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AVERY: Bernie C. of Lucan

Posted By Haskett Funeral Home On May 14, 2025 @ 6:13 PM In Lucan,Obituary | 59 Comments

AVERY: Bernie C. of Lucan

It is with heavy hearts that we announce the sudden passing of Bernie at his home on Tuesday, May 13, 2025 at the age of 85. Beloved husband of Margaret (Ellery) Avery for 65 years. Cherished father of Bernie W. and Maureen Avery, Dan Avery and Maureen Leong, and Belinda and Brad Greaves. Adored grandfather of Bernie P. and Katie Avery, Creighton Avery and D’Arcy Langlois, Steven and Shikha Avery; Darren Avery and Wes Elmes, Lisa and Matt Gillan, Craig and Sarah Avery; Avery and Hamilton Baker-Greaves, and Megan and Peter Dueck. Great-grandfather of Hank, Tommy; Neena; Ethan, Brock; Elliot; Millie, and Hailey. Dear brother-in-law of Barb Avery. Fondly remembered by his many nieces and nephews. Predeceased by his siblings and siblings-in-law Jim and Wilma Avery, Ken Avery, Kay and Don Whitborn, and Doreen Ellery and his parents William and Ellen (Whalen) Avery.

Bernie was a proud lifelong resident of Lucan and served his community for several years as a member of the village council. A skilled carpenter and entrepreneur, he was also a devoted family man who took great joy in being part of his children’s and grandchildren’s lives. He loved camping and travelling the islands with his wife Margaret and their close group of friends. He will be dearly missed by all who knew him, especially those who looked forward to seeing him on his cherished daily drives around town.

Visitation will be held at Haskett Funeral Home, 223 Main Street Lucan on Thursday, May 22nd from 5 – 7 PM. Bernie’s funeral service will be held the following day on Friday, May 23rd at the funeral home at 11 AM. Interment St. James Cemetery, Clandeboye

Donations to Diabetes Canada in Bernie’s memory would be appreciated by the family.


Condolences for the family of “AVERY: Bernie C. of Lucan”

Condolence from Marty &Karen Van Praet on May 14th, 2025 6:37 PM

Wishing you peace at this difficult time. We will miss him dearly

Condolence from Leslie Patterson on May 14th, 2025 7:38 PM

I spent a lot of time during my teenage years at the Avery farm . Bernie and Marg always made me feel welcome. The long walk down the driveway was always sobering. He will be missed .

Condolence from Jeff & Teresa Young on May 14th, 2025 8:15 PM

Sorry to hear of Bernie’s passing He was a fixture around Lucan always knew what was going on Our deepest condolences to Marg and the whole family

Condolence from Jeff & Teresa Young on May 14th, 2025 8:16 PM

Sorry to hear of Bernie’s passing He was a fixture around Lucan always knew what was going on Our deepest condolences to Marg and the whole family

Condolence from Janet & Hank Arnold on May 14th, 2025 8:19 PM

The Avery Family,

Our deepest sympathy during this very difficult time. Please find peace with all of your cherished memories.

Condolence from Jason Hulzebos on May 14th, 2025 10:01 PM

Sorry for your guys loss jen it’s Jason Hulzebos from Blyth,Ontario Jenn.

Condolence from Deryl & Carole Dueck on May 14th, 2025 10:50 PM

Our heartfelt condolences go out to you and your family during this time of sorrow.

Condolence from Kathy Holland on May 15th, 2025 7:03 AM

So sorry to hear the passing of your Dad

Condolence from Roy & MaryJane van Kasteren on May 15th, 2025 7:31 AM

Sorry to hear of the loss of Bernie, he was a great community man, making painted Christmas signs for the public, we still have ours and set them up at Christmas time! Bernie was always smiling, he had a great outlook on life! Keep the great memories of Bernie in your hearts at this sad time!

