WENDLER: Richard Patrick
Posted By On May 17, 2021 @ 12:00 AM In Goderich, Obituary | 41 Comments
On May 17th, 2021, Richard "Rick" Wendler died suddenly and comfortably at home in his 68th year. He was an incredibly strong willed man and was a perfect example of the phrase "mind over matter". He put everything he had into any endeavor he chose to take on and firmly believed that anything is possible.
Born in Sudbury on March 17th, 1954, the beloved son of Dagmar Watts and the late Hans Wendler, he quickly became a keen athlete and excelled in sports throughout his school years. From an early age he had a competitive spirit and loved watching hockey games with his younger brother Arno (Rick would cheer for the Canadiens and Arno for the Leafs). He went on to study business at Wilfrid Laurier University and soon after met his wife of 39 years Sharon (Whitely) at Benmiller Inn where Sharon worked at the time. The two ended up settling down in Goderich and had three children: Nicholas, Annalise (Kris), and Adam (Flo). Shortly before his death, he had the pleasure of meeting his first grandchild, Elja Ros and was a proud uncle to Carly and the late Heidi Wendler and Alexander, James and Joe Whitely. He would often talk about life lessons he learned growing up from his uncle Jim Wendler.
Also survived by brother Arno (Denise) Wendler, mother-in-law Eleanor Whitely, sister-in-laws Una Whitely, Lisa (Mike) Hannan and Jennifer (John) York.
Predeceased by his step-father Jim Watts, father-in-law A.G. “Pat” Whitely and brother-in-law Brian Whitely.
Tirelessly ambitious and optimistic, Rick had several different jobs throughout the course of his career, always keeping things fresh and exciting. He carried himself with a smile and was friendly to everybody he met. He loved to be around people and one of his favourite pass-times was going to restaurants. He was a loyal supporter of Molson Canadian, and always had some bottles in the fridge ready to offer to any guests who might arrive. He was known for having a head full of many famous (and some seemingly random or original) quotes – always sharing wisdom through one-liners. He will always be remembered and deeply missed. Prost!
A celebration of life will be held at a later date. Donations in Rick’s honour can be sent to Goderich Lions Club, P.O. Box 65, Goderich, Ontario N7A 3Y5
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Condolences for the family of “WENDLER: Richard Patrick”
Dear Sharon & Family
I am so terribly sorry to read this sad news.
May your wonderful memories, family & friends guide and comfort you at this difficult time.
Thinking of you all ❤️
Joanne Whitney
To Sharon and family,
Being part of the ET family, I could always count on Rick for a smile and a “good morning” to start the day. He shared stories and pictures of his family that he was so proud of, and once in a while he would treat us to those amazing Culberts donuts when he had been to the barber for his early morning haircuts. Rick was a kind and caring man and his good nature and positive outlook will be missed.
Thinking of all of you at this difficult time.
I was so sad to hear of Rick’s passing today. My many years at the Beach Hut and Park House in all capacities from fry shifts in the basement to learning to bartend when I turned 18. I was there to meet Nick when he would sit on the bar of the Park House and giggle, and babysat both Adam and Annalise on occasion when Rick and Sharon had to go to events. I learned a lot that I would carry throughout my business life and I send my love and brightest blessings to the entire family.
Much love,
Heather Larsen-Dafoe
I send you my sympathy in your recent and unexpected loss…. I love all those quotes……he had quick wit. Condolences to Nicholas …I remember working with him in his early years at good old Victoria School. I hope you find comfort in your treasured memories.
So sorry for your loss Sharon! Thinking of you!
My heart goes out to you all! An incredible loss. I have very fond memories of you all from the JGP pool days.
Dear Sharon and family, my heart is so heavy for your loss. Rick was one the kindest people I had the pleasure to work with at Ellison Travel, he truly cared about everyone. He lived his life for the people around him – family, friends, co-workers, and the stranger on the street. It was never about him and he never stopped giving. Sending my deepest sympathies, we will miss him.
