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MATTHEWS: Barbara (Harris) of Lucan, formerly of Delaware
Posted By Haskett Funeral Homes On January 13, 2026 @ 11:33 AM In Lucan,Obituary | 19 Comments

Passed away peacefully at South Huron Hospital with family by her side on Saturday, January 10, 2026 at the age of 84. Beloved wife of the late George Matthews (2000). Treasured mom of Terry Ferguson, Jeff and Tab Matthews, Janet and Andre Waack, and Tina and Brian Roe. Proud Nana of Nathan (Kelsi), Lindsey (Jason); Jorja; Christopher (Yvonne), Curtis (Makenna); Colin (Blair), Jacob, and Julia. Whether in her arms or in her heart, her love reached all her great grandchildren; Isla, Spencer, Colby, Blaire, Evelyn, Hallie, and Saylor and she found joy in every story shared with her about them. Dear sister and sister-in-law of Len and Pat Harris, and Laura Harris. Fondly remembered by her loving niece Brandie. Predeceased by her parents Earl and Edna Harris and her brothers; Gordie, Tom, Art, Alley, and Rob.
With profound love and deep sorrow, we announce the passing of our Mom, a remarkable woman whose life was defined by unconditional love, quiet strength, and unwavering devotion to her family.
There will never be another so full of love as Mom and Nana, who cherished her grandchildren and great‑grandchildren with her whole heart. She carried a quiet confidence and a steady, guiding hand, and if you were fortunate enough to be touched by it, she helped you find clarity in your thoughts and the courage to pursue your dreams. Her love and support never wavered, and the lessons she shared will be treasured forever.
Mom was fiercely committed to what she believed in: family, life, love, and happiness. If anything, or anyone stood in the way of living fully and authentically, she was never afraid to speak up. Equally powerful, however, was her ability to forgive, let go, and move forward while always protecting what mattered most. That rare balance of strength and grace was one of her greatest gifts.
Life handed Mom more than her share of trials and tribulations, yet she never complained. Instead, she focused on restoring peace after each challenge. Even in hardship, she chose calm, healing, and hope, leaving behind a legacy of resilience and quiet courage.
She faced leukemia in 2019 and lymphoma in 2025 with remarkable strength and grace. Through it all, she remained a guiding light, someone who helped others unconditionally and never asked for anything in return. She taught us that healing and growth are not only about what we endure, but about honest self‑reflection: acknowledging mistakes, taking responsibility, fixing what we can, and moving forward.
Mom often reminded those she loved that no one is perfect and never expected perfection from anyone. She encouraged accountability without excuses, the courage to stand up for oneself, and the trust that those who truly love and understand you will stand beside you.
How do you describe a love like hers in a single paragraph? It simply isn’t possible. No words can fully honour all that she gave of herself to her family throughout her life. For all she gave her love, her guidance, her unwavering support she was the greatest human we have ever known, and likely ever will know. She showed us what love, honour, integrity, kindness, selflessness, commitment, courage, and strength truly mean.
Every good quality we carry exists because of how she raised us and how she modelled these values throughout our lives. Her acceptance of people for who they are, her wit, and her unwavering commitment to family shaped us all. Family always came first. Her children and grandchildren always before herself.
Our beautiful Mom… the pride we feel knowing you were ours, and that you are still ours even though you are no longer physically here, is immeasurable. We will honour your memory by sharing your stories, looking at your pictures, and celebrating you and the beautiful life you lived. You are, and have always been, our hero.
Mom is now reunited with our Dad. In a poem she wrote for him, displayed on a plaque beside a tree planted in his memory, she wrote that they would be “together again, forever again.” This brings great comfort to those she leaves behind.
She will be deeply missed by her children, grandchildren, great‑grandchildren, extended family, and all who were blessed to know and love her. Her love, strength, and wisdom will live on through each of us.
Throughout our Moms life, she found joy in time spent with family, listening to music, dancing, singing, doing puzzles, playing cards, watching tennis, gardening and painting. She lived life on her own terms, in her own time, and that is exactly how she will be remembered.
Rest in peace, Mom. Our lives will never be the same without you, but we will carry you with us always.
Keeping with Barb’s wishes, cremation has taken place. A private family graveside will be held at Strathroy Cemetery at a later date.
Donations to LHSF – Verspeeten Family Cancer Centre would be appreciated by the family.
The family wishes to thank Dr. Howson-Jan and Dr. To, and the staff from the Verspeeten Family Cancer Centre, the long-time staff at CDS Pharmacy in Ailsa Craig, along with those who showed compassion, care and support to Barb and her family during her time at South Huron Hospital.
Our condolences for the loss of your mom. She was a great and loving lady.
She was a mom to all of us when in need. We will miss her.
Geoff Dann
Tina and family,
We were so saddened to hear of your mom’s passing. She truly was a beautiful person who will always be remembered. Sending our sincerest condolences and much love during this difficult time. Thinking of you all.
Terry & family
We would like to extend our most heartfelt sympathy to you and your family. May the wonderful memories you have help to ease the pain in your heart today and the days ahead. Your mom may be gone, but remember no one can take all the memories you have. May you be comforted by the out pouring of love surrounding you.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all during this difficult time.
Terry, Jeff, Janet, Tina and your Families.
My deepest condolences to you all. Barb was a special lady. I have very fond memories of time spent with you all many years ago. I think of you often. Time will make it easier and your love for your Mom stronger.
My love to you all.
To Barb family and extended family I send prayers and condolences. I was a honour to have meet her many years ago
Sending you all my deepest condolences at this difficult time. Losing your mom is one of the hardest parts of life. Sending you all so much love during this difficult time.
Janet & Andre and Family
Thinking of you all at this time. May you find comfort in the cherished memories.
Tim and Meghan Lee
Jackson, Cam and Morgan
To Barb’s Family,
Sending condolences, she loved her family dearly. Hopefully the beautiful memories and moments you shared will help sustain you all. She was a woman of grace and peace.
Lindsay: so sorry to read the notice of your Grandma’s passing. I send my thoughts of deepest sympathy to you and all your family.
Hold precious memories close on the journey ahead. I continue to cherish the fact that you and your family live on my “home farm” and that George was part of my childhood. Peace and Comfort.
Carol
Terry and Family
Just so difficult losing a Mother, we wish we could take the pain away, Our Sincere Condolences
We are so very sorry for your loss. Sending our deepest condolences.
Janet and families,
I’m so sorry for your loss. Thinking and praying for you at this time. Hold the wonderful memories close to your heart.
Terry, Nathan, Lindsay and families,
Sending sincere condolences on the passing of your mom/nana. I never had the opportunity to meet her but after reading the obituary, she was obviously a wonderful woman. Hold onto all the wonderful memories. Sending hugs and prayers to all.
Tina and family,
Sending our sincerest condolences. She was a remarkable lady, may your memories help in the days ahead.
Larry and Kelly Miles
Terry, Jeff, Janet,Tina and families,
Sending heartfelt condolences to all of you, and may all the fond memories bring ease to your hearts.
Keeping you in our thoughts.
Terry, Nathan, Lindsey and Jorja
My thoughts are with you at this time of Loss. I remember Barb from my Ailsa Craig days. She was a strong woman and has taught you well. Remember the wonderful times you enjoyed with her.
Dear Tina and Brian and family. Thinking of you during this time of loss with love.
Our condolences in the passing of your mom.
My sincere condolences to Terry and all your family. Hold your memories close to your heart ❤️
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Sending our condolences to all at this sad time.