SMALL: Roy William of Denfield
Posted By Haskett Funeral Homes On July 16, 2026 @ 2:44 PM In Lucan, Obituary | 71 Comments
Roy passed away on Wednesday, July 15, 2026 at AgeCare Long Term Care Home, Parkhill, Ontario after a battle with Parkinson’s Disease. Much loved husband of Carol (McIntosh) Small for 59 years. Dearest father of Bryan and Kelly Small of Delaware, Jeffrey and Oriana Small of Mississauga, and Heather and Kirk VanWill of Coldstream. Cherished grandfather of Cole and Emily Small, Aidan and Noah Small, and Avery and Ainsley VanWill. Brother of Fern McLean of Conn, Mildred Francis and Jim Stewart of Mount Forest, Ruth and Terry Kerr of Guelph and Glen Small of Clifford. Brother-in-law of Marjorie Kennedy of Victoria, B.C, Betty Small of Harriston, Margaret and Bob Calvert of Kitchener, Ron and Louise McIntosh of Ayton, Lyle and Leigh McIntosh of Clifford and many nieces and nephews.
Predeceased by his parents, Elvet and Myrtle (Hellyer) Small, his siblings and in-laws, Irene and Gordon Millson, Keith Small, Ross Small, Lorne and Jennifer Small, Robert McLean, Leonard Francis, Lorna Small, Bonnie Small and Heather Small; also Carol’s parents, Elmer and Ann (Calvert) McIntosh, and brother, Thomas McIntosh.
Roy grew up on his parents’ farms in Arthur Township, Wellington County, graduated from 67A OAC, University of Guelph where he won awards. On July 22, 1967, he married the love of his life, Carol, and they lived in Lambeth. After graduation, he worked in the agricultural industry. Purchasing Maple Hurst Farm near Denfield in 1971, Roy and Carol moved to their new home in 1972. Roy operated a swine farrow-to-finish business, and in retirement, he enjoyed the challenge of refurbishing and building furniture. Roy served his community by being Chair of the Middlesex County Pork Producers, Poplar Hill Park Board, Lobo Mutual Insurance Company, Ilderton Fair Swine and Woodworking Committees, and various offices in Vanneck United Church. In retirement, Roy and Carol travelled across Canada and to many countries. Often the trips had a familiar theme of exploring ancestral homes and meeting long-lost cousins.
As always with Roy, his family came first and then the farm – his loves.
The family wishes to extend their gratitude to the staff of Age Care Home for the loving care that Roy received.
Visitation will be held at Haskett Funeral Home, 223 Main Street, LUCAN on Tuesday, July 21st from 2 – 4 and 7 – 9 PM.
Roy’s memorial service will be held at St. George’s Anglican Church, 12656 Thirteen Mile Road, Middlesex Centre, on Wednesday July 22nd at 11 AM
Roy’s service will be available online late Wednesday afternoon by visiting www.facebook.com/haskettfh.
In lieu of flowers, if you wish, memorial donations made to the Middlesex Centre Archives, Poplar Hill Lions Club or Ilderton Lions Club would be appreciated.
Condolences for the family of “SMALL: Roy William of Denfield”
Rich and I offer our heartfelt condolences to you Carol and your entire family. May God help you ease your grief with time. 💐💐💐💐💐
So sorry to hear of Roy’s passing. He was part of a wonderful partnership and family who did many fine things for his community. His loss is heartfelt to the many who knew him. My condolences to all.
My sympathy to you Carol and your family.
Roy definitely was that guy who was always there to support you no matter what you had volunteered him for! He absolutely enjoyed his woodworking and many benefited from that.
Always there will be the special memories and smiles.
So sorry Carol to hear of your husbands passing…….May his memory bring you and your family comfort and peace..
Carol and the entire Small family
We are so very sorry to learn of Roy’s passing. Only a few days ago,we had a wonderful visit to Maple Hurst and enjoyed listening to stories and adventures that Carol and Roy shared together.
Sending our sincerest condolences to Carol and family.
Peter and Julie Williams
Carol and family: May the happy memories you have provide some comfort. Our prayers are with you and your family as you cope with such a heartbreaking loss.
Dear Carol, Heather and Family,
Thinking of you during this difficult time. Memories become priceless and are wonderful to keep close to help support and comfort you.