I had the pleasure of working with Rick the last 10 years at Ellison. He was such a kind and thoughtful man, always asking how things were at home and sharing with me what his kids were up to. He was so proud of his family. Rick, with his generous smile will truly be missed at Ellison. My condolences to his family.
No matter how long it had been since Greg and I saw Rick, he would always greet us with a great big smile and we would talk like it was just yesterday. And always, he would say, “it’s been way too long since we have gotten together, lets make a plan…” There are so many great memories. Rick was an amazing man, in the prime of his life…a life cut way too short :( Greg and I are so very sorry for your loss Sharon and family.
So sorry to hear the heartbreaking news of Rick. Love and prayers to you all at this time. He is going to be missed. Hugs Sharron
Sharon and family – we were so very sorry to hear of Rick’s passing. I just saw him last week in the car and he gave me a smile. Thinking of you and sending our deepest sympathy at this sad time.
Dear Sharon and Family
Such sad news of Ricks passing
We extend our sincere condolences to all of you.
Sincerely
Gayle and Barney
Please accept our sincere condolences at this sad time.Thinking of you Sharon,and your wonderful family.Take care,Marg
Sharon and family
So very sorry for your loss. Thinking of you during this difficult time.
Joanne
So sorry to hear the news of the loss of Rick. Deepest sympathies to you Sharon and your family.
Sharon & family. We are so sorry to hear about Rick’s passing. We have many wonderful memories of Rick. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
To everything there is a season, and a time to every purpose under Heaven
Kim & Travis Teed
& family
Sincere condolences! Rick will be missed by so many. Without missing a beat, he was the most social and outgoing man with an
obvious zest for life and love of sharing his experiences. With every encounter that we were fortunate enough to have with Rick, the impressions that he left will be cherished as we respectfully mourn the loss of a friend. Sharon & family, our thoughts are with you always & especially during this time. Much love & support…Julie & Cody
Our condolences to Sharon and family.
Jim Mulhern
Sending the family love and peace during this saddened time. Rick, was a wonderful person, and will be greatly missed. His smile and welcoming heart will never be forgotten.
I remember the first time in Goderich when we were looking for a house. We came across a pub overlooking the lake. Rick served us. I then became very close friends with his wife, Sharon.
My deepest condolences to the Wendler family. Rick will be missed by all who knew him.
I was shocked and saddened to hear of Ricks passing. He was a generous and wonderful boss and I have great memories of my time at the Parkhouse. I am so sorry for your loss.
Dear Sharon and family. Please accept our sincerest sympathies. Our hearts are broken for your family. Rick was so personable and delightful to talk too. I was happy to chat with Rick this past winter when we saw Adam play and sing from Germany. Rick was a good soul. You are in our prayers.
We were shocked and saddened to hear of Ricks passing. To Sharon and the family please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Rick was a great guy and always so friendly to talk to. We always loved hearing Adam playing and Rick was a very proud dad to his kids.
We were so saddened to hear of Rick’s passing. He was such a kind soul; always ready to help. I will miss planning trips with him and hearing stories about the family. He always made time for you, armed with a quick quote and a smile. Such a genuine, generous soul. Our sincere condolences to the Wendler family.
I was so saddened to hear of Rick’s passing. You are all in my thoughts and prayers. Shelley
Sincere condolences to you, Sharon, and your family. Your loss is felt by many. Anita Frayne
It was a pleasure working with Rick at Ellison Travel. He was such a kind and caring man. He was so proud of his family and shared many pictures and events with us. We had the privilege of attending one of Adams concerts in Goderich and I have never seen such a proud Father. I have seen many pictures of his beautiful granddaughter and am so happy that Rick had the opportunity to meet her. Our sincere condolences to Sharon and family at this difficult time.. Rick will be missed.
