. I truly loved Pat. She was so much more than a boss to me. As I finish this off, I just want to urge everyone reading this to reach out to people who mean a lot to you, that you have not seen in a long time. I wish now that I had called and visited more. We all know how busy life is, but take it from me – I regret not seeing her more and showing her pictures of my own family. I always said to myself: I have to get over to see Pat, but guess what, now I can’t do that, and for that I am deeply sorry. Heartfelt and deepest condolences.

  4. Denise Langlois

    October 2, 2019 at 3:08 AM

    To Bob and Family: I am still in shock about hearing of the passing of Pat. I didn’t know her very long, but she truly was an amazing lady. I enjoyed our short chit chats we would have. She will be missed dearly by anyone that knew her. Sending sincere condolences to all of you at this very sad time.

  5. Mark & Marilyn Rushton

    September 30, 2019 at 11:44 PM

    Dear John & Mary & Family;
    So sorry to hear of your loss. I lost my own Mom last August and I know how hard it can be. I am comforted by the poem “Standing On The Shore” by Henry Van Dyke. I also like to remember a favorite verse: God gives us memories so that we might have roses in December. Wishing you and your family the gift of memories to uplift you in the coming days.
    Most sincerely, Mark & Marilyn Rushton (neighbours)

  6. Don and Donna Fisher

    September 30, 2019 at 1:08 AM

    John and Mary: so sorry to hear of your moms passing, our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. Don and Donna

  7. patricia Haskell

    September 29, 2019 at 9:51 PM

    I was sorry to hear of Pat’s passing. I worked with pat at the hospital when she worked for Mr. banks and I worked for Charity McDonald. She was always happy and up beat. My sympathy to the whole family. Remember all the good times.
    Pat Haskell

  8. Marianne & Darcy Doak

    September 29, 2019 at 9:21 PM

    Bob, Colleen, John and families. We were so sorry to hear of the passing of Pat. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all during this time of sorrow. Darcy & Marianne

  9. Judi williams

    September 29, 2019 at 2:57 PM

    Bob and families… So sorry to hear of Pats passing. She was always so kind and helpful for all her years on the Huron Real Estate Board RIP Pat…..

  10. Sandra & Doug Wight

    September 29, 2019 at 12:26 PM

    Bob, Colleen, John and all your family. So sorry to hear about Pat. Such fond memories of going to London as a kid with my Dad, Mom and sisters to visit and having lots of laughs. Pat had an infectious laugh. I just loved it. Made me laugh very time. Our thoughts are with you all. Lots of love Sandra, Doug., Jason & family and Stephanie Wight. Xoxoxo

  11. Mike KIng

    September 28, 2019 at 1:30 PM

    So sorry to hear this. Thinking of you all and sending positive thoughts and wishes.

  12. Kevin Smith

    September 27, 2019 at 9:23 PM

    John. Sorry to hear of the passing of your mom. Please accept our condolences. Thinking of you at this sad time. Kevin and Cathy Smith.

  13. Scott Wilson

    September 27, 2019 at 8:26 PM

    Bob, John and Colleen. I am so sorry to hear of my second Mom’s passing. She has and always will have a special place in my heart. She always welcomed me into your home with her sunny smile and contagious laughter. I will never forget the butter tarts, cookies and always bringing cake donuts home from Stratford, I am pretty sure she is partly responsible for my size to this day.

    The world lost a special lady and I am grateful for having the privilege of her love all those years ago.

    Scott

  14. karen STURDY

    September 27, 2019 at 8:12 PM

    A SORORITY SISTER FOR MANY YEARS, WE HAD LOTS OF LAUGHS AND GOOD TIMES. MIKE AND I ARE SO SORRY. PLEASE ACCEPT OUR CONDOLENCES

  15. Rosemary Beange

    September 27, 2019 at 6:50 PM

    To Bob & family,
    Our sincere condolence to you on the passing of Pat. Al & Bob enjoyed golf a few years back.
    Cherish the family memories. Thinking of you at this sad time.
    Al& Rosemary

  16. Janet Dekker

    September 27, 2019 at 3:21 PM

    I am so sorry to hear of Pat’s passing. We had many good times during the “Champion” years and chats since then. My sympathy to you and your family Bob. Our thoughts are with you.

  17. Stan & Ellen Connelly

    September 27, 2019 at 1:41 PM

    We are so sorry to hear of Pat’s passing, we shared lots of ” good times ” over the years. We have those memories. Bob. Colleen and John you have great memories as well to help get you through this difficult time.

  18. Sandra & Leon Kisch -Gaynor

    September 27, 2019 at 1:37 PM

    Our sympathy goes out to Bob and his family at this time. If we can be of any assistance whatsoever please let us know. I can remember the good times we had on New Years Eve, and other times.

    Sandra & Leon

  19. Bill Wilson

    September 27, 2019 at 1:19 PM

    Dear Bob, Coleen and John, so sorry to hear of the passing of you wife and mom. She was a fun lady to talk to. I know she’ll be missed. My thoughts are with you…. hugs… Bill

  20. Judy and Paul Kelly

    September 27, 2019 at 11:00 AM

    Dear Bob, Colleen, John and family
    We are so, so sorry to hear of Pat’s passing. She was a wonderful neighbor who I had many daytime chats with when we lived in goderich. I hope all your wonderful memories you have can be held close to your heart to help with difficult days ahead.
    Another blessed angel to watch over us all. May Pat R.I.P. Hugs to you all.❤️
    Judy and Paul

  21. Deb Shewfelt

    September 27, 2019 at 10:09 AM

    My sympathy to Pat’s family. May she RIP

  22. Murray and Kathy Hunking

    September 26, 2019 at 11:20 PM

    Colleen and John, We are so sorry for the loss of Your Mom . You are in our thoughts and prayers at this most difficult time.

  23. Patricia haskell

    September 26, 2019 at 10:57 PM

    I worked at Goderich hospital with Pat when she worked for Mr. Banks and I worked next door for Charity McDonald.
    my condolences to you and your family. Always remember the good times.

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