Rest in peace., Roy.
My sincere condolences. May he rest in peace.
So sorry for your loss. Your memories of your time together will remain with you forever!
So sorry for your loss. Your memories will remain with you forever.
Sending deepest condolences to you and your family, Carol. Grandpa, Dad, and husband will be missed greatly by you all.
Carol; it is with deep sadness that we reply to your message of Roy’s passing! As you know I also have Parkinson’s but not to the degree that Roy had. I hope that you are able to enjoy life without your partner and live a pleasant life. I am sure your family is a great comfort for you.
Please accept our deepest condolences.
Regards
Carol,
Sending you my condolences. Hoping your many years of love, family, and travel bring you some comfort in the coming days and weeks.
Take care.
Chelsey (Manning) Passmore
Dear Carol and family, our deepest sympathies and condolences. Praying for His love and comfort to uphold you in this time. All our love. ❤️
My condolences to Carol and family on the passing of Roy.
Carol and family.
I was sorry to hear of Roy’s passing. Let the memories of the good times be your support in the coming weeks.
I’m sorry to hear of Roy’s passing. My sincere condolences to his lovely wife, Carol, and his family. May he rest in eternal peace.
Deepest sympathies Carol to you and your family. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
Hello Carol, we have a fond memory of being at your home for our family reunion. May your cherished memories bless you and your family.
My sympathy thinking of your family
Sending condolences to you Carol and your family at this very difficult time in your lives.
Carol and family,
We are sorry to hear of Roy’s passing. Cherish the memories you hold dear.
We are thinking of you during this time.
Karen Eatwell & Peter Duenk
I am sorry to hear of your husband’s passing. I wanted you to know that I’m thinking of you and sending my heartfelt sympathy. You made a lasting difference in my life as a teacher, and I hope you can find comfort in the love and support of those around you.
Our sincere sympathy to all Roy’s loved ones. May all your memories bring you comfort during this sad time.
Jim and Helen
Carol and family,
Our deepest condolences to you and your family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all during this difficult time.
We are sorry to hear about Roy. Our thoughts are with you all during this difficult time.
Ann, Scott and Cori Charlton
Carol and family
Thinking of you at this very difficult time and hoping that the wonderful memories you all have in your hearts will give you peace and comfort during the coming days.
Heather Bice
Sending hugs and prayers to the entire Small Family. Roy often shared special stories at his eye appointments that showed how proud he was of all his family and how he loved them dearly! May all the great times and memories shared together bring comfort and smiles that will live on in your hearts.
Carol and family, Sincere Condolences in the passing of Roy, may your pleasant memories bring you comfort at this sad time.
Please accept my sincere condolences to you Carol and your family.
Carol, Brian, Jeff and Heather
Sorry to learn of Roy’s passing.He was a great neighbour and community man.
Speak his name often and he will always be near.
Rest in peace Roy.
Joan and Ralph
Carol and family:
Sorry to hear about Roy’s
passing.
Sincere condolences are being sent to all the family during this difficult time..
With sympathy:
Don Scott,
College Classmate.
Carol and family
I’m so sorry to hear of Roy’s passing Carol. He was a lovely man. Sincere condolences to you and all your family. Love from the Savage family
Dear Carol,
Please accept my sincere condolences on Roy’s passing.
Harry Pinchin
So sorry for your loss Carol and your families loss. It was a pleasure looking after your husband. Prayers to you and your family during this time.
Sending our sincere condolences and sympathies to the Small family. May the sharing of all the good memories be of great comfort at this sad time. Blessings to all! Bruce & Grace Dahms
I am sorry to hear the sad news of Roy’s passing, Carol. My sincere condolences to you and your family.
my condolences to Carol and family
Carol , Bryan ,Jeff and Heather
My deepest condolences , Roy and I enjoyed many spirited discussions while riding the combine down the field . He will be missed by many in the community .
Paul Robson
So sorry for your loss Carol
Dear Carol and family,
It is with great sadness that I read of Roy’s passing.
My heartfelt condolences to you , Carol, and your extended family. May your loving memories continue to live on with you.
Love never dies , even though the body passes away.
Love always,
Theresa Boese Knuckey
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Dear Carol and family
We were saddened to hear of Roy’s passing.
You will have many beautiful memories of his life and time spent together with family.
