HAY: James “Jim” of Ilderton
Posted By Haskett Funeral Homes On August 28, 2026 @ 1:43 PM In Lucan, Obituary | 31 Comments
James “Jim” Hay passed away comfortably on Thursday, August 27, 2026, with his daughter, Shauna, and son-in-law, Jeffery, by his side. It was a peaceful moment with doors open to the gardens at Jessica’s House Hospice in Exeter where he was surrounded by the gentle August breeze. Jim celebrated his 80th birthday in July by enjoying his favourite – vanilla cake with white icing. He was an avid hockey fan of his cherished grandchildren Channer, Calleigh, and Clarkson Keene. He liked to sit near the glass wearing his Ilderton Jets jacket with PAPA on the sleeve while chatting away to other fans. He rarely missed a game and he definitely enjoyed every moment! He will be remembered for his giving nature (especially of treats!), sense of humour and stylish ways. He could usually be found wearing a cashmere sweater or tropical shirt and always – his signature aviator sunglasses.
Dear brother of Laura Beamish (Doug) and Curtis Hay (Christine). Uncle of Micheal Hay, Meaghan McKillop, Marci Ivanic, Catherine Beamish, Christina Beamish, Holly Lyons, Joe Lyons, Emily Williams, Chloe Brown and their families. Fondly remembered by Sue Hay.
A private family Celebration of Life will be held.
Donations to Jessica’s House in memory of Jim would be appreciated.
Come Visit Me…
In the wind wrestling through the leaves on the trees.
In a gentle breeze that blows through a field of wheat.
In the blossoms of the flowers in the garden. In the buzzing of the bees as they gather nectar.
In the colourful wings of the butterfly as it flutters on by.
In the sweet songs of the sparrow I hear in the trees.
Come visit me in the crackling flame of a glowing fire.
The steam on top of a fresh cup of coffee.
The shiver that takes hold in the crisp cold arena air as the puck drops on the ice.
A flickering flame of a candle as it is lit in our home.
The warm glow of the Christmas tree at night when all the other lights are out.
The gentle playing of holiday songs on the piano.
Visit me in the reblooming of one of your treasured orchids.
Send me messages and pictures in the clouds.
Shine your light through a golden sunset,
and know until we meet again that I’m grateful for every sign, every laugh and every moment we spent together.
I am forever honoured to have been your daughter.
~ Shauna ~
Condolences for the family of “HAY: James “Jim” of Ilderton”
We are so sorry to hear that your dad passed away. My family and I are thinking of you, Jeff and your family during this sad time and sending you hugs and strength. May all the wonderful memories of your dad help you today, tomorrow and always.
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Love, Charlene, Arnie, Luke, Jordann & Carley
I’m so sorry for your loss Shauna.
Rich and I are so sorry for your loss 💐
Shauna and Jeff I’m so sorry for your loss. Shauna I absolutely love that poem for your dad. Sending you the biggest hugs and may he rest in peace.
Shauna, Jeff, Channer, Calleigh, and Clarkson . . . We are so very sorry for your loss. Your dad / papa were very dear to you all and he will be sorely missed. We send our hugs and deepest condolences. ❌⭕️
So sorry for your loss. Sincere condolences to the family.May special memories of your Dad give you comfort and strength at this difficult time. Hugs.
Dear Shauna, Jeff, and family,
Thinking of you lots at this sad time. I hope that the stories you tell and memories you share of your dad will bring you all comfort in all of the days ahead. Sending love and hugs.
Condolences
Howard and Mary Lampe
Dear Shauna and Jeff and family,
I am so sorry for your loss. Remembering you all in prayer at this sad time.
Rev. Sheila
Laura and Curtis and families, I am so very sorry to hear of Jim’s passing. I hope you have many happy memories of your lives together.
Ken and I are so sorry to hear of Jim’s passing. Our condolences to you and your family.
Shauna and family,
Our deepest condolences to you and your family as you navigate the sad passing of your dear father. Jim enjoyed chatting farming with him at the famous Ross Christmas parties.
I am sure he was leaning over your shoulder as you put pen to paper with this loving tribute to him. Feel him in the wind…and watch for the Signs that he will send you and find Peace in them.
Condolences Sue
Mary and Jim Colbert and family
Shauna,
I am so sorry to read the passing of your Dad.
My thoughts are with you at this difficult time.
Much love
Bev Dayman
It is with deep sorrow to the family with the loss of a great dad and grandad who will always be remembered.
Shauna, Jeff, Sue and family,
So very sorry about the loss of your father, ex-husband and grandfather. I know he has left lots of fond memories!
Bev Toy
Shauna and Family,
I am so sorry to hear about your loss.
I have such fond memories of Jim! His mischievous smile, his sense of humour, his kind heart and his love for his family. I know how much he will be missed but also know he is watching over you all. Sending so much love, Leslie Mitchell Assini and Family.
Shauna and family, I am sorry for your loss. Hopefully turning all of your good memories into treasures will help you through these tough times. Sending my deepest condolences. Shirley Stewart
Shauna, Jeffery and family:
Deepest Sympathies from Anne and Gary Koehler. Jim’s neighbors from across the street.
Sue, Shauna, Jeff and family
My condolences in the loss of your dear family member, Jim.
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Dear Shauna & Jeff
Our condolences to you and your family. Archie and I had many of laughs over the years with your dad sharing stories and good times.
Rest in peace Jim
Sending lots of hugs💕
Archie & Cherylann
My condolences Shauna and family on your loss.
Beautiful tribute to to your Dad. He will be greatly missed.
Love,
Colin and the Grace family
Shauna, you and Leslie were born four days apart, and our families have always been intertwined together over the years.
Your dad was a wonderful father, grandfather, and friend, and we cherish many special memories. Jim could be counted on to give wise advice and counsel. He had a dry wit and a delightful sense of humor. I am sure he is on the other side enjoying great conversation with John Mitchell!
Sending you and your family lots of love and hugs!
Dear Shauna, Jeff, Sue and children.
Oh my, I am so sorry to hear of your Dad’s passing. 🥹. He was a good neighbour. He loved you so and was so proud of his grandchildren. Wishing all of you love, peace, and comfort, Dawn and Franco Paron XXOO
Shauna & Family,
I’m so sorry for your loss. I have many fond memories of watching your Dad’s Betamax recordings of the most popular teen shows, your Dad unloading the dishwasher for you and our trip to Dominican!
RIP
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family🤍
Dear Shauna, Jeff and family
We sure are thinking of you and sending all our love and condolences.
Big hugs during this difficult time,
Linda
Dear Shauna and Family;
We are so very sorry about your Dads passing. John grew up with your dad and Uncle Curtis back in the 50’s and 60’s and we both have fond memories of fun times at the cottage as well as our trip to the Dominican with him.
Your poem to your Dad was so beautiful and I know he was so proud of you and your family.
Love John and Heidi❤️
Shauna & family,
So sorry to hear of your Dads passing. Thinking of you, and sending you strength & hugs.
Dear Shauna, Jeff and family
Thinking of you during this difficult time. Sorry for your loss. Keep memories close to your heart.
Laura, Curtis and Family
So very sorry to hear of Jim’s passing. So many fond memories being in the Hay’s household. Jim was always so kind to Laura and I in our teenage years. Condolences from our entire family.
I loved this guy—he and I were great friends, and he always had a smile for me every time we got together. We were trap shooting buddies at the London Hunt Club for many years.
Jim will always be in my thoughts.
Jim keep shooting 25 straight, like you used to! God bless you,
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Shauna and family. My condolences to you. What a beautiful poem in honour of your dad Shauna.