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MATHERS: Arnold of Exeter

Posted By Haskett Funeral Homes On March 14, 2026 @ 11:18 AM In Exeter,Obituary | 124 Comments

MATHERS: Arnold of Exeter

Arnold Mathers of Exeter, Ontario, passed away peacefully on Friday, March 13, 2026 at the age of 87. Surrounded by family, he eased his way into the next chapter of life with no regrets and deep thankfulness.

He leaves to mourn his passing his loving wife of sixty-seven years, Ila. Together they were boastfully proud of their children Dwayne (Debbie), Lorrie (Nathalie), and Suzanne (Brian). Arnold and Ila were blessed with nine grandchildren who brought him immense joy. Dwayne’s children Brent (Amanda), Blake (Alexandra), and Kyle (Natalie). Lorrie’s children Melanie (Jesse), Sarah, and Jonathan; and Suzanne’s children Justin (Sara), Brock (Aliesha), and Drew (Hailey). Arnold was also a proud great‑grandfather to seven great‑grandchildren: Adia, Adeline, Harrison, and Keith, children of Brent and Amanda; Emmaline and Elowyn, children of Blake and Alexandra; and Scottie, daughter of Justin and Sara.

Arnold dedicated his professional life to education. After graduating from Wingham High School and Stratford Teachers’ College, he began his career teaching in a one‑room rural school near Tiverton.  He married Ila Pengelly, then they moved to Toronto where he taught for five years. In 1964, after he received his BA from Western, they moved the family to Exeter, where Arnold became principal of Usborne Central School for two years and later Huron Centennial School in Brucefield for eighteen years. He completed his career serving with the Huron County Board of Education.

Although committed to education, Arnold never strayed far from his Huron County farming roots. Together with Ila and their children, he farmed—raising beef cattle, growing cash crops, and operating a Christmas tree farm. Their restored log house near Wingham became a cherished gathering place for family reunions and celebrations.

Arnold was not one to sit back and wait for things to happen. He was always one step ahead, whether planning parties, trips, or family outings. He welcomed challenges at work and in the community, helping neighbours, volunteering at church, and building houses for Habitat for Humanity.

Humour was a big part of Arnold’s life. He loved telling jokes and humorous stories, many of which appeared in The Rural Voice and later compiled into books.

Arnold and Ila also shared a love of travel, exploring more than fifty countries and spending many winters in Florida, where they enjoyed many friends and activities. Arn was an avid golfer.

Arnold will be remembered as a devoted husband, loving father, grandfather and great‑grandfather, respected educator, friend and enthusiastic traveller. Above all, he will be remembered for his deep love of family.

Visitation will be held at Haskett Funeral Home, 456 Main Street South, EXETER on Sunday, March 22nd from 1 – 3 PM, where a celebration of Arnold’s life will be held at 3 PM. A spring interment will be held at Brandon Cemetery, Belgrave with the immediate family.

Stream the service live or at your convenience by visiting www.facebook.com/haskettfh

In lieu of flowers, donations in Arnold’s memory may be made to Habitat for Humanity Huron County or the Ausable Bayfield Conservation Foundation-South Huron Trail. The family appreciates your kindness and support.


Condolences for the family of “MATHERS: Arnold of Exeter”

Condolence from Doug & Anna Scott on March 14th, 2026 11:40 AM

So sad to hear of Arn’s passing. We have the fondest memories of him at our visits with the Mathers’ family at the cabin near Wingham. He loved music and we remember he and Ila often one of the first couples up on the dance floor for a waltz or a lively jig. Know he will be missed.

Condolence from Gabbie and Margaret Mol on March 14th, 2026 11:43 AM

Our most sincere condolences with Arnold’s passing

Condolence from Stephen Thompson on March 14th, 2026 11:47 AM

Yes, of course, there was more than one picture of Arn astride the Ford tractor – he will be missed at parade time at the Blyth Thresherman’s show this September.

Condolence from Wayne and Helen Horner on March 14th, 2026 12:10 PM

Condolences to Ila and Family , He will be missed but leaves You with a lifetime of memories and great times .

Condolence from Allan and Patty Case on March 14th, 2026 12:12 PM

Our sincere condolences. Cherish the many wonderful memories and the many wonderful pictures that truly showed Arnold’s fantastic life. He was certainly a rock to the community with his involvement in many things. He will be missed.

Condolence from Julie Hawtin on March 14th, 2026 12:24 PM

Very sad to hear of Arn’s passing. My dad, Don Agar had alot of respect and great fondness in his fellow tractor enthusiast! I have enjoyed Arn’s stories in his books and look forward to re-reading them again and again. Arn’s family and friends are in my thoughts at this difficult time.

Condolence from Tom&Cathy Seip on March 14th, 2026 12:57 PM

Condolences to Ila and family. I enjoyed my times with Arn and Ila while transitioning from Andrew St to the new place. Helping Arn with the Habitat and Re Store are fond memories as well. Our thoughts are with you.