Condolence from Tammy MacDonald on May 15th, 2025 7:44 AM

Marg and family. My sincerest heartfelt condolences to you. Bernie was a great man, and a great friend to our family, the Molenkamps and Jason and I. This comes as a shock to me, I had visited not too long ago. I’m so sorry for your loss, which is also a great loss to the comunity as welll. Sending all my love to you Marg. ❤️❤️

Condolence from Joanne and Dave Walzack on May 15th, 2025 7:48 AM

Belinda and your family

I am so so sorry to hear of the loss of your dad. I will miss his wave when he drives by. Our thoughts are with all of you at this sad time.

Condolence from Alex Westman on May 15th, 2025 8:14 AM

My sincere condolences to the Avery family

Condolence from Josh Molenkamp on May 15th, 2025 9:26 AM

Marg, I am so sorry for your loss. My heartfelt condolences go out to you and your family. Bernie was an amazing man and I will miss him. I remember many days working with you and Bernie when I was a kid, and all the days going swimming in the pool ❤️💔😢😪 Much love, thoughts and prayers to you Marg.

Condolence from Nancy Vandergulik on May 15th, 2025 9:34 AM

Condolences to the Avery family. Thinking of you all at this difficult time.

Condolence from Larry Smith Sr. on May 15th, 2025 10:02 AM

My deepest condolences Marg & family he will be missed by many

Condolence from Larry Lewis on May 15th, 2025 10:28 AM

Marg and Family

Sorry to hear of Bernie’s passing. Please accept our condolences and keep your memories close to your heart.

Larry and Lynda Lewis

Condolence from Jim and Helen Hearn on May 15th, 2025 10:43 AM

Our sincere sympathy to all Bernie’s loved ones. Lucan has lost another good one. Jim really appreciated Bernie’s truck wash. Bernie would alert Jim when there was going to be a shut down so that he could get his truck in before.
Our thoughts are with you at this sad time.
Jim and Helen

Condolence from Margaret DeLong. (lady fiddler) on May 15th, 2025 11:32 AM

So sorry Margaret and your family. Had the nicest smile.
Sure will miss him at the music jams. Love and hugs Margaret.

Condolence from Margaret Watt on May 15th, 2025 11:38 AM

Belinda and family
My sincere sympathy to you all at this difficult time. Cherish your memories, Thinking of you

Condolence from Troy and Angela McLaughlin on May 15th, 2025 11:59 AM

Marg and family, we’re so sorry to hear the news about Bernie passing. We’ve always been fond of him and enjoyed his feisty attitude. We’ll miss him.

Condolence from Don and Diane williams on May 15th, 2025 12:36 PM

Mar g and Family. So sorry to hear of your loss. Please accept our sincere condolences to you and your entire family

Condolence from Cherie Edwards on May 15th, 2025 12:39 PM

Sorry to hear of your lose. Thinking of you and your family. Take care

Condolence from Allan & Elaine Ryan on May 15th, 2025 1:31 PM

Our sincere sympathy to the family we will miss you and Marg at the jams

Condolence from Paul Revington on May 15th, 2025 1:31 PM

My deepest condolences go out to Marg and the Avery family. Bernie was sure well- liked and respected in the community and will be missed.

Condolence from John and Sandy Ulch on May 15th, 2025 3:01 PM

Katie, Bernie, Hank and Thomas

We send our sympathy with the passing of your Grandpa.

Condolence from Dave Pocock & Family. on May 15th, 2025 3:43 PM

My sincerest condolences to the Avery family. It seems like Bernie was always out and about, looking out for the neighbourhood. Always a kind smile, a fixture of our community. His legacy lives on in you all.