Dear Sharon (and family), I loved working with Rick at Ellison, such a happy positive force, terrific at sales. I’m retired and when I would stop in and had not seen seen him for awhile, I would ask how he was and he always said good and then diverted to your kids latest accomplishments- such a very proud Dad! Enjoyed times at the Christmas parties with both you and Rick. The glass was alway half full, always an opportunity to be had and Rick will be sorely missed by all!
Words can’t really express, I am better for knowing Rick, please know our thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
I’m saddened to hear of the passing of Rick. I worked with Rick for a number of years and found him to be an exceptional colleague. He was always positive, and very professional. I learned so much from him in regards to business and especially sales. Having been born and raised in Goderich I always enjoyed, and looked forward to, catching up with Rick on everything happening in and around town. He was so proud of his family and all their endeavours and accomplishments. Rick was was both a valued colleague and a friend. We will miss him greatly.
Nancy and I extend our heartfelt sympathy to Sharon and family. Our thoughts are with you.
Nancy & Bryan Pettman
That smile was infectious! I had the pleasure of working with Rick out of the Exeter ET Office and I will miss his morning hello’s and chats. He was a proud father and grandfather, and always took time for others. Always eager and leading the charge for Ellison with a go getter attitude and we know he will carry this on with him. My condolences to Sharon and family during this time.
As a member of the ET family, I will remember Rick for his kindness, his genuine interest in the colleagues and clients he worked with, and his unwavering attention and preparation for any task at hand. I will also remember the love he showed for his family, particularly that he was so proud of his children, sharing with all of us their many accomplishments. Sharon, Nicholas, Annelise, and Adam, although we have never met, I feel, thanks to Rick, that we know you a bit. I wish you strength and brighter days ahead as you celebrate the kindness Rick spread to all he knew.
I will add a quote to Rick’s collection. “There are some who bring a light so great to the world, that even after they have gone, the light remains.”
With deepest sympathies,
Tracey McCormick
Dear Sharon and Family,
We were very sorry to hear of Ricks sudden passing, we are thinking of you all and sending out healing vibes and positive thoughts. Remember all the good times and memories, he sure was a huge “Fermented Oranges” Fan, and he never missed a chance to see them play, he genuinely loved hearing their music, and was a very proud Dad.
The Reynolds Family
I’m so very grieved ,we have lost a true ray of sunshine. Over the decades of knowing Rick he always made you feel like you matter, and warmed you with his smile. When ever we talked he always remembered my life interests and as we caught up with each other he would bubble with pride when talking about his family.
Sending prayers and blessings that the pain of loss lessens and beautiful memories bring you joy again. All thou it’s is just another card to learn, it’s a very heavy card to turn.
Truly sorry for your loss
Brenda
Dear Sharon and family- Vito and I, and my mum Cecelia were so sorry to hear of your husband’s passing. Big virtual hugs to you all.
I’m sorry to hear of Rick’s passing…he was a fantastic man! Always a true gentleman to deal with on the phone and in person. He had a passion for making student travel a wonderful experience for everyone involved at Collingwood Collegiate in the Music Department. My thoughts and prayers are with the family at this extremely challenging time.
My heartfelt condolences to Sharon and the kids, he talked about you often with pride and love. Rick was an absolute pleasure to work with. He never missed wishing a happy birthday, sad knowing I’ll miss mine this year. St Pattys day will forever be Ricks day to me. I’ll remember our regular chats talking about our little ones. Rest In Peace my friend
Rick helped the Saskatoon Symphony Orchestra take patrons on some wonderful trips – everyone here loved working with him, and catching up with him when he was in town! A generous wonderful soul.
Like many others, thinking of you and your family while you sort through the memories of such a kind and generous man! So lucky to have gotten to know him while we worked at Ellison Travel.
Sad to hear the news of Rick. I knew him during his Park House years. A couple of years back we met and talked about the good old days. I knew I had this coaster from the Park House at that time. So I’ll share it.
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To the Wendler family, I’m so very sorry for your loss. Rick was always such an incredible man and always had a lovely smile on his face. I’m happy to have had the pleasure of knowing him.