Condolence from Wayne and Sonia Greb on March 14th, 2026 1:50 PM

To Arnold’s family
Wayne and I have so many wonderful memories of all the great times we have shared over the years in Arnold’s company and enjoying with all his family.
Sending out thoughts, prayers and love to Ila and family.
RIP dear friend Arn

Condolence from Dave and Brenda Palsa on March 14th, 2026 3:19 PM

Justin and Sara – our condolences on the loss of your grandfather – thinking of you💕

Condolence from Yvon Micheline Nadeau on March 14th, 2026 3:49 PM

Our sincere sympathy to Ila and family, we met Ila and Arnold while in Florida as snowbirds, such a lovely couple , so sad 🙏🏻💔🙏🏻

Condolence from jack triebner on March 14th, 2026 4:33 PM

So sorry lla the loss of Arnold , Please accept our condolence
From My best Friend Betty and Myself Here In Exeter.
Was Our Neighbor For Many Years .

Condolence from Dave Frayne and Cathy Cade on March 14th, 2026 4:42 PM

To Ila , family and friends
Our condolences to all.
Arn was a man with many talents and offered so much to his community.
We have many memories of him and hope that your memories will bring you comfort in the times ahead.

Condolence from Tim & Maria Hamather on March 14th, 2026 5:12 PM

Dear Ila, Suzanne & Brian and family,

Sincere condolences on the passing of your beloved husband, father’s & grandfather. Arn gave so much to this community.
Thinking of you all at this difficult time.

Condolence from Gary Jennison on March 14th, 2026 5:13 PM

Dwayne & Debbie, our deepest condolences on the loss of your father. May his memory be a blessing. Gary & Beth

Condolence from Russell and Verona Snider on March 14th, 2026 6:42 PM

Very sad to hear of his passing. Over the years I had the opportunity to sit down with him discussing lots of children’s issues. He was always ready to give advise. Wishing the family our condolences and prayers

Condolence from Ray & Judy Mills on March 14th, 2026 7:20 PM

To Ila and family;
Please accept our deepest sympathy at your loss of a wonderful husband, father, grandfather and great grandfather, as well as a brother and friend. We have good memories of being in the company of Arn and you Ila. I also knew him as an educator who advised on many situations. He will be missed for sure but he did give much to education and to his community. He leaves a wonderful legacy for his children, grandchildren and great grandchildren to follow. Thinking of you. God Bless.

Condolence from Bernice Boogemans on March 14th, 2026 7:30 PM

Ila, Suzanne, Brian and all the Mathers family. Our sincere sympathy at this sad time in your life.
Bob worked with Arn and Herman Steffens at the Habitat House on Wellington St. In Exeter.
He was involved in many projects in the community. R.I.P, Arn
Bob and Bernice Boogemans

Condolence from Pat Hunt on March 14th, 2026 8:21 PM

Dwayne, Debbie, Ila and the entire Mathers clan: I am sorry to hear of the loss of your beloved Arn. I too have fond memories of visits to the log cabin and numerous happy hours on Alpha Mills. Many memories for you all to cherish

Condolence from Melonie on March 14th, 2026 8:25 PM

Sincere sympathy to Ila & family ..
A family man, community man and great educator .. he will be missed
Barry & Melonie Miller

Condolence from Peggy Wilkinson on March 14th, 2026 9:02 PM

Ila & Family:

I am so sorry to read of Arnold’s passing, He was always a friendly and delightful man to chat with.. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family during this difficult time, as you say goodbye to a lovely man…..

Peggy Wilkinson

Condolence from Bob & Sharon Pavkeje on March 14th, 2026 10:41 PM

Sad to hear of Arn’s passing. Sending our deepest sympathy to your family. Arn was a great support to the ABCF, and an awesome helper for our Golf Tournament fundraiser.

Condolence from Jason Hulzebos on March 14th, 2026 11:19 PM

Dear the Mathers Family,

Hi its Jason Hulzebos from Blyth,Ontario I’m sorry for your loss Illa.

Condolence from Lynn Hope on March 15th, 2026 5:57 AM

Suzanne, Brian and families
So sorry for your loss. Please accept my deepest condolences.
Hold your memories close ❤️
Lynn

Condolence from Susan Moore on March 15th, 2026 7:11 AM

Ila and family: My thoughts are with you all as you grieve, give thanks and celebrate Arn.
I remember him has a kind and supportive educator in my early years as a teacher and later as a friend!
He will be missed by many!

Condolence from Mark Cronyn on March 15th, 2026 7:33 AM

Dear lla, Suzanne,Brian and all the families.
So sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this very sad time.
Cherish all your wonderful memories in the days ahead.
Deepest Sympathy. Mark and Judy

Condolence from Faye Skinner on March 15th, 2026 7:57 AM

My sincere condolences to Ila and family.
Cherish the memories.

Condolence from Mike and Beatie Rau on March 15th, 2026 8:10 AM

Ila and family , so sorry for your loss. Our prayers and thoughts are with you at this time. Mike has many fond memories of working with Arn at the school board.
Mike and Beatie Rau

Condolence from Gwen Bestard on March 15th, 2026 8:14 AM

My sincerest sympathies to the Mathers family. A very well written obituary, Arn certainly exemplified all of those tributes. May your many happy memories and high respect for your wonderful husband, father and grandfather help fill the intense void you will sadly now feel.