Condolence from DAVIVD& SHAREN NEWMAN on May 15th, 2025 4:46 PM

We are so sorry to hear of Bernie s passing . Lucan will not be the same without him

Condolence from Hilda & Archie Appelman on May 15th, 2025 5:30 PM

we will miss him so much-Arch and him spent a lot of time together over the years. I remember working for Bernie and Marg-painting all those huge yard displays-fun times-later on painting the wooden mobiles-watching the woodstove “blow” at any given moment. Hearing how Arch and Bernie would dare each other to get in the pool every spring at 65 degrees f! Just sitting and talking with him after swimming in his pool-so many good memories over the years! I couldn’t make it to visitation-I am way too sick-don’t want to pass it on to anybody-Please know that our thoughts are with all of you at this time-take care of each other.

Condolence from Wayne and Pam Hall on May 15th, 2025 5:36 PM

Marg, Belinda, Bernie, Dan and families. I am sorry to hear of Bernie’s passing. Please accept our condolences. Bernie will be missed throughout the community he called home for many years. He will be missed. RIP.

Condolence from Bill & Bonnie Lee on May 15th, 2025 7:04 PM

With much love and sympathy as you remember a husband, father, grandfather & great-grandfather. Know that we are thinking of each of you. Love from Bill & Bonnie

Condolence from Bill & Bonnie Lee on May 15th, 2025 7:05 PM

With much love and sympathy as you remember a husband, father, grandfather & great-grandfather. Know that we are thinking of each of you. Love from Bill & Bonnie

Condolence from Marg Prout on May 15th, 2025 7:28 PM

Sorry to hear of Bernie’s passing. My condolences to all Bernie’s family. Bernie and I attended Lucan Public School. I have a wonderful class photo taken in 1946 (class 1 & 2). Bernie is standing beside Cecil Hodgins and Alan Ryan. Treasure your memory’s)

Condolence from Linda & Dave Barr on May 15th, 2025 7:59 PM

Very sorry to hear of Bernies passing. His legacy is all the amazing family that follow his steps. Sincere condolences to Marg and family.

Condolence from James Huffman on May 15th, 2025 8:08 PM

To Avery Family
Sorry for your loss 😔

Condolence from Darryl Warren on May 15th, 2025 9:27 PM

My deepest condolences to Marg and the rest of the family. I worked for Bernie and Marg 35 years ago and even though I was only 15 at the time, Bernie and I were good buddies. He had an infectious laugh that I can still hear to this day. Rest easy Bern.

Condolence from Don Lankin on May 16th, 2025 2:43 AM

Marg & Family
Sorry to hear of Bernie’s passing my deepest condolence.

Condolence from Bob and Bonnie Mulholland on May 16th, 2025 4:13 AM

Sorry to hear about Uncle Bern.

Condolence from Leroy and Nancy Maguire on May 16th, 2025 7:42 AM

So sorry for your loss. Our condolences to your family.

Condolence from Jason Simpson on May 16th, 2025 8:04 AM

My condolences to you all during this difficult time

Condolence from Council & Staff of the Township of Lucan Biddulph on May 16th, 2025 2:12 PM

On behalf of the Council and Staff of the Township of Lucan Biddulph, we send our sincere condolences to the Avery Family and offer our appreciation for Bernie’s former role as a Council Member with the Town of Lucan.

Condolence from The Shipley family on May 16th, 2025 7:30 PM

We’re sorry to hear of Bernie’s passing. The Averys have been great neighbours for many years. Thinking of you all.

Condolence from Dave and Joan Goddard on May 16th, 2025 7:34 PM

Sorry to hear of Bernie’s passing. Deepest sympathy to the Avery family.

Condolence from Jackie Arnold on May 16th, 2025 9:41 PM

The Avery Family
Sorry to hear about Bernie. Remember working for him in my earlier years and swimming in the pool. Sending my condolences during this difficult time. Cherish his memories. He will be missed.

Condolence from Pat Ryan on May 17th, 2025 9:29 AM

My sincere condolences to the Avery family. Bernie will certainly be missed, the passing of another longtime resident that was keenly interested in our community. I always enjoyed our chats as Bernie “made his rounds” in the morning. A great guy.