Thinking of you during this difficult time.
Judy & Reg Thompson
Carol and family. Sorry to hear of Roy’s passing. Thinking of you at this difficult time.
Bryan and Liz Graham
Carol and family. My deepest condolences. I know Roy was a great community person and will be missed. Cherish the memories.
Dear Carol
On behalf of the London & Middlesex Branch of the Ontario Genealogical Society, we wish to express our most sincere condolences on the loss of your beloved husband.
Condolences to you and your family.
Carol,
Suzanne and I extend our condolences to you, your children – Bryan, Jeff and Heather – and your entire extended family. Together, you and Roy built and raised a loving, tight-knit family unit. The two of you have so generously given of your time, your knowledge, your hard work and your considerable organizational skills for the betterment of the Middlesex community. Thank you.
We shall all miss Roy. His generosity of spirit will live on. Best wishes to you, Carol and your lovely family.
Gerry & Suzanne
Dear Carol, Bryan , Jeff & Heather
So saddened to hear about Roy’s passing. He was such a devoted husband, father and farmer, but always gave his time and energy to community organizations. May you cherish the many memories you have of your time together as you transition through your loss. Thinking of you.❤️🌈
Carol and Family
Sorry to hear of Roy’s passing.It’s certainly been a struggle the last while but cherish the good times you had together
Dear Carol and family,
Extending our condolences to you and all of your family. May the many memories from a life well lived and the love that he gave and shared with each of you, stay in your heart forever. Wishing you strength, comfort and peace as you move forward.
In deepest sympathy,
Gerald and Brenda Lenders
Hi Carol,
Brenda & I were sorry to read about Roy’s passing. Our thoughts are with you and your family.
Bill
Hi Carol,
Brenda & I were sorry to read about Roy’s passing. Our thoughts are with you and your family.
Bill
Carol and Family:
I always enjoyed a chat when we met up. Sorry for your families loss.
Kirk and Heather, We are very sorry for your loss
Carol and family, you have my deepest sympathy. My heart goes out to you during this difficult time.
Carol and family.
Sorry to hear the news of Roy’s passing. It a pleasure to visit and learn from him. We will always remember our Class Reunion at the farm.
Carol and family,
I am so sorry to hear of Roy’s passing. He was such a talented wood worker who loved his time with family. Treasure thse memories made and may they bring smiles and laughter in remembrance of him.
So sorry for your loss Carol and family. He will be missed by many
Dear Carol, family, and friends of Roy; I am very sorry for your loss. Heartfelt condolences from my family to yours.
Carol I am so very, very sorry to hear the news of cousin Roy’s passing. I hope that all the wonderful memories you have of him will give you some comfort; my condolences to you and all the family at this difficult time.
Carol and families, so sorry for your loss.
Dear Carol,
I am so sorry to hear about Roy. Lutzen and I are thinking of you during this difficult time.
Love and prayers,
Carol,
So sorry to hear of Roy’s passing. I hold you and your family in my thoughts on Wednesday and hope to attend the service online later in the afternoon. A card is on the way in the mail. Blessings,
Dear Carol,
Stuart and I send our sincere condolances to you with the passing of your dear husband Roy. We have fond memories of the both of you from our visit to North Dakota.
Dear Carol and family
Thinking of you at this time and sending our condolences.
Sincere condolences to Carol and your family. Cherish all your wonderful memories.
Hazel MacLeod
Carol! I happened to pick up the Wellington advertiser this am and was shocked to read about Roy. I didn’t know or had forgotten that he had Parkinson’s. Sorry to hear about this. Our sincere condolences. Take care and stay in touch
Brion & Sondra Cole
Carol and family. So sorry to hear about Roy’s passing, our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Remember the good times.
Carol, Bryan, Jeff, and Heather,
My condolences to you and your families. I have many memories of growing up around the corner and spending countless hours playing. Roy always had time for good spirited teasing and a ruffle of your hair. He is remembered fondly. Rest in peace Roy.
To the Small Family.
Please accept our Condolence in your loss of Roy William.
Jeff Borland
Matthew Borland
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Carol and family,
We are saddened to hear of Roy’s passing. My your happy memories bring you some peace
Roy was a wonderful neighbour and community man
Mark enjoyed their ‘farm talk’ when the newsletter came each month.
Rest in peace Roy