Condolence from Linda & Jerry Traquair on March 15th, 2026 8:30 AM

Daar Ila and family,

Sending sincere condolences on your great loss. Arnold will be remembered for his words and deeds, but most of all, the legacy that lives on in each of you. Wishing you all the Peace and Healing that comes with a life well-lived.

Condolence from Brian & Janet Wedlake on March 15th, 2026 8:31 AM

Ila and family
Our Sincere sympathies. We have fond memories of playing bridge with both of you.
He will truly be missed by all the community of Exeter.

Condolence from Tom Prout on March 15th, 2026 8:45 AM

Sincere Condolences to Ila and Family. Arn, a great Guy, My first meeting with Arn was at Usborne Central, I was in grad 8. Later our paths crossed at Church and the South Huron Trail. He was always supportive of his community!

Condolence from Phil and Chris Turner on March 15th, 2026 9:00 AM

We are so sorry for your loss. Arn was such a great fellow. We sure enjoyed our times with him in Citrus Woods when we used to holiday in Florida. He would organize such fun times. Golf and dances were had by all. The pig roasts at the cabin were always such a generous gesture.
Thanks Arn for always making everyone feel welcome. You will be sorely missed. R,I.P.

Condolence from Joan Heywood on March 15th, 2026 9:34 AM

Ila and families:

My sincere condolences when I read of Arn’s passing. My thoughts and prayers are with everyone. Cherish all the wonderful memories of a life well lived. Hugs Joan

Condolence from Wanda Reynolds on March 15th, 2026 9:47 AM

Ila & Family

My thoughts are with you at this time of sorrow.

Wanda Reynolds

Condolence from Darlene Porter on March 15th, 2026 10:42 AM

Deepest sympathy to the family of Arnold in your loss. Exeter Probus members really enjoyed his humorous presentations and company . May the memories be a blessing .

Condolence from Glenn Keene on March 15th, 2026 11:15 AM

I enjoyed meeting Arn and playing golf with him several years in a row in Myrtle Beach, He was always the life of the party and a great guy to be around. We will all miss him

Condolence from Carolanne Doig on March 15th, 2026 12:53 PM

Condolences to Ila and Arn’s family and close friends. He was a go getter and lived a long and full life. May your memories of good times bring you comfort.

Condolence from Tom & NoellaTriebner on March 15th, 2026 1:20 PM

Our most sincere condolences to Ila and Family on the passing of Arnold. He will be deeply missed but has left you with a life time of memories and great times. RIP Arnold

Condolence from Henny Morrissey on March 15th, 2026 1:43 PM

It was always a pleasure being in Arn’s company; may he rest in peace.

Condolence from Ruth Alton on March 15th, 2026 2:08 PM

Ila and family,My condolences.Many happy memories through the years.He will be missed but he is still always with you in spirit.

Condolence from Ken & Joan Agnew on March 15th, 2026 2:17 PM

What a wonderful man has left us, but not without fond memories of friendship through the church and Probus. Always ready to lend an ear and a hand when needed. He stressed the importance of family roots and memories at his recent talk at our Probus Club. An intelligent and caring person whom we are proud to call a friend. He will be missed.

Ken & Joan

Condolence from Karen and Randy Stanlake on March 15th, 2026 2:34 PM

We had the pleasure of working with Arn with his many years on the Safe Homes for Youth board . We appreciated his dedication and expertise . He sure loved his family and he will be missed. Sending our sincerest condolences to Ila, Suzanne and all the family

Condolence from Tracey Stanlake on March 15th, 2026 2:49 PM

I am deeply saddened to hear. Arnold will always be a huge part of my memories. He was always encouraging and supportive in the best of ways. I will never forgot the admiration I had when I watched how he always showed Illa that she was his world. I will miss him 💕❤️

Condolence from Ken Wood on March 15th, 2026 2:49 PM

Ila & family,
So sorry to hear of Arn’s passing.
I have fond memories of him as Superintendent visiting and supporting us at Madill.
Ken Wood

Condolence from Marylyn Taylor on March 15th, 2026 3:28 PM

I am very sorry to hear of Arnold’s passing. I enjoyed working with him for many years. May happy memories help you through this difficult time time.

Condolence from Allan Turner on March 15th, 2026 3:54 PM

My deepest to condolences to Ila, Dwayne, Suzanne, Lorrie, and the extended Mathers family clan. I’m sure that he will be missed by one and all. I have a million wonderful “Mathers” memories, and many of those include Arnold.

Condolence from Randall Oke on March 15th, 2026 3:54 PM

We were very sorry to hear of Arnold’s passing. Please accept our sincere condolences.

Suzanne, Brian, and your families — may you find comfort in the many memories you shared with him and in the stories that will continue to be told about his life. A father’s influence and presence remain long after he is gone, carried forward through family and the values he leaves behind.

Thinking of all of you during this difficult time and wishing you strength and peace in the days ahead.

With deepest sympathy,
Randy & Gail Oke

Condolence from Jeff O’Brien on March 15th, 2026 4:29 PM

Ila, Suzanne, Brian and the family. I had the good fortune of working alongside and getting to know Arn on a Habitat build in Exeter. He was definitely a man who liked to keep active. My sincere condolences to the entire family.