Condolence from Brenda and Gord Moon on May 17th, 2025 12:47 PM

So very sorry to hear of Bernie’s passing. Our deepest condolences to the entire Avery Family. You are in our thoughts.

Condolence from Gary and Linda Hayter on May 17th, 2025 1:53 PM

Marg and family Gary and I are so sorry to hear of Bernie,s passing.Our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this very difficult time.

Condolence from Harry and Elaine Hardy on May 17th, 2025 5:24 PM

Our sincere sympathy . Our thoughts are with the family.
A life time Neighbour . He will be missed.

Condolence from Liz Jenkin on May 18th, 2025 9:53 AM

My condolences to the Avery and Greaves family.

Bernie was one of the first people we met when we moved to Lucan. Through various functions my husband and I got to know him well as he was helpful in introducing us to the Lucan happenings. Gord had many the long conversations while washing the vehicles. I never knew that it would take over 2 hours to wash a pick up.

Condolence from Reg and Joan Crawford on May 18th, 2025 11:42 AM

Dear Marg and Family. It was a shock to read about Bernie’s passing. So hard to believe that he is gone, one of the originals of Lucan. Always had a smile and a chat. The Village of Lucan will not be quite the same without him. Thinking of you Marg at this very difficult time. May you and your family find some measure of peace at this time of sorrow. Rest in peace Bernie.

Condolence from Peter J Bates on May 18th, 2025 5:55 PM

Marg and family, so sorry to hear thelat Bernie is gone. He was always a kind and patient person, employer, friend. He will be missed.

Condolence from Joyce Sovereign on May 19th, 2025 2:50 PM

Dear Marg and Family
I was sorry to read of Bernie’s death,sending my sincere sympathy to all his family,children and grandchildren .
So sorry for your loss,all of you

Condolence from Pete, Jackie & Tracey Martens on May 20th, 2025 6:56 AM

So sorry to hear of Bernie’s passing. Please accept our deepest sympathies.

Condolence from Linda Wilkinson on May 22nd, 2025 10:08 AM

Marg & Family –

My deepest condolences on the loss of Bernie. He was such a good friend to my brother-in-law Tom. I know that they had a lot of good times together over the years.

Thinking of you,

Linda Wilkinson

Condolence from Joan & Bob Finkbeiner on May 22nd, 2025 4:24 PM

Our Prayers go to Bernie’s Avery Family RIP God Bless

Condolence from Dave and Linda Smith on May 22nd, 2025 4:53 PM

Our deepest condolences to all of the Avery Family. There will be many memories mentioned in the next few days, hold them close to your hearts. Many people are going to miss him.

Condolence from Tyler & Mary O’Shea on May 22nd, 2025 6:38 PM

Dear Avery Family,

Our deepest condolences on the passing of your beloved father. During this time of sorrow, may you find strength in the legacy he leaves behind and comfort in the memories you hold dear.

Our thoughts are with you all as you navigate this profound loss.

With heartfelt sympathy,
Tyler, Mary, Steven & Liam

Condolence from Mindy nichol on May 23rd, 2025 10:20 AM

The news of Bernie passing is a great shock. I visited with Bern and Marg recently and was glad that they were doing so well. Bernie was always kind and friendly, working for them for 14 years, as my first job I returned parttime after I had my children. I always enjoyed being at the farm. I am so very, very sorry for your loss.

Condolence from Ray Decoste on May 23rd, 2025 10:39 AM

Marg,
Thinking of you and your family during this difficult time. Sending you love and strength.
It’s a honor to have met Bernie and he’ll forever missed.
Ray & Tess

Condolence from Wayne & Mary Mueller on May 23rd, 2025 11:25 AM

Our condolences to the Avery and Greaves families. Sorry to hear of Bernie’s passing. I always enjoyed when he would stop and visit with me in Lucan or Parkhill. He was always interested in how our washes were doing Always had positive comments and suggestions to go along with his happy demeanour. Will miss his infectious smile most.

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