Brenda Armstrong of Bayfield passed on December 11th, 2017 in her home. She will be greatly missed by her three children and their families, Scott Armstrong, Tim and Carly Armstrong, LeaAnne and Pete Ross and step children of her late life partner Matthew Smith, Victoria Smith and Chris Hodder, Richard Smith, Mary Smith and Philippe Bourbonniere and her grand children Chasmine, Liam, Mitchell, Eddie, Nicolas, Gabriel, Ruby and soon to be baby "X" Ross. She will also be missed by her mother Irene Tyndall her beloved brothers Fred and Rick and their families. And just a little bit by "that damn cat Peanut". Cremation has taken place and a wake will be held for family next summer. Donations can be made in memory of Brenda to the Stratford General Hospital Foundation. The staff were amazing and the Close to Care Program gave us more time doing things that mattered. Rest assured that Brenda has joined the party with a damn good scotch in her hand. She had strict marching orders for those close to her and this poem is selected as such.
Do Not Stand at My Grave and Weep
by Mary Elizabeth Frye
Do not stand at my grave and weep
I am not there. I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow.
I am the diamond glints on snow.
I am the sunlight on ripened grain.
I am the gentle autumn rain.
When you awaken in the morning’s hush
I am the swift uplifting rush
Of quiet birds in circled flight.
I am the soft stars that shine at night.
Do not stand at my grave and cry;
I am not there. I did not die.
Shared by Maddie Wallace















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Rose Marie Rader
Aunt Irene: Richard and I send our deepest condolences on the passing of Brenda. Rose and Richard Rader
Steve and Robena Tyndall
Condolences to the Armstrong, Tyndall and Smith families. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this sad time.
RuthAnn Potter
Irene and family
You have our deepest sympathy. Your in our prayers.
RuthAnn & Wayne Potter
Karen HOLTBY
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this time. Keep the memories close to your heart. Karen (Jenn, Scott Harman)
Lori Vanstone
Dear LeaAnne and Peter – I was so sad to hear of your mom’s passing. Know that I am thinking of you all at this very sad time…..
Shell, Bray, Connor and Coryn LeBlanc/Knox
We are so sorry to all and send our condolences. This amazing woman always brought so much joy to us. The kids only ever knew her as โGrammaโ Brenda who helped shaped their little lives and she will be missed. Much love.
Shell, Bray, Connor and Coryn
Angela Pratt
Uncle Fred and Aunt Pat our thoughts and prayers are with you and your entire family at this time.
Love Angela, Jim, Taylor and Jaime Pratt
xo
Terri Rau
My sympathies and prayers to all of Brenda’s family. I loved Brenda’s sense of humour and she always had the mist beautiful nails.
Lea Ann Veysey
Sorry to hear about Brenda passing. Thoughts are with your family at this time.
Wendy Heimrich
Scott, Tim&Carly, Leanne&Pete& families,
Thoughts and prayers are with you today and everyday. Treasure the memories. Hugsโค๏ธ
Trevor Mathers
Been through alot. She was my new “mom “. Miss her dearly . A fantastuc Aunt and friend.
Gladys McGregor
Scott, Tim, LeaAnne and Families. Thinking of you all at this sad time. Brenda will be with Bonnie now, having their own Christmas, sharing a laugh or two and probably a drink or two. She was so proud of you all and delighted with her Grandchildren and knowing there would be another one on the way. She will always be with you and know she will share in all that you do. Sending big hugs to you all. Aunt Gladys
Abby Armstrong
So many memories. So sorry to hear the news.
Thinking of you all,
Abby Armstrong
Tom and Gail Sinclair
To Brendaโs Mom and children…. Tom and I extend our sincere sympathies on your loss
Brenda was a lady of style and a good friend
We can only imagine the party going on up there with Bonnie