Condolence from Doug and Sharon Kilpatrick on March 15th, 2026 5:54 PM

Ila and family are hearts and prayers go out to you for the loss of Arnold.. I was just thinking of you both and the St Patrick’s day parties at Florida just this weekend and wondering about you both. We are so sorry for your loss and loss it is, as he was such a great guy.

Condolence from Teri Pearson on March 15th, 2026 8:09 PM

Dear Ila and family,

He will be missed and remembered for his humour and many stories.

Condolence from Janet Scrimgeour(nee Kerr) on March 15th, 2026 10:21 PM

As a principal, Mr. Mathers made you feel safe. It was easy to see he cared about all of the students, his staff and his school. I warmly respected him.
I have had the pleasure of reading a couple of his books, sharing his memories of being a child and the antics with growing up in Wingham.
He was the best principal I ever had and because of who he was as a human, I know he will be missed by many.
My condolences to his family and friends.

Condolence from Julianne Varley on March 16th, 2026 8:35 AM

Dear Mathers family,
Arn will always be remembered as a well respected member of our community.
I’ll never forget the look of sincerity and kindness he had on his face when he passed a donation through his car window as our group passed close to your Andrew St. home during the Terry Fox Run last year. Such a thoughtful gesture. It’s the little things.
Thinking of you all,
Julianne Varley

Condolence from Edith Lewis and family on March 16th, 2026 9:15 AM

IIa and families

Sorry for your loss of Arnold.
Cherish his memories during sad times.
Our condolences to you all.

Condolence from Brenda & Greg Dayman on March 16th, 2026 11:04 AM

Suzanne, Brian & Families
I’m sorry to see the passing of your Dad. thinking of You!
Deepest Sympathy

Condolence from Rob M. Evans on March 16th, 2026 11:20 AM

Habitat For Humanity Huron County:

Arn’s contributions to Habitat For Humanity have been immeasurable. Arn was our former Board Chair more than 10 years ago, and his energy drove many early successes. A terrific motivator and writer, and loved local history and shaping his community. Arne helped Habitat Huron County get our Donation truck, build several affordable homes in several towns throughout Huron County. Even when he wasn’t on our Board of Directors, Arn was a regular contributor to the cause of affordable housing in Huron County. Condolences to Arn and his loving family, and a sincere thank you for your care and service. Respectfully, Rob M. Evans Executive Director, Habitat for Humanity Huron County, and on behalf of Bill McAuslan our Board Chair, Bill Don (our former Chair), and the Habitat team

Condolence from Tom and Nancy Hartai on March 16th, 2026 11:22 AM

Ila and family
Please accept our heartfelt condolences at this difficult time.

Condolence from Michelle & David Smith on March 16th, 2026 12:20 PM

To the Mathers Family
You are in our thoughts and prayers during this time. Our deepest sympathies.

Condolence from Tom, Tracy Humphreys and family on March 16th, 2026 12:32 PM

Ila and family

My deepest condolences. May fond memories be with you always. He will be missed.

Condolence from Anita and Bob Cooper on March 16th, 2026 2:13 PM

Our sincere condolences to the Mathers family. Bob enjoyed golfing with Arnold at the Exeter Golf Club and we remember our social visits with Arnold and IIa in Florida.

Condolence from Jane Silcock Wilson on March 16th, 2026 2:33 PM

So sad to hear about Arnold’s passing. He was very supportive in my teaching career.
Ila and family, You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Condolence from Sue Insley Wilson on March 16th, 2026 3:05 PM

Ila and family, heartfelt condolences on Arn’s passing. He was a friendly man. I have one of his books. He was a good principal. Cherish your precious memories. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Condolence from Marybelle Cranston on March 16th, 2026 4:36 PM

My sympathy to children and families, to sisters Ev. What wonderful memories you have

Condolence from Jim & Ruth Axtmann on March 16th, 2026 5:04 PM

Ila and family
sincerest sympathy–Arnold was a great principal and educator.

Condolence from Helene Brousseau on March 16th, 2026 6:07 PM

My deepest sympathies Ila and family.
I had the chance to meet the couple in Citrus Wood in Lakeland Fl.
They were very involved in that community. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

Condolence from Bonnie Sitter on March 16th, 2026 6:40 PM

Sincere condolences to all the Mathers family.
Arnold will be fondly remembered as an educator and volunteer. His stories live on in his books!

Condolence from MaryJane Taylor on March 16th, 2026 6:46 PM

Ila, Dwayne, Nathalie, Suzanne and families…
My Sympathy in your loss of Arn… The lovely pictures show a blessed life…May all your fond memories help as you grieve his loss…

Condolence from William Croker on March 16th, 2026 7:35 PM

Dear Ila and family
Our deepest condolences on the passing of Arn. I have many fond memories of him working at the school board. May you cherish your memories and let them give you peace!

Condolence from Cheryl Peach on March 16th, 2026 7:44 PM

Dear Ila and Family,
I am so sorry to hear of Arn’s passing. What a legacy he leaves with many wonderful memories and a life of care and commitment to family and community. I have fond memories of Arn as my Superintendent when I was a young Area Resource Teacher coming to Huron County. We had great discussions during his time presenting on panels at principal courses. I fondly remember a couple staff parties at the log house outside of Wingham and the tree farm after Arn retired. Thinking of you all at this difficult time.

Condolence from Gary Coursey Betty Rean on March 17th, 2026 6:29 AM

Our deepest sympathies. We will miss seeing new books and seeing him help at the theatre and attending the shows

Condolence from Cathie (Sim) Alexander on March 17th, 2026 8:43 AM

My sincere condolences to Arnold’s family. As one of many former students at Huron Centennial, he was a great principal, always friendly and knowledgeable. He also got us through the great storm of 1971 and made us feel safe. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this sad time.

Condolence from George and Lois Godbolt on March 17th, 2026 9:37 AM

Please accept our condolences to Ila and family. We found that when Arnold expressed an opinion it was always wise and well thought out. He enjoyed his family, his friends and being out in the fresh air whenever possible.

Condolence from Liz Herman on March 17th, 2026 9:53 AM

Dear Ila and Family: I was so sorry to read of Arnold’s passing. Thinking of you at this sad time. What a wonderful person he was!!

Condolence from Robert & Shannon Watson and families on March 17th, 2026 10:08 AM

Suzanne, Bernie, Ila and Families
We are saddened to hear of Arn’s passing, a true gentleman that would listen first. I recall many ball tournaments and camping together. Arn & Ila were the “camper awning string lights judges”
He will be missed.

Condolence from Becky Mercer on March 17th, 2026 10:18 AM

We are so sorry to hear of Arn’s passing. Our deepest sympathies. Cherish all your wonderful memories. You are in our thoughts.

Brian, Becky, Carly, Cayley & Cullen Mercer

Condolence from Shirley & Ross Carter on March 17th, 2026 10:21 AM

It is hard to believe that such an energetic and all round great guy has left this earthly domain but I know he is helping somewhere else. I got to know Arnold as my principal at Huron Centennial. He was the best. For 19 years he guided us though all sorts of educational events. He was the organizer of many educational trips to enlarge our knowledge of the world around us so we could bring this back to our students. He was kind and understanding, treating us not only as teachers and students but also like a very special family. Everyone was in his care and my family was especially aware of that when a very sad happening took place in our lives.
I know Ila and family and friends are going to miss him greatly but he has left them with a ton of wonderful memories and great times.
This world needs more Arnolds.

Condolence from Robert and Alma Westlake on March 17th, 2026 10:22 AM

Ila and the Mathers Family;

Arn’s contribution and dedication to his family, education, and community will be remembered. He was a man who endeared himself to to challenge and effort.

Condolence from Gord Cupskey on March 17th, 2026 12:58 PM

I’m so sorry for your loss, Arnold was a great guy. Hugs to you Ila.

Condolence from Carol LeBeau on March 17th, 2026 2:05 PM

I was very fortunate to have Arn as my principal for eighteen years of my teaching career. He knew exactly how to get the best from each of his teachers and he helped us to be an extremely close-knit staff. I remember what a sad day it was when he left us at Huron Centennial to work at the Board Office.
He touched many lives in a positive way and he will not be forgotten.
My sympathy, Ila, to you and your beautiful family. May Arn rest in peace!

Condolence from Rick & Carol Whiteley on March 17th, 2026 4:45 PM

I have so many good memories of Arn both professionally and personally. He was always a friend first. As I read some of the thoughts people have shared, they echoed a sense that I always felt. Arn saw the good in people first and was somehow able to convey that to those around him.
He will be missed. Condolences to his family

Condolence from Bill & Darlene Hooper on March 17th, 2026 5:27 PM

Our sincere condolences to Ila and family.
Cherish all of your wonderful memories.
Thinking of you all.

Condolence from Marg Prout on March 17th, 2026 5:43 PM

Ila and family…..
My sincere condolences are with you all during this sad time. I have known Arn and family for many years. I still recall the morning driving to Clinton and my car veered off #4 highway and into a snow filled ditch, nearing missing a hydro pole. Many thanks to Arn and Larry Taylor who were also on their way to work, as they came to our rescue and gave Pat and I a ride to work.
May his memory be a treasure

Condolence from Ralph and Denise Batten on March 17th, 2026 6:02 PM

Ila, Dwayne, Lorrie, Suzanne, and families,

Our deepest condolences to all of you on Arnold’s passing. He truly had a lasting impact on so many people.

Ralph really enjoyed looking through the first yearbook from Usborne Public School that Arn had lent him. It brought back so many wonderful memories of the good old days.

Thinking of you all during this difficult time.

Rest in piece Arn

Condolence from Mark Heimrich on March 18th, 2026 4:41 AM

Ila, Dwayne & Debbie, Lorrie & Nathalie, Suzanne & Brian & families;

Our sincere condolences in the loss of Arnold. I first met “Mr. Mathers” as a very young child. He & Ila were fellow educators and dear friends of my parents, Ron & Marilyn Heimrich. I remember at least one fun trip to the Mathers family farm. It was nice to get to know Arnold (& Ila) in my adult years, especially after my move back to Exeter in 1988. I had many, many good chats with Arnold over the years. It was always a pleasure to bump into Arn & Ila and catch up. Together, as they usually were, Arn & Ila were always very supportive of various milestones celebrated by my parents. That was always appreciated. His career, community involvement, philanthropy and volunteering for many good causes has made the greater South Huron/Huron County area a better place.
“I’ll always remember” my last visit with Arnold. I was happy to share the video and pictures with Arn & Ila, of the two dancing, as Crystal Gage sang that well known Ann Murray song “Could I Have This Dance, for the rest of my life….”. That was in Crediton last November. How beautifully appropriate after Arn had just proudly shared with the audience how many years they had been married!
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this time. My Mom, Marilyn, also wishes to extend her sympathy to you all.
Rest in peace Arnold, well done, you get an A+.

Mark & Julie Heimrich, Sarah, Scott & Spencer & Marilyn Heimrich.

Condolence from Sharon Passmore on March 18th, 2026 8:44 AM

Ila & families, so sorry to hear of Arnold’s passing. May you keep your fond memories close to your heart and hope it gives you peace and strength in the difficult days ahead.

Condolence from Bunny Peacock on March 18th, 2026 4:21 PM

So very sorry to hear of Arn’s passing … our deepest sympathy to Ila and family from
the Peacock family, Bunny, Dave, Debra, Anne, Lloyd & Marilyn

Condolence from Sandra Newton on March 18th, 2026 4:36 PM

Ila and families,
Arn will be missed by so many people. He had an outgoing personality which drew people to him. It is sad for us to say goodbye.

Condolence from Glen Wright on March 18th, 2026 5:27 PM

Dear Ila and family,

We were so sorry to hear the sad news about Arnold. We have so many fond memories of the Mathers’ family. Arnold was so very supportive of my ministry in Exeter United. His ffriendship, his time on the church coumcil and as chair of the worship committee were treasured gifts. The times we had with your faily still bring us joy: the pig roasts at the farm, the cottage at the Bend, survivinging the great snow storm with the children snowed in at the school and so much more. We remember all with such gratitude. We send our love in this difficult time.
God’s blessing.
Pat and Glen Wright

Condolence from Ronald Patterson on March 18th, 2026 7:26 PM

IIa, my condolences to you and your family on the passing of Arnold.

Ron Patteron

Condolence from Jerry and Alice MacLean on March 18th, 2026 9:00 PM

To those who loved Arn, we send our condolences.
Arn made his mark with most everyone he met because his casual, yet positive way with people.
We experienced this with him and Ila at a dinner, just shortly before he departed from this earthly visit here on earth.
Arnold was ready for his new heavenly chapter, as he explained his situation to us (their new neighbors) quite openly. We appreciated his honesty…. but then he was a very honest man, wanting to make everyone around him comfortable.
Ila and Family, when you speak his name often, think of him with a smile or even a big chuckle….It helps the ache in your heart.
RIP ….job well done Arn!

Condolence from Paul Pressey on March 18th, 2026 10:14 PM

Sending my sincere condolences to all your family and friends . I attended Huron Centennial from 1975 – 81 and Arnold was present at our 25th reunion and again at the Huron Centennial which I believe was the 50th anniversary of Huron Centennial , a long legacy in education and particularly with HCPS . HCPS is a very special place . Thank-you for sharing your photos of a full life and well lived both professionally and personally

Condolence from Rick Hundey on March 19th, 2026 6:35 AM

Dear Illa, Suzanne and families,
My thoughts are with you. I know you will hold wonderful memories of Arn close to your hearts and you will find comfort there.
Rick Hundey

Condolence from Dave brereton on March 19th, 2026 10:49 AM

Patty and I wanted to share our condolences to arn and his family. We both admired and respected arn as a leader during our times with both Huron county and amdsb careers. He was so supportive and kind. We felt he was amazing during our tenure. Patty remembers teaching some of his wonderful family aswell. We are out of the country otherwise we’d have been to his funeral. Dave and Patty brereton

Condolence from Judy Jeffery-Chambers on March 19th, 2026 10:53 AM

Ila and family, Please accept our deepest condolences on the loss of Arnold. Arnold and our Father, Spencer, were a great team as they brought leadership to the staff and students of Huron Centennial when it opened and for years to come. We valued the times that we got to know your family and appreciated the meals that we shared. Please know that our family remembers yours fondly and are thinking of you as you mourn. Judy, Ruth, and Bill Jeffery

Condolence from Jim and Verla Russell on March 19th, 2026 12:09 PM

Dear Ila and Family:
Our deepest sympathy to you on Arnold’s passing.
Our prayers and thoughts are with you at this sad, difficult time.
Arnold was a very compassionate man.
Jim enjoyed playing golf with him.
May he rest in peace.

Condolence from Julie (Easterbrook) Dragich on March 19th, 2026 2:18 PM

From Julie (Easterbrook) and Sam Dragich, Windsor
It is with deep sadness that we share our condolences with you, Ila, and the Mathers family. We recall that Arn was a resourceful and abundantly talented proud Canadian … a superb story teller and author. He always had the welcome mat out–and it was never more appreciated than when he included my new husband, Sam (now 31+ years) into his circle of friends. I particularly enjoyed our trip to Spain and the many staff excursions when I taught for him…as well as the good times we had in Wiarton and at the farmhouse outside of Wingham. Similarly, I will always remember the happy times we had in years gone by. Rest in peace, Arn,
Your old friends, Julie and Sam

Condolence from Jean Morris on March 19th, 2026 3:41 PM

Ila, and families. We just finished reading Arnold’s last article in the Rural Voice Feb.16 and is so hard to believe he is gone-sorry for your loss! Byron always treasured his book From Ireland to Queens Bush and always marked his article on cover of Rural Voice so we could read it . He sure made good use of his talents! Arnold leaves many good memories for those who new him and many readers as well! Condolences from your teaching friend Jean Morris, Byron and family

Condolence from Florence & Don Keillor on March 19th, 2026 3:56 PM

Dear Ila,
We were sorry to hear of Arnold’s passing. We have many happy memories of you both, professionally and socially during our 45 years in Huron County. Keeping you in our thoughts and prayers.
Flo & Don

Condolence from Donna & Rob Middelkamp ( Johnston ) on March 20th, 2026 2:00 PM

Our Deepest Sympathy to Arnold’s Family on his passing. He was kind man. We will keep you all in our thoughts. I worked for Arnold’s mom for a while and she was a very sweet lady. Sending hugs to all. RIP ARNOLD !!!!

Condolence from Dianna Kiss on March 20th, 2026 2:29 PM

To the entire Mather’s clan,

Sorry to hear of Arnold’s passing.
We all have many fond memories of Arnold at our family gatherings. He was the life of the party, a gifted story teller and a strategic card player (solo).
Mom & Dad enjoyed travelling with him and Ila to various locations over the years. They have many memories of those vacations. The one story that Dad shares is Arnold and some “chicken or duck foot” soup that Arnold had in Ecuador. If I recall correctly, the feet were actually in the soup and after finding that, Arnold didn’t finish his bowl.
Peter and I were honored to have him as the emcee at our wedding over 40 years ago. He did a great job as we expected he would. That was right up his alley.
Arnold liked to talk farming with Kevin. Although he shared lots of tips with Kevin, I’m not so certain that many of them were followed.
Arnold led a long and rewarding life; full of fun, hard work, adventure and family. He will be missed by many and our memories will keep him alive in our hearts for an eternity.
Rest in Peace Arnold, it is well deserved.

Dianna on behalf of the Leudke Clan

Condolence from Cheryl Jefferson on March 20th, 2026 4:23 PM

Dear Ila and family
Arnold’s optimism and good humour will be missed. My thoughts are with you.
Cheryl Jefferson

Condolence from Pam and Brian Gillespie on March 21st, 2026 10:39 AM

Dear Deb and Dwayne and Family:
So sorry to hear of you Dad’s passing – may he rest in peace. May all your wonderful memories help you through this difficult time.
Our sincere condolences,
Pam and Brian

Condolence from Gwen Patterson on March 21st, 2026 11:19 AM

Ila and family,
I was so saddened to learn of Arn’s passing, having known you both for so many years through our connections in education, (lesser so) in sports (curling). Arn carried his passion for learning and helping into his retirement. He will be missed by so many. Please accept our deepest sympathies at this sad time.
Gwen and John Patterson

Condolence from Shelley & Tim Sullivan on March 21st, 2026 1:25 PM

Dear Ila & Family, here it is the day before the funeral and we’re trying to figure out how you put a life time of memories into a few sentences. We loved that Arnold was always the same, always happy to see you and happy to spend time with you. It made you joyful just to be in his company. Arn loved his family, his friends and oh, how he loved life. He always found something interesting to do and loved to share in everything with his friends. One of the most gracious, kind and generous people we will ever know. Come summer, we are going to miss Arn calling us, and saying come on over for “happy hour,” we’ll barbecue and play some solo. The times we had in Florida & at the log cabin are some of our most cherished memories. We’ll miss travelling with Arn & and you, Ila. Some of the best trips and times we ever had. Arnold was a bright light that is now missing in our world, but we are so grateful that we were part of, and that we were able to share in Arnold’s life.

Rest in Peace Arn. You will not be forgotten. Shelley & Tim Sullivan

Condolence from Rick &” Beth McGee on March 21st, 2026 1:37 PM

The world has lost a wonderful humanitarian, that will be greatly missed. Arn’s kindness, compassion, and unwavering dedication touched countless lives. He was always ready to listen, to comfort, and to uplift those in need. He lived with a deep commitment to help others, offering support, and hope for the future.
Beyond Arn’s humanitarian work, he was a special friend and cohort,
bringing warmth and smiles to all who knew him.
Although Arn is gone, his legacy of kindness and love will live on in the many lives he touched.
Our sincere sympathy goes out to Ila, their children, Dwayne, Lorrie and Suzanne, and their families.
May we all carry forward the compassion Arn shared freely to others.

Condolence from Glenda Shaw on March 21st, 2026 5:21 PM

Arnold will be missed in CW, he was a wonderful neighbor and a very kind man.

Condolence from Joanne Ashley on March 21st, 2026 7:22 PM

Ila and family,

Please accept our deepest condolences on the sad passing of Arnold, your dear loved one

On behalf of the Ahrens family, the Robertsons, myself & my kids I wanted to share that we all enjoyed our visits to your farm and as well, we treasured the time & memories made during your visits to the Ahren’s farm where many friends & family members from the Kaufmann family & Ahrens family would often gather. I know for certain that Jean, Walter, Dorothy, Ian, Kananda, Clarence and myself appreciated the time you & Arnold spent on the farm sharing stories, visiting, & as well, enjoying a fresh home cooked meal together. Again very sorry for your loss & thinking of you all at this difficult time. You are in our thoughts & prayers, Joanne Ashley

Condolence from Brenda Pincombe on March 21st, 2026 7:49 PM

Suzanne, Brian and families…
Your dad had such an influence on my teaching life and career! I am forever grateful for his support and guidance.
He was always such a good humoured fella too…enjoyed his social life, his travels and most of all his family. And last but not least the shenanigans of teenage girls!
I am deeply sorry for your loss but also know he lived and loved a wonderful life. Hugs to you all❤️

Brenda

Condolence from Bob and Helen Coates on March 21st, 2026 9:12 PM

We send our sincere condolences to all of the Mather’s family for the loss of a dear husband, father, grandfather, great grandfather and brother. We remember Arnold as a wonderful man who accomplished so much as an educator and his great involvement in the his church and community. He was a hard worker and a super organizer who could motivate people. One of his many talents was being the author of several enjoyable books . His caring and friendly manner will always be remembered.. Bob enjoyed being on the fall banquet committee with Arn and he motivated me to write my life story. Thanks go to Arnold for all he accomplished.

Condolence from Blaine and Leisa Stephenson on March 22nd, 2026 11:20 AM

Dear Ila and family,
We were saddened to hear of the passing of Arnold. We have fond memories of him as an educator and an active community member. Please accept our sincere condolences.
Blaine and Leisa Stephenson

Condolence from Brian Sheila Brooks on March 22nd, 2026 12:48 PM

Our deepest condolences to you and your family. Take care of each other at this difficult time.

Condolence from Joe and Linda Pasher on March 22nd, 2026 12:50 PM

Our hearts are broken at the loss of Arnold. He will be truly missed. ,

Condolence from M.J. Chanyi on March 22nd, 2026 2:27 PM

Suzanne, Ila & families, sorry to hear about Arn’s death, He was an incredibly accomplished man. Great sense of humor. He will be missed.

Condolence from M.J. Chanyi on March 22nd, 2026 2:27 PM

Suzanne, Ila & families, sorry to hear about Arn’s death, He was an incredibly accomplished man. Great sense of humor. He will be missed.

Condolence from Rob & Lisa Elder on March 22nd, 2026 8:10 PM

So sorry to hear of Arnolds passing. Arnold and Ila were good neighbors to my grandmother (Mickey Bridges) for many years. Often remember seeing and talking to them as I was growing up. He will be missed.

Condolence from Bill Weber on March 23rd, 2026 7:16 AM

My condolences to Arn’s family, it was a privledge to have worked with Arn on a number of committees . He was a very creative Principal and his return to a one room school theme was a great experience for all the students

Condolence from Glenn & Donna Raynard on March 23rd, 2026 10:44 AM

Sorry for your family’s loss. Our kids always enjoyed Arnold when we would go for a christmas tree at the farm! He made it an memorable experience.

Condolence from Katharina Coolman on March 23rd, 2026 5:52 PM

Kathy Coolman
Sincere condolences to Ila, Suzanne and families. My thoughts and prayers are with you
at this most difficult time.

Condolence from Mary Moffatt on March 24th, 2026 10:27 PM

My sincere condolences go to Ila and all of Arnold’s family at this sad time. Arn was a dedicated educator, humanitarian and family man who always had time to help someone else. He was a man of many talents – educator, farmer, tour guide, story teller and writer, expert fund raiser and a dedicated family man. It was a pleasure to work with him when he was principal at Huron Centennial School and later at the Board Office.
He was as active in his retirement at Citrus Woods in Florida as he was when he was working. He organized events and gave a helping hand to everyone. He leaves behind a myriad of kind deeds, a wonderful family and thousands of friends who benefited from his kindness and generosity.

Condolence from Jane & Rob Lavergne on March 30th, 2026 3:57 PM

We want to send our deepest sympathies to Ila and family.
Arn will be missed by so many people.
He was a great friend, so many wonderful memories.
Part of our CW family.
He will be forever in our hearts.

Condolence from Lisa Hamather and David Grant on March 31st, 2026 10:23 AM

Suzanne, Brian and families,

So sorry to hear the passing of your Dad. May all the great memories of him comfort you. Thinking of you!

Condolence from Ivan and Brenda Hern on April 1st, 2026 1:57 PM

Ila, Dwayne & Deb and family – we were sorry to hear of Arn’s (Mr. Mathers) passing. He certainly lived life to the fullest. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Condolence from Janey Woodley on May 18th, 2026 5:37 PM

I’m so sorry for this loss to your family, Lorrie Your father sounds like he was a remarkable man. I’m sure he was proud to know the apple didn’t fall far from the tree.

Condolence from Joanne and Sheldon Boyce on May 19th, 2026 5:13 PM

Lorrie, our deepest sympathy to you and your family for the loss of your father. What a beautiful life he lived.

Condolence from Jimma Byrd on May 22nd, 2026 1:42 PM

Lorrie , it sounds as if your father was a very loving and giving man. I know you will miss him. My thoughts are with you.

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